{"id":5287,"date":"2020-09-19T13:01:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T13:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5287"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:43:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:43:53","slug":"queria-que-lutasses-por-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/queria-que-lutasses-por-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu queria que tu lutasses por mim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido \"amor da minha vida\",<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ainda me lembro daquela noite em que eu disse que estava tudo acabado. Lembro-me de estares \u00e0 minha frente e olhares para mim como se estivesses a olhar para um estranho na rua.<\/p>\n

Ainda sinto aqueles arrepios no corpo quando acabaste de dizer, \u201cOkay\u201d<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

Sem sequer tentar lutar por mim. Sem sequer tentar falar comigo e pedir desculpa por toda a merda que me fizeste. Aceitaste a minha decis\u00e3o como se fosse a coisa mais normal do mundo.<\/p>\n

Espera! Quem \u00e9 que est\u00e1 louco aqui?  <\/i><\/b>Deixamos de lado a pessoa que amamos t\u00e3o facilmente?  <\/i><\/b>Don\u2019t you fight for someone who means the world to you?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Those questions kept running through my head while I watched you leave. I didn\u2019t know what you felt inside of you. But I know that I didn\u2019t get the reaction I wanted to see.<\/p>\n

You left me like I was never yours. Like we haven\u2019t spent all these years together\u2014dreaming about the house we will buy and our kids that will play in the backyard.<\/p>\n

Com apenas uma palavra, afundaste todos os meus barcos. A tua ignor\u00e2ncia fez-me sentir como um tolo. Parecia que eu era o \u00fanico que estava apaixonado na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Parecia que eu era o \u00fanico que estava pronto para lutar a cada segundo.<\/p>\n

E tu? Era apenas um cobarde porque deixaste-me ir t\u00e3o facilmente<\/a>. Como se eu nunca te tivesse pertencido. Como se nunca te tivesses preocupado comigo.<\/p>\n

Like I was just a stranger in the street. And that moment, I realized that I don\u2019t want you anymore. I don\u2019t need a man who won\u2019t fight for me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need an almost relationship. I deserve so much more from my life, and unfortunately, you can\u2019t provide me with that.  <\/p>\n

Queria que lutasses por mim<\/a>, but you couldn\u2019t do even that!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If you are such a coward who lets go of the one you love, then I don\u2019t need you either. I want a man who will be there for me in my moments of sorrow.<\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem que me apoie nas minhas decis\u00f5es. Preciso de um homem que<\/a> dar-me-\u00e1 a sua m\u00e3o quando a vida se tornar dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

E, querida, tu n\u00e3o \u00e9s esse homem. E nunca foste.<\/p>\n

I was just blindly in love with you so I couldn\u2019t see other men who were trying to win me over. I trusted you when you said that you want to marry me.<\/p>\n

\"bela<\/p>\n

Confiei em ti quando disseste que querias que eu fosse a m\u00e3e dos teus filhos. E comprei aquela merda toda como uma idiota enquanto tu tinhas um plano diferente em mente.<\/p>\n

Fizeste-me sentir t\u00e3o segura contigo, mas estava a pensar em boas maneiras de me deixar. <\/a>E senti que algo estava errado.<\/p>\n

I saw that in your eyes. Your eyes weren\u2019t the same as before. They weren\u2019t looking at me with the same passion.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, eram frios, como se algu\u00e9m tivesse apagado a chama que ardia dentro deles. E os olhos s\u00e3o o espelho da alma.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how I knew something was wrong. But I never imagined something like this could happen.<\/p>\n

Nunca pensei que o amor da minha vida me deixasse partir. Pensava apenas que est\u00e1vamos a passar por um percal\u00e7o na estrada e que resolver\u00edamos todos os nossos problemas com uma conversa.<\/p>\n

But I was so wrong. I didn\u2019t see this one coming. And I must admit it knocked me off my feet. I couldn\u2019t believe that this was happening to me.<\/p>\n

To us. I thought we were a happy couple\u2014the one that will grow old together. But no, God had a different plan for us. He wanted to see us separated.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And now, when I look back, I am a happy and a satisfied woman. You want to know why? Because I was saved from a man who didn\u2019t deserve me.<\/p>\n

From a man who would sell me for his dreams. From a man who was a coward and couldn\u2019t give his heart. To the man who was afraid to love and to be loved.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a man like that. I wanted a man who would fight for me, but you even couldn\u2019t do that. You didn\u2019t show me any respect. You didn\u2019t say that you were sorry.<\/p>\n

You just left me like I was a dog in the street. You didn\u2019t care if I would be okay, if I would scream and have a nervous breakdown.<\/p>\n

Foste-te embora como se eu nunca tivesse sido tua. E obrigada por fazeres isso. Agora, eu sei o que quero da minha vida.<\/p>\n

Agora, eu sei que tipo de homem eu mere\u00e7o<\/a>. I know my worth and I know that I won\u2019t give you a second chance.<\/p>\n

Because I gave you so much more than you deserved\u2014so many sleepless nights waiting for you to come home.<\/p>\n

So many talks late at night, telling you that you shouldn\u2019t be worried about our problems, because if we love each other we will solve them all.<\/p>\n

In all that mess, I failed to see that you didn\u2019t want us to solve it all. You wanted to ruin our kingdom that we were building together, so we can\u2019t enjoy it.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

For some reason, you thought that we can\u2019t work. And I wanted us to work. I really did.  <\/p>\n

But your words were the last ones. And I couldn\u2019t do anything about that. I can just thank God for saving me from a broken man like you.<\/p>\n

Because my life with you would be everything but happy. With a broken man, nothing is easy, and I wasn\u2019t ready for someone like that.<\/p>\n

Queria que lutasses por mim e me dissesses que preferias estar sozinho a estar com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

But unfortunately, I never heard those words coming out of your mouth. I heard just a simple \u201cOkay\u201d that I will remember until I die.<\/p>\n

E s\u00f3 por causa dessa palavra, nunca me vou permitir ter um quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> como eu tinha contigo.<\/p>\n

E tu? <\/i><\/b>Um dia, espero que olhes para tr\u00e1s e te arrependas de tudo o que fizeste para que tudo acabasse!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Com zero amor,<\/p>\n

A rapariga que desistiu<\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear \u2018love of my life\u2019, I still remember that night when I said it was over. I remember you standing in front of me and looking at me like you are looking at a stranger in the street. I still feel those chills in my body when you just said, \u201cOkay\u201d. Without even trying to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}