{"id":52859,"date":"2020-09-13T21:16:53","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T21:16:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52859"},"modified":"2022-08-27T09:48:15","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T09:48:15","slug":"diferencas-entre-amor-e-paixao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/diferencas-entre-amor-e-paixao\/","title":{"rendered":"10 diferen\u00e7as cruciais entre amor e paix\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Qual \u00e9 a diferen\u00e7a entre amor e paix\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>Muitas pessoas assumem que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-e-real\/\">amor<\/a> e a paix\u00e3o s\u00e3o a mesma coisa. No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que estes dois sentimentos intensos s\u00e3o completamente diferentes, embora seja muito f\u00e1cil mistur\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n<p>So, how do you know what&#8217;s the difference between love and infatuation?<\/p>\n<p>For starters, when you\u2019re infatuated, you feel like you\u2019re in seventh heaven, you\u2019re carried away and your head is in the clouds.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122776 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a abra\u00e7ar-se e a ser t\u00e3o feliz\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-hugging-and-being-so-happy-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have a strong feeling of lust and incredible euphoria every time you think of the object of your infatuation and it is like you\u2019re magnetically drawn to them.<\/p>\n<p>A julgar por esta descri\u00e7\u00e3o, provavelmente descreveria todas estas emo\u00e7\u00f5es intensas como um verdadeiro amor por uma pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Well, we\u2019re here to shatter your delusions and give you some of the most important differences between these two concepts and help you realize whether you\u2019re experiencing infatuation or love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica vs. car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122777 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem bonito em sua casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-in-his-house-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of the first differences between love vs. infatuation lies in the reason why you and your partner fell for each other. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014the first thing you usually notice about a person is their appearance.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re physically attracted to something about their body or face or to the way they speak, smile, dance or talk to you.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando se trata de paix\u00e3o, esta atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que existe entre os dois, mesmo depois de algum tempo.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much time you spend with this person, the thing that draws you to them is their body; if you\u2019re a guy, you\u2019re proud of yourself for having a girl with a great ass or big boobs and if you\u2019re a girl, you\u2019re happy that you\u2019ve got yourself a catch with incredible abs and muscles.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, when it comes to love, all of this becomes irrelevant and what begins to matter is this person\u2019s character traits.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re attracted to your partner\u2019s kindness and devotion, to the fact that you can trust them and the fact they love you back unconditionally.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you still can\u2019t fail to notice that your girlfriend has a smoking hot body but you know you would love her the same even if she gained weight or cut her hair short.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014you would still want to kiss her and hold her in your arms the same way you wanted to when she looked like a top model.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Not only that\u2014when it comes to real love, your partner becomes more and more beautiful with each day that passes, or at least, you perceive them that way.<\/p>\n<p>Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, ele continuar\u00e1 a ser o seu \u00fanico interesse amoroso e a pessoa mais atraente do mundo, na sua opini\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Eles poderiam acabar numa cadeira de rodas, ficar com rugas ou transformar toda a sua apar\u00eancia de qualquer outra forma, mas continuarias a sentir-te incrivelmente excitado por eles.<\/p>\n<p>You love them the same when you wake up next to them without make-up on, with your hair all messed up and with smelly breath and when they\u2019re all dressed up, looking their best.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, infatuation doesn\u2019t make you feel that way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relacionadas: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/love-bombing-vs-infatuation\/\">Bombardeamento de amor Vs. Apaixonamento: 14 diferen\u00e7as cruciais<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Instantaneamente vs. um processo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122780 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1.jpg\" alt=\"amor \u00e0 primeira vista no parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/love-at-first-sight-in-park-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>According to most dating experts, there is no such thing as love at first sight. In fact, this concept of love at first sight is actually infatuation because this is how infatuation takes place\u2014in the blink of an eye.