{"id":5182,"date":"2020-03-16T20:53:41","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T20:53:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5182"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:56:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:56:48","slug":"o-homem-das-cartas-nunca-foi-meu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-das-cartas-nunca-foi-meu\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que nunca foi meu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido \"Amor da minha vida\",<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Estou a escrever-te esta carta com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga. S\u00f3 quero que saibas aquilo por que passei quando estivemos juntos.<\/p>\n

Oh, espera, estar juntos n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma boa palavra.<\/p>\n

Quando eu pensamento <\/i> that we were together would suit here better. Anyway, I have the need to tell you all, so you wouldn\u2019t do the same thing to another woman.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want anyone to feel the pain I felt. I wouldn\u2019t wish that even on my worst enemy.<\/p>\n

Sabes, sempre pensei que envelheceria contigo. Pensei que eras o homem dos meus sonhos.<\/p>\n

Eras o ar fresco nos meus pulm\u00f5es e um arco-\u00edris quando a vida era dura.<\/p>\n

You were there for me, but I didn\u2019t see deeper into your eyes. I didn\u2019t see that you don\u2019t feel the same way.<\/p>\n

Sair comigo era apenas conveniente para ti. Era apenas uma forma de te livrares do stress. No final, precisavas de algu\u00e9m que cozinhasse, limpasse e te fizesse companhia.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what I was for you. Not your alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>, not your loved one. I was just someone who will be there until the right girl pops up. But the catch is that I didn\u2019t know that.<\/p>\n

Eu tendia a viver na ignor\u00e2ncia, pensando que, para n\u00f3s os dois, o acordo j\u00e1 estava feito. Pensava que me ias apoiar quando eu tivesse problemas.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But you weren\u2019t even listening to me while I was talking about them. You were preoccupied texting other women and totally neglecting me.<\/p>\n

Preferias sair com os rapazes em vez de ficares comigo em casa. Nunca compreenderias o meu trabalho, os meus amigos ou a minha fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n

Tudo isso foi demasiado para ti. Mas eu era insistente. Queria que me amasses. Queria que te preocupasses. Queria ser a mulher para quem olharias numa sala cheia de gente.<\/p>\n

I wanted to be the last thing you think of when you go to bed\u2014and the first one that you think of when you open your eyes. I wanted you to love me just like I loved you.<\/p>\n

I was deeply, madly, and without limitations in love with you. But you didn\u2019t see that. Or you just pretended that you didn\u2019t see.<\/p>\n

Era eu que passava a noite a chorar, a pensar em coisas que me deixavam triste. E do outro lado da nossa cama, tu dormias serenamente como um beb\u00e9.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know about the dem\u00f3nios dentro de mim<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And every day was a new battle\u2014a battle for your love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, durante uma dessas noites solit\u00e1rias, vi-me acidentalmente ao espelho. E fiquei espantada! Aquela mulher ao espelho era uma c\u00f3pia de mim.<\/p>\n

I could see on her face that she was crying \u2014 her eyes were red because of all those tears. She was pale, with her mascara mixed with her tears. And I got scared.<\/p>\n

I got scared of what you had transformed me into\u2014no, what I had allowed you to transform me into. That second, I decided to stop.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I decided to burn the bridges between the two of us. I didn\u2019t want to be just one more sad girl. I wanted more. I deserved more. But you couldn\u2019t provide me that.<\/p>\n

Agora, depois de todos estes anos sem te ter ao meu lado, quero agradecer-te.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me mostrares que posso fazer melhor. Obrigado por me deixares ficar mal tantas vezes que aprendi a levantar-me.<\/p>\n

Obrigado<\/a> por n\u00e3o me amares porque, ao faz\u00ea-lo, deste a outro homem a oportunidade de me fazer feliz.<\/p>\n

E, acima de tudo, obrigado por me deixares ir. No dia em que me deixaste ir, sem sequer tentares trazer-me de volta, eu nasci de novo.<\/p>\n

And I wouldn\u2019t change that feeling for anything in the world. In the end I want to thank you once more for making me the person who I am now.<\/p>\n

Sem ti, nunca o teria conseguido.<\/p>\n

Com zero amor,<\/p>\n

A rapariga que nunca foi tua<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear \u201cLove of my life\u201d, I am writing this letter to you having my heart on my sleeve. I just want you to know what I have been through when we were together. Oh wait, being together is not a good word. When I thought that we were together would suit here better. Anyway, I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":74834,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5182","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Was-Never-Mine.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5182","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5182"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5182\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/74834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}