{"id":52713,"date":"2020-02-12T13:18:13","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T13:18:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52713"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:03:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:03:04","slug":"o-homem-perdeu-se-no-dms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-perdeu-se-no-dms\/","title":{"rendered":"O teu homem perdeu-se nas minhas DMs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I heard you found me in your man&#8217;s DMs.<\/p>\n<p>Fico contente por ter visto a sua primeira <em>&#8216;Are you free tonight?&#8217;<\/em> para mim.<\/p>\n<p>Clicou na minha foto e leu todas as minhas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/entertainment\/legendas-para-instagram-800-citacoes-mais-epicas-para-as-suas-fotografias\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Legendas do Instagram<\/span><\/a>?!<\/p>\n<p>Verificaste a minha biografia? Acabaste de me seguir no Instagram?<\/p>\n<p>Se quiseres, podes adicionar-me no Facebook tamb\u00e9m porque estou ansioso por ver as tuas capacidades de persegui\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem feliz de barba preta com um telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are very much welcome to come and hang out with me and my girls. We can talk about hair, make-up, clothes, movies and food, colors and weather, glitter and rainbows or we can get straight to the point\u2014about men, heartbreaks and cheaters?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sei que provavelmente me odeias, apesar de eu n\u00e3o ter feito nada de mal. O teu homem \u00e9 que fez. Eu era apenas uma garantia, uma v\u00edtima que ficou com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o magoado no processo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Searching, exploring and analyzing people\u2019s profiles does not necessarily show you who they are. I am not my social media profiles. Nobody is.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52717\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg\" alt=\"mulher alegre sentada numa cadeira junto \u00e0 janela com as pernas no ar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Behind pictures, descriptions, likes, comments, shared songs, stories and posts with &#8216;heartbreaking poems&#8217; by famous poets, there is a human with a tangled web of mess and desires, wishes and urges.<\/p>\n<p>That is the place where you found me\u2014among your man&#8217;s cravings and lust.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m wondering how you felt. Was it as bad for you as it was for me when I found out that you exist?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A sua raiva \u00e9 maior do que a minha dece\u00e7\u00e3o ao descobrir que ele foi levado? O teu ci\u00fame \u00e9 t\u00e3o intenso como a minha empatia? As tuas l\u00e1grimas doem tanto como a minha confian\u00e7a abalada?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52719\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma jovem triste a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am wondering about a lot of things I will never get an answer to, and that\u2019s OK. Not everything in life deserves an answer or explanation.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I want you to know that it wasn\u2019t my fault your man got sidetracked.<\/p>\n<p>Eu sou uma mulher, tal como tu. Em todas as minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores, dei tanto quanto pude receber.<\/p>\n<p>Among all my desires, dreams, hopes and wishes that I keep hidden behind my perfect pictures, I have to take care of someone else&#8217;s too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sei que o acusei de persegui\u00e7\u00e3o no in\u00edcio, mas eu tamb\u00e9m sou culpado disso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher num caf\u00e9 ao telefone junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I clicked on your photo, checked your bio and read what you put in the descriptions of your photos. I don\u2019t really know why I did that.<\/p>\n<p>Acho que estava \u00e0 espera de obter algumas respostas. Acho que queria encontrar algum sentido nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o sem sentido.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Acho que s\u00f3 queria saber como era a namorada dele. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00f3 queria saber se sabes que o teu homem perdeu o rumo, te traiu e acabou nas minhas DMs.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quero que saibas que, assim que soube de ti, cortei todo o contacto.<\/p>\n<p>I comfort myself that I&#8217;ve learned about men and will not repeat the same mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Que vou verificar se s\u00e3o solteiros ou comprometidos antes de ter esperan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De certa forma, tenho pena de n\u00f3s os dois.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52722\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"silhueta de uma jovem triste junto ao oceano ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por ti, porque ele te estava a apunhalar pelas costas, e por mim, porque me custa deixar de comunicar com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Habituei-me a isso. Foi bom ter algu\u00e9m que nos d\u00e1 tanta aten\u00e7\u00e3o e que pensa muito bem de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Agora que descobri o que est\u00e1 por detr\u00e1s, estou a sentir todo um espetro de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e nenhuma delas \u00e9 agrad\u00e1vel de sentir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O teu homem fez uma pequena confus\u00e3o na minha vida. Mas acho que quando descobrires quem ele realmente \u00e9, ele vai fazer uma ainda maior na tua.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, his DMs haven\u2019t stopped, even though I stopped replying. I&#8217;ve received 23 more messages in total from your man and I haven\u2019t replied to any of them.<\/p>\n<p>I know he expects me to answer sooner or later, but I don&#8217;t want to. For your sake or for my own.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52723\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"O teu homem perdeu-se nas minhas DMs\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I heard you found me in your man&#8217;s DMs. I am glad you saw his first &#8216;Are you free tonight?&#8217; to me. Did you click on my photo and read all my Instagram captions?! Did you check my bio? Did you just follow me on Instagram?? If you want, you can add me on Facebook&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":52725,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}