<\/p>\n<p>It happens instantly and before you know it, you\u2019re head over heels for this special someone.<\/p>\n<p>When something like this happens to you and when you lose the ground under your feet just by looking at a person of the opposite sex, you\u2019re convinced that this is fate.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Everything is like in the movies; you two look at each other and you think they\u2019re the one you\u2019ve been waiting your entire life, that you\u2019ve finally met your soulmate and the one person you should spend the rest of your life with.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but the truth is actually quite different. In fact, in most cases, this instant sexual attraction most people mistake with love at first sight is nothing but that\u2014physical attraction and infatuation.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, true love is something different and it is a longer and more complex process. I don\u2019t know what fairy tales taught you but in real life, love needs to grow, it takes time and effort.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso conhecer a pessoa real antes de poder dizer que a ama. \u00c9 preciso chegar ao \u00e2mago da sua personalidade, encontr\u00e1-la em diferentes situa\u00e7\u00f5es da vida e descobrir muito sobre ela antes de poder dizer que a ama verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n<p>So, how can you actually love someone you had this instant chemistry with? Well, you can\u2019t\u2014you can only be infatuated by them and there is a huge difference between these two concepts.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Intimidade f\u00edsica vs. uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122781 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-passionate-in-bed-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014sex is a crucial part of every loving relationship and whoever tries to convince you otherwise is not telling the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade se voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro n\u00e3o se est\u00e3o a dar bem no quarto, porque estes problemas podem facilmente transferir-se para outros aspectos da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>So, the difference in infatuation vs love doesn\u2019t lie in the quality of your sex life; in both cases, it is an important aspect and something that should be constantly worked on.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, a principal diferen\u00e7a reside no n\u00edvel de intimidade e no facto de a intimidade significar apenas sexo ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Quando algu\u00e9m \u00e9 um objeto da sua paix\u00e3o, a \u00fanica forma de se relacionarem verdadeiramente \u00e9 debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is. T\u00eam uma vida sexual fant\u00e1stica, experimentam coisas novas, fazem experi\u00eancias no quarto e s\u00e3o obviamente compat\u00edveis nesta \u00e1rea da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando se trata de amor verdadeiro, percebe-se que, numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, a intimidade \u00e9 muito mais do que puro sexo. Voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro criam la\u00e7os a n\u00edveis muito mais profundos do que apenas f\u00edsicos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t resolve your arguments with sex, you don\u2019t use every opportunity to get laid and your relationship simply doesn\u2019t revolve around only that.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you two can spend an entire night, for example, holding hands and staring into each other\u2019s eyes, without laying hands on one another and still have an amazing time.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to bedroom activities, you\u2019re not only having sex\u2014you\u2019re making love every time you sleep together.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re both concerned about the other person\u2019s needs as well and for the two of you, this act represents much more than pure physical pleasure\u2014it is also a deeper connection which brings you two even closer and takes your relationship to a whole new level.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Borboletas vs. calma<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122782 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal rodeado de \u00e1rvores\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-surounded-with-trees-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Infatuation is addictive love. It&#8217;s a new love that hits you and takes over you completely before you even get a chance to realize what happened.<\/p>\n<p>It is all about butterflies in your stomach you can\u2019t get rid of, as much as you try. It is about excitement and the feeling as if you\u2019re going to fly directly into space when your crush looks at you.<\/p>\n<p>It is about fireworks and storms. It is the feeling that you can\u2019t get yourself to go to sleep just because you know you\u2019ll see the object of your affection the next day.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re infatuated, you don&#8217;t see typical signs of love and you feel like you\u2019re on drugs, like you couldn\u2019t breathe without this person by your side and like they\u2019re the only one you need to properly function in this world.<\/p>\n<p>These strong emotions get the best of you; your palms are sweaty, you get tongue-tied and can\u2019t even talk properly, your pupils get bigger, your voice shakes and this person is the only one you can ever think of.