{"id":51963,"date":"2020-01-23T17:49:42","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T17:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51963"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:52:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:52:39","slug":"uma-carta-para-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-para-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para mim antes de me tornar m\u00e3e"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vais tomar caf\u00e9 esta noite com os teus amigos? Aprecie esse momento. Concentre-se e ou\u00e7a verdadeiramente tudo o que eles t\u00eam para dizer.<\/p>\n

Ouve a hist\u00f3ria do terceiro desgosto amoroso que a tua amiga teve esta semana e tenta mesmo, mesmo, mesmo ajud\u00e1-la a sentir-se melhor.<\/p>\n

There will come the time you won\u2019t be able to care for your own heartbreaks and their talks about reckless nights out will annoy you more than anything else.<\/p>\n

Care for them, give them all you\u2019ve got, because when the time comes, they will be there for you, with their hearts and souls, ready to help and raise you up anytime you cave under the pressure.<\/p>\n

They will listen to the endless little troubles you are having with your kiddos and they will constantly praise you for being \u201csuch a good mom.\u201d They are worth absolutely everything you have to offer. Remember that at all times.<\/p>\n

Talvez hoje seja a noite do encontro para ti e para o teu marido. Sim, usa esse vestido vermelho apertado, com certeza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Os saltos altos e o batom tamb\u00e9m. Tenham uma noite inesquec\u00edvel. V\u00e3o a um s\u00edtio qualquer e dancem at\u00e9 se fartarem. Fa\u00e7am amor, apaixonadamente, durante toda a noite.<\/p>\n

In your future, there are many, many sleepless nights that will be a product of a very different kind of love \u2013 you two taking care of your babies.<\/p>\n

Ele far\u00e1 tudo por si e por eles. Ele apoi\u00e1-la-\u00e1 durante os partos, embalar\u00e1 os beb\u00e9s at\u00e9 adormecerem e levar-lhe-\u00e1 o jantar.<\/p>\n

He will work harder than ever, so you can buy all the baby stuff \u2013 and damn, is it expensive!<\/p>\n

Querer\u00e1 mostrar-lhe o quanto o ama, querer\u00e1 dar-lhe tudo, mas, por vezes, n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 mais nada para dar. Fa\u00e7a-o agora.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Go to the movies or cuddle up on the sofa and watch mindless TV shows for hours straight. Don\u2019t go anywhere, just chill out talking to each other. Also, go everywhere; there won\u2019t be much opportunity for that once the babies come.<\/p>\n

Tudo se torna muito mais complicado.<\/p>\n

Haven\u2019t seen your mother for a while? Well, visit her this instant.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Filha<\/p>\n

Bring her favorite cookies from that place you once visited together. You know, the one where you were arguing because of something you can\u2019t even remember now?<\/p>\n

Nunca discuta com ela por motivos t\u00e3o disparatados.<\/p>\n

Ela manter-vos-\u00e1 vivos. Cozinhar\u00e1, limpar\u00e1 e dar-te-\u00e1 banho depois de passares por momentos dif\u00edceis no parto do teu primeiro filho.<\/p>\n

Nothing anyone does after you\u2019ve had children of your own will be as helpful as the things she does.<\/p>\n

Ela conhece-o e ama os seus filhos como se fossem seus. Mostre apre\u00e7o todos os dias, em tudo o que diz.<\/p>\n

Nunca desrespeitem a vossa m\u00e3e. Foi ela que fez por ti tudo o que agora fazes pelos teus filhos.<\/strong> Lembrem-se disso a cada segundo de cada dia. Ela \u00e9 insubstitu\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Nunca, jamais, a qualquer custo, seja a raz\u00e3o das l\u00e1grimas dela. Quando tiverem os vossos filhos, v\u00e3o ficar destro\u00e7ados ao perceberem que ela j\u00e1 derramou tantas l\u00e1grimas por voc\u00eas.<\/p>\n

Ser m\u00e3e parece-lhe agora t\u00e3o simples e bonito, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Fam\u00edlia<\/p>\n

Casam-se, t\u00eam os vossos beb\u00e9s, d\u00e3o-lhes banho e alimentam-nos e isso. Sim, fazes essas coisas. Mas deves saber que nada do que tenhas feito \u00e9 semelhante a ser m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a coisa mais simples, mais natural e, no entanto, dela resulta a mais complexa gama de emo\u00e7\u00f5es. A maternidade. Vai mudar-te.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O seu rosto ser\u00e1 diferente. Aquele brilhozinho nos seus olhos que tem quando algo emocionante acontece estar\u00e1 sempre presente, desde que os seus beb\u00e9s sejam felizes e saud\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

A sua boca endurecer\u00e1 sempre que quiser gritar com eles por pintarem no sof\u00e1 ou correrem pela casa com os p\u00e9s enlameados.<\/p>\n

A sua testa ficar\u00e1 mais enrugada a cada dia que passa, de tanta preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o que tem por eles no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You must also know this: You have never laughed or cried. You think you have, but the moment they hand you your little bundle of joy, everything will become clear. You\u2019ve only felt things half-heartedly up to this point.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Go around and smell everything you love. Smell the grass after the rain, smell those red roses in your grandma\u2019s backyard.<\/p>\n

Go smell Chanel 5 on your mother\u2019s shirt, your favorite chocolate.<\/p>\n

Heck, if you\u2019re up for it, even go and smell the sea. Nothing, and I mean nothing will come close to the smell of your babies’ heads and their little baby-breath mouths.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Cada vez que se apanha a respirar o seu cheiro, chora instantaneamente.<\/p>\n

You will cry because you will be so happy to have felt such a strong emotion, but also because you\u2019ll become aware that it can\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

And hey! You\u2019ll be amazing. You\u2019ll be so brave. You\u2019ll laugh in the face of any kind of misfortune and do it all for your children.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixa de te odiar. P\u00e1ra de pensar que n\u00e3o \u00e9s digno. Por tudo o que est\u00e1s a fazer neste momento, eu agrade\u00e7o-te.<\/p>\n

It will help you become the person you\u2019ll need to be in order to fill a complex mother role.<\/p>\n

I know you are not going to college right now. Don\u2019t worry. You\u2019ll manage to graduate even with two beautiful little girls driving you nuts.<\/p>\n

After calming a sick baby for an hour, you\u2019re going to sit down and study and pass all your exams on the first try with the highest grades.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll even bring them to exams sometimes, because there won\u2019t be anyone to take care of them for you more times than not.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all going to work out just fine. You can manage. You\u2019ll grow stronger each and every day.<\/p>\n

\"Fam\u00edlia<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t mean to tell you this, but I guess you\u2019ll find out anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As vossas filhas s\u00e3o lindas. S\u00e3o exatamente como o pai delas. Fortes, divertidas, r\u00e1pidas nos dedos dos p\u00e9s. Nunca descansam, por isso preparem-se para isso.<\/p>\n

You will share your heart and soul with them, offering every little piece of you like it\u2019s nothing. And they will take it and love you for it.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll cry when you leave the room and run after you wherever you go. You \u2019ll need time alone, but once you get it, you\u2019ll miss them like crazy.<\/p>\n

Eles agora s\u00e3o uma parte de ti. Uma parte maior, mais forte e mais bonita. Nada do que estiveres a fazer agora vai impedi-los de te amar. Devias saber isso e lembrar-te de te amares tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Boa sorte,
\nEu depois de ser m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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