{"id":52918,"date":"2020-02-14T18:49:17","date_gmt":"2020-02-14T18:49:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52918"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:43:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:43:50","slug":"estou-emocionado-e-nao-estou-a-pedir-desculpa-por-isso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-emocionado-e-nao-estou-a-pedir-desculpa-por-isso\/","title":{"rendered":"Sou emotivo e j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me desculpo por isso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde quando \u00e9 que as emo\u00e7\u00f5es se tornaram t\u00e3o proibidas?<\/p>\n<p>Estou t\u00e3o cansada de pedir desculpa por ser eu pr\u00f3pria. O meu lado emocional \u00e9 uma parte t\u00e3o grande de mim, porque \u00e9 que tenho de o suprimir para que os homens gostem de mim?<\/p>\n<p>Esconder as minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, como algo que pode ser um inc\u00f3modo para a pessoa com quem estou, tornou-se t\u00f3xico para a minha alma.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking to you \u2013 the guy who constantly tells me to chill down and cool off, and asks me so many times why am I being such a girl about things.<\/p>\n<p>Parece que aceitei o facto de os homens n\u00e3o serem muito bons a demonstrar emo\u00e7\u00f5es e, mesmo quando pensam que o s\u00e3o, \u00e9 muito menos do que aquilo de que realmente preciso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52921\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-kisses-girlfriend-in-her-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"homem beija a namorada na bochecha\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-kisses-girlfriend-in-her-cheek.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-kisses-girlfriend-in-her-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-kisses-girlfriend-in-her-cheek-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want to share my sensitivity and my softness with you. I want to be able to admit that I care for you deeply, that I\u2019m excited to have you in my life.<\/p>\n<p>Quero dizer-vos que vos amo. Quero ser gentil contigo e cuidar de ti quando estiveres cansado ou doente, e quero que queiras fazer o mesmo por mim.<\/p>\n<p>I want to be able to unravel my messy thoughts on you when there\u2019s disturbance in my life of any kind.<\/p>\n<p>Quero partilhar a minha raiva, n\u00e3o quero acalmar-me. Preciso que estejas l\u00e1 para mim, que fales comigo, que me compreendas.<\/p>\n<p>If you are the right person, you will be able to take it. You SHOULD be able to take each part of me \u2013 my love, my messiness, my anger.<\/p>\n<p>It shouldn\u2019t bother you that I sometimes cry watching my favorite movie.<\/p>\n<p>I might be too sensitive sometimes, but that\u2019s okay. I need it and you should accept it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53012\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-suffer-from-depression.jpg\" alt=\"a rapariga sofre de depress\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-suffer-from-depression.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-suffer-from-depression-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-suffer-from-depression-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I feel things strongly and that\u2019s what makes me appreciate everything you do for me.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to hide the parts of me that I think you may not like and won\u2019t be able to love.<\/p>\n<p>I will no longer apologize for my emotions. I\u2019m not sorry that I\u2019m feeling scared or sad or in love.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of feeling like I have to put up a wall of strength and coldness to be recognized as strong.<\/p>\n<p>Putting on a brave face is something I\u2019m very good at, but it\u2019s simply not something I\u2019m willing to do. I can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52923\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-worried-at-work.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada no trabalho\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-worried-at-work.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-worried-at-work-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-worried-at-work-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, I take things personally. Yes, I might overreact sometimes. I wouldn\u2019t have it any other way.<\/p>\n<p>Sentir as coisas \u00e9 o que nos torna vivos. Quanto mais profundamente sentimos algo, mais vivos estamos.<\/p>\n<p>Chega de ignorar as minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es at\u00e9 ao ponto de as adormecer. Chega de me esconder e esquecer quem sou s\u00f3 para me encaixar no papel que me imaginam.<\/p>\n<p>Fingir a minha indiferen\u00e7a em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a coisas de que gosto muito leva-me a sentir-me indiferente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>If my emotions make you uncomfortable, I\u2019m sorry to say you have no place in my life whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53013\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-eating-popcorn-while-watching-tv.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a comer pipocas enquanto v\u00ea televis\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-eating-popcorn-while-watching-tv.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-eating-popcorn-while-watching-tv-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woman-eating-popcorn-while-watching-tv-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been to the point of existence where nothing made a difference for me. I had to do things as hardcore as possible in order to try and feel something.<\/p>\n<p>Libertei-me disso. N\u00e3o vou voltar para essa pris\u00e3o porque o facto de eu ser emocional \u00e9 um fardo para ti.<\/p>\n<p>I have a big heart and I\u2019m freaking tired of being afraid to let others see that. Every word, every action, and every ounce of energy goes straight to my soul.<\/p>\n<p>Being aware of my emotions brings power to me and I\u2019ll never let you take that from me. My value doesn\u2019t decrease because you are unable to see my worth.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t tell me not to cry. Don\u2019t tell me to calm down. You wouldn\u2019t tell the wind to keep calm or to the thunder to stay silent.<\/p>\n<p>As for\u00e7as dentro de mim s\u00e3o muito mais poderosas do que tu sabes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52924\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-trying-to-make-his-wife-feel-better.jpg\" alt=\"homem a tentar fazer a sua mulher sentir-se melhor\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-trying-to-make-his-wife-feel-better.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-trying-to-make-his-wife-feel-better-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-trying-to-make-his-wife-feel-better-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be a man and accept all the womanhood inside me. Don\u2019t fight it. Don\u2019t push it away.<\/p>\n<p>Eu tamb\u00e9m te sentirei, se estiveres pronta para me sentir.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done apologizing. If there\u2019s not enough strength, will, and love inside you to grasp the wholeness I\u2019m giving, stay away.<\/p>\n<p>Shallow, superficial relationships don\u2019t interest me anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I give my all and if you\u2019re ready to give your all, I am so very willing to accept it.<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o, posso dizer-vos honestamente uma coisa:<\/p>\n<p>Afasta-te de mim e p\u00e1ra de desperdi\u00e7ar o meu precioso tempo!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52920\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore-pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Sou emotivo e j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me desculpo por isso\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore-pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore-pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore-pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore-pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore-pinterest.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When did emotions become such a big no-no? I am so freaking tired of apologizing for being myself. My emotional side is such a big part of me, why do I have to suppress it for men to like me? Hiding my emotions, as something that might be an inconvenience for a person I am&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":52919,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52918","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/im-emotional-and-im-not-apologizing-for-it-anymore.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52918","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52918"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52918\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52919"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52918"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52918"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52918"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}