<\/p>\n<p>The worst part is that this happens at all possible stages of your relationship. When they\u2019re not around, you constantly miss them or when something is off, you\u2019re worried about what will happen next.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, when the two of you are together, you feel like you\u2019re in seventh heaven for having them next to you and you can\u2019t think straight because you\u2019re consumed by the pleasure this person\u2019s presence causes in you.<\/p>\n<p>Sounds romantic, right? Well, it\u2019s not\u2014it is unhealthy and scary.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You two have obviously been dragged into a circle of codependency and this entire roller coaster of emotions makes you think that this is the real deal. Let me tell you that it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re young, the last thing you want is a peaceful relationship without any ups and downs. You think of these couples as boring and you assume that their loving relationships have gotten into a rut, since they lost all the excitement.<\/p>\n<p>However, as you get older and more mature, you understand that is what real love is all about\u2014about the calmness. Yes, being in love makes you feel butterflies in your stomach but loving someone makes you feel at complete peace.<\/p>\n<p>This person\u2019s presence calms you down, makes you feel like you\u2019re at home and like nothing and nobody could get to you. They become your harbor and your anchor, which keeps you safe against all the storms.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Curto prazo vs. longo prazo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122784 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field.jpg\" alt=\"casal no campo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-in-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Outra diferen\u00e7a crucial entre paix\u00e3o e amor \u00e9 a sua dura\u00e7\u00e3o. Quanto tempo dura a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou quanto tempo esperam que ela dure?<\/p>\n<p>Embora a paix\u00e3o seja um sentimento intenso, na realidade dura muito menos tempo do que o amor verdadeiro. O amor queima e simplesmente desaparece, como se nunca tivesse existido, sem deixar um rasto permanente na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not claiming that every true love interest lasts a lifetime. Sadly, some of them end and are not meant to be, despite all of your efforts to make things work.<\/p>\n<p>However, the fact is that love doesn\u2019t have an expiration date and even when it ends, it still remains important. It shapes you as a person and forever stays an unerasable part of who you are.<\/p>\n<p>True love lasts for years and it doesn\u2019t depend on your financial status, looks, friends, family, education or anything else; it just exists, despite everything.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It accepts all of your and your partner\u2019s changes and it grows together with you in all of its selflessness.<\/p>\n<p>Desafia o tempo e todos os outros obst\u00e1culos que a vida lhe possa colocar. \u00c9 mais forte do que tudo o que se atravessa no seu caminho e n\u00e3o pode ser destru\u00eddo por nada nem por ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Parece demasiado rom\u00e2ntico, eu sei. No entanto, s\u00f3 pensamos assim at\u00e9 o experimentarmos e at\u00e9 vermos que \u00e9 mesmo a verdade.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, infatuation ends at the first glance of trouble. It replaces you with someone better and more convenient and it doesn\u2019t put up a decent fight before dying off for good.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ci\u00fame vs. confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122785 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher nervosa enquanto homem segura o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/nervous-woman-while-man-holding-phone-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in love, it is natural for you to be scared of losing the person next to you so jealousy and possessiveness appear.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them around and you\u2019re convinced you couldn\u2019t live without them.<\/p>\n<p>Tornamo-nos excessivamente controladores e pensamos que, ao comportarmo-nos como se f\u00f4ssemos donos do objeto do nosso profundo afeto, impediremos que ele nos deixe.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, normalmente, acontece o contr\u00e1rio. Muitas vezes, obt\u00e9m-se um efeito completamente contraproducente e acaba-se por afugent\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, when you truly love your partner, there is no place for jealousy or possessive behavior. Of course, you wouldn\u2019t be indifferent if you, for example, see them kissing someone else but your fear of losing them doesn\u2019t control you and is not at the center of your feelings for them.<\/p>\n<p>You know that you can live without this person\u2014you just don\u2019t want to (contrary to addictive love, where you&#8217;re convinced you wouldn&#8217;t make it without the object of your infatuation).<\/p>\n<p>You know you would eventually survive their absence\u2014you just choose to fight for their presence every day.<\/p>\n<p>Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel como esta, a confian\u00e7a m\u00fatua \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes em que se baseia o vosso amor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have the need to stalk your partner, to follow them around, to control their every move or to check up on them all the time simply because you trust that they wouldn\u2019t do anything behind you back, even if they had a chance to.