{"id":52549,"date":"2020-02-08T21:35:02","date_gmt":"2020-02-08T21:35:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52549"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:22:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:22:36","slug":"criado-por-uma-mae-solteira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/criado-por-uma-mae-solteira\/","title":{"rendered":"Ter sido criada por uma m\u00e3e solteira tornou-me mais forte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uma mulher precisa de um homem para ser feliz? De modo algum.<\/p>\n<p>As mulheres fortes n\u00e3o precisam de ningu\u00e9m para as validar, ningu\u00e9m para provar o seu valor.<\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher forte sabe que, se alguma vez se encontrar na hist\u00f3ria errada, tem de a deixar.<\/p>\n<p>As m\u00e3es solteiras s\u00e3o uma dessas mulheres. O facto de ter sido criada por uma m\u00e3e solteira fez-me tomar consci\u00eancia de mim pr\u00f3pria, da minha for\u00e7a e do meu potencial.<\/p>\n<p>Ela fez-me valorizar a minha independ\u00eancia e perceber que s\u00f3 vale a pena lutar por rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>Houve muitas noites em que ela cuidou de mim com a cabe\u00e7a ca\u00edda no peito por estar t\u00e3o cansada.<\/p>\n<p>Cada uma dessas noites era seguida de uma manh\u00e3 em que ela tinha de se recompor e ir trabalhar para ganhar dinheiro para me criar.<\/p>\n<p>Money sure isn\u2019t the most important thing in the world, but it becomes a huge concern when you are the only one taking care of your family.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52554\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mother-and-daughter-in-park-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"m\u00e3e e filha abra\u00e7adas num parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mother-and-daughter-in-park-hugging.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mother-and-daughter-in-park-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mother-and-daughter-in-park-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela ensinou-me a valorizar cada c\u00eantimo e a ser um ser humano modesto.<\/p>\n<p>As a child of divorced parents, everyone seemed to hold an assumption I\u2019d be broken in a way.<\/p>\n<p>This was never true for me and I always wondered why I saw pity in people\u2019s eyes when they heard my dad wasn\u2019t around.<\/p>\n<p>Ensinou-me que, independentemente do conjunto de cartas que nos \u00e9 dado no in\u00edcio do jogo, depende de n\u00f3s a forma como as jogamos.<\/p>\n<p>One thing that happened to you doesn\u2019t define who you are. It is up to you to decide your worth and create a life you will be happy living.<\/p>\n<p>She taught me that a powerful woman doesn\u2019t form shallow attitudes, but invests in forming her own standards and boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>Ensinou-me a respeitar-me, a conhecer o meu valor e a esperar que todos me tratem com bondade.<\/p>\n<p>Uma menina imagina-se normalmente no seu futuro com um homem maravilhoso ao seu lado, o amor da sua vida, uma alma g\u00e9mea.<\/p>\n<p>I dreamed of finding one too, but never in my life have I felt like I couldn\u2019t be myself without him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52553\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mom-and-daughter-in-bathrobe-chilling.jpg\" alt=\"m\u00e3e e filha em roup\u00e3o de banho a relaxar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mom-and-daughter-in-bathrobe-chilling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mom-and-daughter-in-bathrobe-chilling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/mom-and-daughter-in-bathrobe-chilling-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m grateful for my amazing husband who takes care of me and our babies every possible way he can, but I also know to appreciate this and not take it for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Ele completa-me, mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma parte vital da minha exist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>Saber que h\u00e1 homens suficientemente fracos para abandonarem as suas fam\u00edlias faz-me ver e reconhecer tudo o que o meu querido homem, a minha alma g\u00e9mea, faz por n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher nunca deve ter medo de se manter sozinha e forte.<\/p>\n<p>Uma m\u00e3e que cria os filhos sozinha, lutando com as finan\u00e7as, a falta de tempo e tantas outras quest\u00f5es, \u00e9 o melhor exemplo de for\u00e7a e empenho.<\/p>\n<p>Children put you at the end of your wits sometimes. I can\u2019t imagine what it was like for my mom to go through that alone, but it makes me certain that the two of us can do it together.<\/p>\n<p>Estou-lhe grata por ele, pela nossa confian\u00e7a e amor.<\/p>\n<p>It gives me comfort to know that whatever I now believe is impossible to overcome as a family, she overcame herself \u2013 alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52552\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/daughter-hugging-mom-grateful-to-have-her.jpg\" alt=\"filha abra\u00e7a a m\u00e3e agradecida por a ter\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/daughter-hugging-mom-grateful-to-have-her.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/daughter-hugging-mom-grateful-to-have-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/daughter-hugging-mom-grateful-to-have-her-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She showed me that just because you think you need a man, that isn\u2019t really true. You can be a stronger, healthier, better self without him.<\/p>\n<p>If you made a commitment to stay by his side, forgiving him for things that shouldn\u2019t be forgiven for, ask yourself who was the one who broke that commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Having children with someone doesn\u2019t make you a slave to that relationship. You can move on, and your kids will move on too if you give them the chance.<\/p>\n<p>Ela nunca falou mal do meu pai, e agora apercebo-me que foi preciso ser uma mulher corajosa, forte e feroz para o fazer.<\/p>\n<p>The times he didn\u2019t show up to see me, she made excuses for him, never wanting me to harbor bad feelings.<\/p>\n<p>You will realize that those who don\u2019t appreciate your efforts aren\u2019t the ones to keep around.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing her, being raised by her, made me realize that I have to live the life I\u2019m going to be proud of.<\/p>\n<p>E sim, estou orgulhoso de mim pr\u00f3prio, porque foi preciso passar pelo inferno e voltar para estar onde estou agora.<\/p>\n<p>Tu podes ser suficiente. Tu \u00e9s o suficiente. \u00c9s tudo, mesmo quando te tratam como se n\u00e3o fosses nada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger-pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ter sido criada por uma m\u00e3e solteira tornou-me mais forte\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger-pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger-pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger-pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger-pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger-pinterest.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Does a woman need a man to be happy? Absolutely not. Strong women need no one do validate them, no one to prove their worth. A strong woman knows that if she ever finds herself in the wrong story, she must leave. Single moms are one of these women. Being raised by one made me&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":52551,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52549","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/being-raised-by-a-single-mom-made-me-stronger.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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