{"id":52692,"date":"2020-02-12T12:39:22","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T12:39:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52692"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:31:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:31:50","slug":"como-um-homem-toxico-a-faz-sentir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-um-homem-toxico-a-faz-sentir\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneiras prejudiciais que um homem t\u00f3xico faz voc\u00ea se sentir"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 natural<\/strong> \u00c9 normal que se sinta magoado depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 perfeitamente normal que chore, que se sinta mal e que lamente a perda do seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n

However, it is completely different when you\u2019re involved with someone toxic. In fact, this type of man makes you feel more than one damaging emotion and here are 10 of them.<\/p>\n

De cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A primeira coisa que todos os homens t\u00f3xicos que deixas entrar na tua vida te fazem \u00e9 partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e deixar-te cicatrizes irrepar\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

He will shatter it with every move he makes to the point where you\u2019ll think it is utterly impossible to glue it back together.<\/p>\n

Yes, every break-up probably leaves you heartbroken. However, the difference between this man and all the other guys you were ever involved with is that a toxic man won\u2019t only break your heart once you two part ways\u2014he will be doing it throughout your entire relationship.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you two won\u2019t have any happy moments but I can assure you that sadly, pain will prevail.<\/p>\n

He will hurt you in ways you couldn\u2019t have imagined and he will end up crushing your vulnerable heart into a million pieces.<\/p>\n

Emocionalmente esgotado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois de passar algum tempo ao lado de uma pessoa t\u00f3xica, fica-se cansado.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m not talking about physical tiredness here only, even though it is also one of the side effects which you will likely have.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about that feeling when you\u2019re emotionally drained and worn out. About losing the will to live and not having the strength to keep on going.<\/p>\n

Um homem t\u00f3xico deixa-nos<\/a> depressed and feeling like you can\u2019t get out of bed. He will make you want to give up on everything you set your mind to.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que um tipo como este, as discuss\u00f5es constantes que provoca e as l\u00e1grimas constantes que te faz chorar esgotam-te ao ponto de s\u00f3 quereres passar o resto da tua vida fechada no teu quarto, com um cobertor na cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re too weak to finish your everyday chores, let alone actually do something with your life.<\/p>\n

Insano<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estarei a exagerar? Aconteceu mesmo tudo como me lembro ou estou a imaginar coisas?<\/p>\n

Serei eu a louca? Ele est\u00e1 a iluminar-me ou interpretei mal toda a nossa conversa?<\/p>\n

If these are some of the questions you\u2019ve been asking yourself lately, you\u2019re on your way to feeling completely insane.<\/p>\n

And that is exactly what this guy wants\u2014manipulating you into thinking that you\u2019re the crazy one and making you doubt your own right mind.<\/p>\n

Of course, he won\u2019t accomplish all of this right from the start.<\/p>\n

However, after a while spent next to him, you will have a tiny voice in your head, telling you that maybe he is right, after all, and that you\u2019re the one making all of a fuss over nothing.<\/p>\n

After some time, you\u2019ll start examining your own memory and view of things.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start doubting yourself and your own reason.<\/p>\n

Est\u00fapido<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que um homem t\u00f3xico far\u00e1 com que se sinta \u00e9 est\u00fapida.<\/p>\n

Besides undermining your intelligence and acting like he is smarter than you and that he always knows better during your relationship, you\u2019ll continue feeling this way even after you break loose from him.<\/p>\n

The moment you get out of this toxic romance and the moment you start observing it from a distance, you will be wondering how come you couldn\u2019t have seen some things sooner.<\/p>\n

How come you were such a fool who believed in this man\u2019s lies and how could you have thought that he would change?<\/p>\n

After going through hell with him, you\u2019ll start questioning all of your choices.<\/p>\n

Tem maturidade suficiente para gerir a sua pr\u00f3pria vida e pode confiar na sua capacidade de julgamento?<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re around a toxic boyfriend, you\u2019re never pretty, smart, beautiful, attractive or interesting enough.<\/p>\n

No matter what you do, how hard you try, what big sacrifices you make and how deeply you care for him\u2014nothing you ever do will be good enough.<\/p>\n

At first, he tries to \u2018improve you\u2019 and \u2018for your own good\u2019. His insults are masked by pieces of advice and you don\u2019t notice that he is actually doing his best to humiliate you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see how he is constantly treating you like you\u2019re the submissive one.<\/p>\n

Como ele est\u00e1 sempre a agir como se estivesse acima de ti e que devias considerar-te sortuda por um partido como ele p\u00f4r os olhos em ti.<\/p>\n