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, se ele quer mesmo estar com outra pessoa, quem \u00e9 voc\u00ea para o impedir? A \u00faltima coisa que quereria \u00e9 que ele ficasse ao seu lado enquanto pensa noutra pessoa ou enquanto o trai emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>You see, one of the signs of love is its selflessness. You have such strong emotions for someone that you want them to be happy, even if that happiness doesn&#8217;t include you.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes the other way around\u2014it is not that you\u2019re faithful because you\u2019re scared of getting caught; you don\u2019t cheat on them because you couldn\u2019t imagine yourself next to someone else and because you would rather be alone than with anyone else.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ressentimento vs. perd\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122786 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir em casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-arguing-in-their-house-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ego is a huge part of relationships that are built upon infatuation. Whenever the other person does something you don\u2019t like or hurts you in any way, you think about ways to pay them back and give them a taste of their own medicine.<\/p>\n<p>You hold grudges forever and the resentment often eats you alive. You simply have to get even and you feel angered if you don\u2019t get your revenge.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando se trata de amor, ambos est\u00e3o conscientes de que o perd\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that in this case scenario, you should allow the other person to walk over you all the time while you do nothing about it but you won\u2019t plot your vengeance about every little thing just to fix your broken ego either.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In fact, when they apologize, you accept it and you two move on. You know they mean it when they tell you how sorry they are and you know that there is no point in constantly going back over the past if you\u2019ve both agreed on leaving something behind you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t lie to them that you\u2019ve managed to forgive them for their misdeeds just so you could get them on thin ice or pay them back.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you take your time and decide whether you\u2019re really capable of forgetting about the episode which hurt you and move on, as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de amor, faz-se o poss\u00edvel para compreender o parceiro, mesmo quando n\u00e3o se concorda com ele.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t judge them and try walking a mile in their shoes in order to understand their reasons and in order to eventually forgive them.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t let your emotional baggage ruin your relationship and you keep an open heart to all possible solutions which will bring progress to your romance.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Paix\u00e3o vs. amizade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122787 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"morena sexy a beijar o namorado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sexy-brunnete-kissing-with-her-boyfriend-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re infatuated by someone, you see them as nothing but your lover and romantic partner. At first sight, you assume that this is more than enough and that a healthy relationship shouldn\u2019t bring you anything more than that.<\/p>\n<p>However, only once you experience true love do you understand the importance of other things. You realize that your loved one shouldn\u2019t be your lover only\u2014they should be your best friend as well.<\/p>\n<p>You understand the real meaning of partnership. This is your person, your partner in crime and your other half\u2014the first person you go to when you\u2019re in trouble or when you need advice or guidance.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 algu\u00e9m que nos faz rir, que tem a capacidade de enxugar todas as nossas l\u00e1grimas, que pode iluminar o nosso dia mais negro e que \u00e9 o nosso familiar mais querido e o nosso melhor amigo em todo o mundo.<\/p>\n<p>O seu parceiro torna-se o seu confidente e a pessoa com quem mais gosta de passar o tempo. \u00c9 algu\u00e9m a quem pode contar os seus segredos mais obscuros, sem medo de ser julgado, algu\u00e9m que o ouve e que partilha os seus interesses.<\/p>\n<p>Without losing your individuality, the two of you become an item and function together. You\u2019re not just a romantic couple\u2014you\u2019re a team and you go against the world.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Idealiza\u00e7\u00e3o vs. aceita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122788 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a comer bolachas na cozinha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-eating-cookies-in-kitchen-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Outra diferen\u00e7a crucial entre amor e paix\u00e3o reside na perce\u00e7\u00e3o que voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro t\u00eam um do outro. \u00c9 a diferen\u00e7a entre expectativas realistas e irrealistas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re infatuated by another person, you only love the best version of them and you don\u2019t dig under the multiple layers of their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/significado-de-pessoa-complexa\/\">personalidade complexa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not concerned by their flaws and you don\u2019t even put any effort into trying to get to know their dark side, which we all have, simply because you don\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes the other way; you always try to look your best in front of your partner, to have a smile on your face and to be in the best of moods, even when you\u2019re actually at your lowest.