{"id":52556,"date":"2020-02-08T23:02:11","date_gmt":"2020-02-08T23:02:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52556"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:21:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:21:52","slug":"bebe-que-nao-estava-destinado-a-ter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/bebe-que-nao-estava-destinado-a-ter\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o beb\u00e9 que n\u00e3o estava destinado a ter"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eras o meu desejo desde o dia em que o conheci - o teu pai que n\u00e3o queria ser. Desde o in\u00edcio, ele foi o amor da minha vida, o homem dos meus sonhos.<\/p>\n

Era contra todas as regras dos livros, todas as outras directrizes que nos ensinavam a seguir como exemplo para as nossas vidas extraordin\u00e1rias, mas t\u00e3o comuns e aborrecidas.<\/p>\n

But we fell for each other in the most unusual place. The place you\u2019d never think that in your wildest dreams, such a thing called big love could happen.<\/p>\n

E tu, o meu sonho n\u00e3o realizado, eras tudo o que eu queria da vida. Representavas outra oportunidade, outro primeiro passo para come\u00e7ar tudo de novo.<\/p>\n

Implorei \u00e0 vida que me aben\u00e7oasse com essa oportunidade, porque todos os dias, cada vez mais, eu estava a morrer por dentro. At\u00e9 que aconteceu e conheci-o, o homem feito \u00e0 minha medida.<\/p>\n

And a little time has passed since I started wanting to hold you in my arms, wishing for a boy who had his father\u2019s eyes, and his mother\u2019s will to live, love, and laugh.<\/p>\n

\"beb\u00e9<\/p>\n

Since day 1, I wanted everything with him. I did everything for him. And deep down inside I knew I\u2019d never regret it. But why would I?<\/p>\n

O orgulho \u00e9 mais forte do que o amor? Ser\u00e1 que a tristeza e o facto de acabar sozinho, rejeitado por todos, \u00e9 mais forte do que os sentimentos que se experimentam uma vez na vida, se tivermos sorte?<\/p>\n

Do you appreciate yourself more? You deserve better than that? Then you haven\u2019t been given a chance to truly love.<\/p>\n

Viv\u00edamos vidas separadas e uma vida de uni\u00e3o, pois era a \u00fanica forma de estar. Esta era a \u00fanica forma de o nosso amor sobreviver.<\/p>\n

No final, sacrific\u00e1mos o amor pelo qual viv\u00edamos. Ambos decidimos morrer, para que outros pudessem viver.<\/p>\n

But you would change all of that, wouldn\u2019t you!? You would come into this world as an insult to all those rules and guidelines.<\/p>\n

\"m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

O teu nascimento seria o assunto da cidade. Mudarias tantas vidas; farias tantas pessoas chorar. S\u00f3 com a tua inoc\u00eancia e a tua exist\u00eancia pura.<\/p>\n

Rejeitado por toda a gente, com a letra escarlate na testa, eu andaria por estas ruas com orgulho.<\/p>\n

A alegria encheria o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o porque foste feito de amor verdadeiro, aquele que sabemos que s\u00f3 acontece uma vez na vida.<\/p>\n

And you, my boy, would be living proof of that. That love doesn\u2019t come in a package with instructions to who you should or shouldn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t pick a side. Love doesn\u2019t understand the language of names or religion.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t know age or any other dimension but itself. It\u2019s selfish toward selfishness, it\u2019s rude towards sanity. It mocks it and makes it seem insane.<\/p>\n

E se algum de v\u00f3s pensa de outra forma, \u00e9 porque nunca foi amado e nunca amou verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

The one love that feels so natural from the start, that you think you can conquer the world with that person beside you, is the love that rarely comes along \u2013 maybe once in a lifetime, if you get to be so lucky.<\/p>\n

E tu, a pessoa que eu desejava, serias uma coroa dessa pureza. Uma manifesta\u00e7\u00e3o de tudo o que n\u00f3s dois combinamos.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t happen. For all of the written reasons and unwritten guidelines, made for living zombies, who go through life and can\u2019t wait for it to end.<\/p>\n

Your laugh will continue to echo in my ears, just like your father\u2019s will.<\/p>\n

Para sempre te terei nos meus bra\u00e7os e te cantarei uma can\u00e7\u00e3o de embalar, tal como cantei \u00e0s minhas filhas. Mas esta seria uma can\u00e7\u00e3o de embalar para a crian\u00e7a que ainda n\u00e3o nasceu.<\/p>\n

Um rapaz nascido e criado apenas no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You were my wish since the day I met him \u2013 your not-meant-to-be daddy. From the outset, he was the love of my life, the man of my dreams. It was against all the book rules, all the other guidelines that we were taught to follow as an example for our extraordinary, yet so ordinary…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":52558,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-letter-to-the-baby-i-wasnt-destined-to-have.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52556\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52558"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}