{"id":52596,"date":"2020-02-10T11:38:31","date_gmt":"2020-02-10T11:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52596"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:29:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:29:57","slug":"razoes-para-ser-infeliz-no-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/razoes-para-ser-infeliz-no-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"15 raz\u00f5es para te sentires miser\u00e1vel por te teres apaixonado pelo potencial dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. The potential you\u2019re in love with may never come true.<\/h2>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

Toda a gente tem potencial para fazer alguma coisa. Nenhuma vida nascida \u00e9 uma vida in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n

O que acontece \u00e9 que alguns realizam o seu potencial, mas outros seguem um caminho errado e nunca chegam a fazer o que eram capazes de fazer.<\/p>\n

Therefore, by falling in love with a guy like this, the only thing you\u2019re left with is misery.<\/p>\n

2. Gostas dele e ele sabe-o.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

He will take advantage of the fact you\u2019re in love with him\u2014or better put\u2014com o seu potencial<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He will smile at you across the room, knowing he\u2019ll sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to do anything about it because your love is just too strong. Your love has a mind of its own. Once again…misery, it is.<\/p>\n

3. You can\u2019t change him.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have the power to change anyone. That\u2019s the most common misconception of every relationship.<\/p>\n

As pessoas pensam que podem mudar uma pessoa ao seu pr\u00f3prio gosto.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s BS, and it\u2019s better to face that fact now than later.<\/p>\n

4. No fundo, ele n\u00e3o tem a certeza sobre si.<\/h2>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the reason why you fell in love with his potential. He is not letting you into his heart.<\/p>\n

He is not letting you see him for who he is because he\u2019s not sure you\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re prepared to give your everything to someone who is not sure about you. Think about that once again, will you?<\/p>\n

5. When you\u2019re not around, it\u2019s like you don\u2019t exist.<\/h2>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t call you just to see how you are. He won\u2019t show any interest in you unless you\u2019re standing right in front of him.<\/p>\n

Let me put this differently\u2014if you\u2019re not physically present, he won\u2019t give you much attention.<\/p>\n

This only shows that you\u2019re convenient for him, for now. When he gets a better opportunity, you\u2019re out of the game for good.<\/p>\n

6. Is falling in love with someone\u2019s potential enough?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Is it enough to make your lonely nights not so lonely, to hold your hand when you\u2019re scared, or kiss you when you\u2019re broken?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que se apaixonar por um potencial vale a pena partir o seu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

7. Quando um homem quer alguma coisa, ele vai atr\u00e1s dela!<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A man will never wait to get something he thinks belongs to him\u2014in this case, you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re miserable because he is clearly not showing any interest in you. Better said, it\u2019s the other way around. You\u2019re chasing him!<\/p>\n

8. Ele s\u00f3 te d\u00e1 uma fatia do biscoito.<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

He is charming. He treats you with care, but only when he feels like it. He flirts with you, and then he stops and turns around like he doesn\u2019t even know you.<\/p>\n

The only feeling you can get\u2014and you do get\u2014from situations including him is confusion. Does he like you or doesn\u2019t he?<\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re unhappy because he\u2019s immature.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sure, that relationship you\u2019re trying to pull off looks perfect at moments. You go out on dates and dinners.<\/p>\n

You have a lot of fun, but that doesn\u2019t change the fact that he is an immature mama\u2019s boy who<\/span><\/a> n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado para enfrentar a realidade e tomar o assunto nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n

10. You think\u2014we all think\u2014we are their saviors.<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Listen to me, a man like that doesn\u2019t need saving.<\/p>\n

Pensamos que podemos ajudar essas grandes qualidades escondidas a virem \u00e0 superf\u00edcie.<\/p>\n

The truth is, they will never come out, as long as he keeps them in. It\u2019s up to him, not you.<\/p>\n

11. You can\u2019t ignore the fact that there is still a spark of passion between you.<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t ignore the moments when your relationship looked like a real one, a true and everlasting one.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t ignore the good in him, the freakin\u2019 potential. It\u2019s killing you. It\u2019s making you miserable.<\/p>\n

12. Aceita apenas a quantia que ele lhe d\u00e1.<\/h2>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

Aceita migalhas do seu tempo, da sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e do seu amor.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s completamente subordinada \u00e0 sua vontade e \u00e0 sua miseric\u00f3rdia de te dar aten\u00e7\u00e3o ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

13. Ele fala com outras raparigas.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Since he doesn\u2019t take your relationship seriously, he invests a lot of time in flirting and talking to other girls.<\/p>\n

Ele faz isto a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

It can even happen when he\u2019s with you. After all, to him, it\u2019s all the same.<\/p>\n

14. Est\u00e1 a desperdi\u00e7ar o seu tempo.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The time you\u2019ve spent with him is the time you\u2019re never getting back.<\/p>\n

Talvez se recuse a aperceber-se disso agora, mas, infelizmente, acabar\u00e1 por se aperceber a dada altura.<\/p>\n

Depois, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde para reparar os danos que ele lhe causou.<\/p>\n

15. You\u2019re tired and miserable because you\u2019re sick of making him see your situation from your point of view.<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It\u2019s excruciatingly painful to try to show him how you feel and make him see the two of you with your eyes.<\/p>\n

The pain you\u2019re feeling is crippling. It\u2019s destroying you from the inside. Yet…nothing changes.<\/p>\n

Durante quanto tempo \u00e9 que v\u00e3o continuar com esta farsa?<\/em><\/p>\n

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