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t bother this person with your financial problems or family emergencies, you don\u2019t share your troubles with them and you don\u2019t let them in all the way.<\/p>\n<p>Consequentemente, ambos acabam por se idealizar um ao outro, romantizando toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e pensando que tudo \u00e9 muito melhor do que \u00e9 na realidade.<\/p>\n<p>However, when it comes to love, you accept the person next to you completely. You are not wearing rose-tinted glasses and you don\u2019t think of them as some superhuman who is never cranky, nervous or in a bad mood.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t try to change them and you\u2019re completely aware of their imperfections. Not only that\u2014you love them for those imperfections because you\u2019re aware that they also shaped them into the person they are today.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t expect this person to be flawless and you are completely fine with everything their personality and appearance consist of.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you love them for who they really are and you wouldn&#8217;t change any part of their character, even if you had a chance to.<\/p>\n<p>When real love is in question, you and your partner care for each other the same at your best and at your worst. You don\u2019t try to put each other in a box and you have realistic expectations of your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Drama vs. compromisso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122789 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a falar ao telefone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-woman-talking-on-phone-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re infatuated with another person, you experience strong feelings regarding everything about them. You enjoy the constant tension in your relationship and you even find it cute.<\/p>\n<p>You see the fact that you and your loved one can\u2019t get along as signs of strong chemistry and steaming passion.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00eas os dois discutem e fazem um esc\u00e2ndalo por cada pequena coisa. Afinal, o sexo de maquilhagem \u00e9 sempre mais selvagem depois de a discuss\u00e3o ter terminado.<\/p>\n<p>What you clearly fail to see is that the two of you might share some intense feelings but that we\u2019re not talking about love but of deep affection and sexual attraction, since you are obviously not compatible enough to have a healthy, mature romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that couples who don&#8217;t fight don&#8217;t share intense emotions or that those who love each other don\u2019t fight. They most certainly do but their arguments are never without a point and they don\u2019t create drama over nothing.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, their fights are always as productive as possible and they use them as learning points to make their relationship better. They are aware that they\u2019re on the same team and it is always them against the problem, never them against each other.<\/p>\n<p>When you love your partner, you are aware of the importance of compromise. You see your relationship as a two-way street and you\u2019re both ready to put in your maximum effort to make things work.<\/p>\n<p>Neste cen\u00e1rio, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para o ego ou para o aumento da autoestima e nunca importa quem est\u00e1 certo ou errado.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t compete in who won more arguments and the only important thing is to find a solution that will suit both of you and will be best for the future of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-122774\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/10-Crucial-Differences-Between-Love-And-Infatuation-pinterest-3.jpg\" alt=\"10 diferen\u00e7as cruciais entre amor e paix\u00e3o\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/10-Crucial-Differences-Between-Love-And-Infatuation-pinterest-3.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/10-Crucial-Differences-Between-Love-And-Infatuation-pinterest-3-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/10-Crucial-Differences-Between-Love-And-Infatuation-pinterest-3-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the difference between love and infatuation? Many people assume that love and infatuation are the same thing. Nevertheless, the truth is that these two intense feelings are completely different even though it is quite easy to mix them up. So, how do you know what&#8217;s the difference between love and infatuation? For starters,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":122772,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52859","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/10-Crucial-Differences-Between-Love-And-Infatuation-1-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? 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