{"id":52743,"date":"2020-02-12T14:50:18","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T14:50:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52743"},"modified":"2022-10-18T12:06:09","modified_gmt":"2022-10-18T12:06:09","slug":"como-deixar-de-perseguir-os-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-perseguir-os-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"Como deixar de perseguir os homens e recuperar o seu poder"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 o in\u00edcio de um novo ano. O novo ano vem com muitas resolu\u00e7\u00f5es de Ano Novo.<\/p>\n

Para as mulheres solteiras, as resolu\u00e7\u00f5es incluem frequentemente a procura de um parceiro. Uma resolu\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um \u00f3timo ponto de partida, mas a menos que esteja disposta a fazer algo diferente este ano, os seus padr\u00f5es de relacionamento n\u00e3o mudar\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Como mulheres, muitas vezes atribu\u00edmos grande parte da culpa pelos nossos fracassos nos relacionamentos aos nossos colegas homens. Como casamenteira e treinadora de encontros, aprendi que os nossos padr\u00f5es de disfun\u00e7\u00f5es nos relacionamentos come\u00e7am connosco.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a conseguir o que quer dos homens, experimente estes passos:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be the communication lead<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the Dark Ages. Their messages to you did not go missing. This is also not Harry Potter; the owls didn\u2019t lose their letters to you.<\/p>\n

This is 2020, so if you don\u2019t hear from them, they don\u2019t want to talk to you.<\/p>\n

Se o homem em quest\u00e3o tiver o seu n\u00famero, ele sabe onde a encontrar. Nunca deve ser voc\u00ea a iniciar a mensagem de texto ou a chamada.<\/p>\n

The initiation of every conversation speaks volumes about who is most interested. Don\u2019t be more interested in someone than they are interested in you.<\/p>\n

You should be the person being pursued. I don\u2019t agree with many of the damsel in distress values promoted by the classic Disney movies but Cinderella got the art of pursuit down to a T. You should be treated like the prince treated Cinderella.<\/p>\n

O pr\u00edncipe fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para encontrar a leg\u00edtima dona do sapatinho de cristal. Ele queria-a e esfor\u00e7ou-se por isso.<\/p>\n

A little distance goes a long way. If you\u2019re reading this and you have fallen prey to being the communication lead, there is still hope.<\/p>\n

Pode mudar rapidamente a din\u00e2mica, deixando de iniciar a conversa. Se ele n\u00e3o iniciar a conversa, n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 mais comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se deres por ti a responder imediatamente \u00e0 mensagem dele quando ele te deixa \u00e0 espera de uma resposta<\/a>, p\u00e1ra.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t save your valuable time<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

As you know, there are only 24 hours in a day. No, that\u2019s not a lot of hours. It\u2019s true, it is nearly impossible to get anything done. All true facts.<\/p>\n

Se algu\u00e9m fizesse de si uma prioridade, de alguma forma caberia nas suas 24 horas.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o o fez, saiba que foi uma escolha consciente da sua parte. Muitas vezes, as palavras que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o ditas t\u00eam mais significado do que as palavras que s\u00e3o ditas. Se um homem estiver interessado, arranjar\u00e1 tempo para a ver, telefonar-lhe e dizer-lhe que \u00e9 importante para ele.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t need you to make all of the plans. He won\u2019t need you to figure out how he might be able to \u2018squeeze\u2019 you into his hectic schedule.<\/p>\n

When a man values you, it won\u2019t be mistaken. You won\u2019t need your girlfriends to validate what his intentions are.<\/p>\n

When you value your time, you won\u2019t need to ask him when he is next available. He will ask you out with enough notice to make it clear that you are not his \u2018backup\u2019 plan.<\/p>\n

Se receber uma mensagem de \u00faltima hora e aceitar, j\u00e1 iniciou a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Como mulheres solteiras, \u00e9 frequente desperdi\u00e7armos o nosso tempo livre com a disponibilidade para encontros e socializa\u00e7\u00e3o. Uma das melhores coisas que as mulheres solteiras podem fazer para proteger o seu valioso tempo \u00e9 planear as suas semanas com anteced\u00eancia e cumprir um hor\u00e1rio. A sua vida e os seus planos est\u00e3o em primeiro lugar porque se valoriza a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Deixar de diminuir a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

We all deserve to have people in our lives who want us there. They make the effort to be there for us. It\u2019s reciprocated with our efforts to be there for them.<\/p>\n

Lembram-se de quando, na escola secund\u00e1ria, aprenderam sobre os pesos e contrapesos no governo federal?<\/p>\n

Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ideal, cada pessoa tem uma fun\u00e7\u00e3o na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e faz apenas a sua fun\u00e7\u00e3o. O efeito de cada pessoa fazer apenas o seu trabalho \u00e9 que cria espa\u00e7o para a outra parte fazer o seu.<\/p>\n

O esfor\u00e7o \u00e9 igual e ningu\u00e9m se excede, pelo que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 equilibrada.<\/p>\n

Proper balanced relationships are exciting. They leave us feeling good about ourselves because the other person\u2019s effort shows they value us.<\/p>\n

Quando se comete o erro de fazer tudo na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, prejudica-se a auto-confian\u00e7a e, temporariamente, a autoestima.<\/p>\n

These diminishments occur because you begin wondering why you weren\u2019t good enough. If you find yourself already questioning this, there is something you can do today to change it. Start listing three amazing qualities about yourself every day.<\/p>\n

I always advise my clients to do this in the mirror each morning. It sounds silly but it feels so good and validates your worth by the most important person in your life\u2014you!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t miss out on the right people<\/h2>\n

\"Silhueta<\/p>\n

When your tunnel vision is on those you have to chase, you can\u2019t focus on the people waiting to value you. If those people are already present in your life, you can\u2019t see them because you\u2019re not giving them a chance to be seen.<\/p>\n

If the people who value you are not in your life yet, you won\u2019t be able to receive them because your heart and eyes will be elsewhere.<\/p>\n

Em 29 de outubro de 2019, havia 7,7 mil milh\u00f5es de pessoas no planeta. Uau. Esse n\u00famero \u00e9 surpreendente para o seu senso de valor.<\/p>\n

Se h\u00e1 tantas pessoas no planeta, h\u00e1 pelo menos uma pessoa que ficar\u00e1 encantada com o que tem para oferecer. A probabilidade de haver mais do que uma pessoa que o valorize \u00e9 astron\u00f3mica.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, deixar de o perseguir e ver o que acontece<\/a>. Start making a note of the people in your life who value you. Don\u2019t hesitate to diversify your focus.<\/p>\n

If you have done a self-assessment and can honestly say you\u2019re fixated on one person, look at your other options. Some of you are thinking that a certain someone in your life will change. Maybe they will and maybe they won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you have no control over anyone else but life is too short to be lived with rose-colored glasses when viewing your relationships. There is someone who will very clearly accept, appreciate and adore you but you\u2019ll have to readjust your focus.<\/p>\n

Hey girl, I\u2019m no Ryan Gosling but you are worth the chase, the pursuit and the adoration of love. Put an end to your chasing days and realize your worth.<\/p>\n

X,
\nTFB\"Mulher<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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