Once you realize what is going on, it becomes too late. You\u2019re already dealing with loads of insecurities he managed to deeply root inside of you.<\/p>\n

Sem darmos por isso, come\u00e7amos a questionar o nosso pr\u00f3prio valor e a pensar que tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o somos suficientemente bons.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re doing your best and this man is never pleased so you must be the problem.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Quando passas toda a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o a comparar-te com todas as raparigas que passam pelo teu ex e, sobretudo, com as ex dele, \u00e9 natural que os teus ci\u00fames atinjam o auge.<\/p>\n

When you spend years hearing that all those other girls are better than you and that you could never be like them, it is natural for you to start hating them, without knowing they have nothing to do with the fact that you\u2019re dating a toxic man who is only putting you down with his nasty comments.<\/p>\n

When you are being told that you\u2019re replaceable and that you\u2019re nothing special, when you\u2019re cheated on more than once, when every other girl\u2019s looks and qualities have been rubbed in your face, it is natural that your jealousy becomes unhealthy.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re living a hell on earth while watching all of your friends in happy relationships, having the time of their lives, you become envious.<\/p>\n

And that is exactly what your toxic partner wants\u2014to turn you into a much worse person than you actually are.<\/p>\n

Culpado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re the victim of this story, somehow, your toxic boyfriend managed to turn the tables and make you look like the bad guy here.<\/p>\n

Even though he is the one who\u2019s treating you like shit, he succeeds in putting all the blame on you.<\/p>\n

Em vez de assumir a responsabilidade e apoiar as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, \u00e9 muito mais f\u00e1cil para ele acus\u00e1-la do facto de a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o estar a desmoronar-se.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 mais f\u00e1cil faz\u00ea-la sentir-se culpada do que enfrentar a realidade e admitir para ambos que ele \u00e9 o \u00fanico culpado.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s cheating on you, he did it because you deprived him of sex, because you don\u2019t look the way you used to or because this other woman gave him something you couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Either way, the bottom line is that you pushed him into someone else\u2019s arms and he would have never thought of having an affair if you hadn\u2019t caused him to.<\/p>\n

Se ele est\u00e1 a abusar de si, \u00e9 porque o deixou nervoso, olhou para ele de forma errada ou gritou enquanto discutiam. E a lista continua.<\/p>\n

Incapaz de amar<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019re done with a toxic boyfriend, you\u2019re convinced that you can never love another man the way you loved him.<\/p>\n

Pensa que ele matou a sua capacidade de gostar de algu\u00e9m do sexo oposto, de deixar entrar um novo rapaz ou de voltar a confiar em algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014he makes you believe that all other men are just like him.<\/p>\n

Que n\u00e3o vale a pena procurar algu\u00e9m melhor porque todos os namorados a tratariam ainda pior do que ele.<\/p>\n

Por isso, \u00e9 muito melhor manter-se na sua zona de conforto, onde sabe o que esperar.<\/p>\n

After all, at least you know you loved this toxic man once and that is better than being with someone you\u2019re totally indifferent toward.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, a toxic man won\u2019t only persuade you that you can\u2019t love someone else after him. In fact, he will also do his best to make you believe that no man could ever love you the way he did.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, quem \u00e9 que quereria uma mulher emocionalmente afetada ao seu lado? Quem teria a paci\u00eancia de esperar que se abrisse e o deixasse entrar?<\/p>\n

Que homem estaria disposto a curar as tuas feridas e a viver com as tuas cicatrizes?<\/p>\n

Que homem perderia o seu tempo com uma mulher que precisa de ser tratada e que est\u00e1 t\u00e3o danificada?<\/p>\n

Besides, if this guy who\u2019s known you for so long claims that you have so many flaws and if he keeps on pointing out your imperfections, what else could this new man see?<\/p>\n

If he can\u2019t tolerate you and if he thinks you\u2019re not enough, every guy who comes into your life will surely consider you as not meant to be loved.<\/p>\n

Assustado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra emo\u00e7\u00e3o que todos os namorados t\u00f3xicos despertam nas suas v\u00edtimas \u00e9 o medo.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m talking here about irrational, paralyzing fear which doesn\u2019t allow you to function properly.<\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019re scared of everything this man is capable of. What will he do to you next?<\/p>\n

After that, when you take off your rose-tinted glasses, you\u2019re afraid of leaving him. Do you have what it takes to get by without him?<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019re done with him, you\u2019re scared of going back to the real world. Will you make it?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re afraid of feeling like this forever. Will you ever heal and move on for real?<\/p>\n

And finally, you\u2019re scared of moving on. Will your next experience end up the same way this one did?<\/p>\n

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