{"id":5301,"date":"2020-03-13T13:46:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T13:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5301"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:25:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:25:00","slug":"como-acabar-com-um-narcisista-em-9-passos-poderosos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-acabar-com-um-narcisista-em-9-passos-poderosos\/","title":{"rendered":"Como acabar com um narcisista em 9 passos poderosos"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re looking for ways and inspiration on how to shut down a narcissist and regain your power, you’re in just the right place!<\/p>\n

Narcisista<\/span> pessoas<\/span><\/a> are very capable when it comes to taking over somebody\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll use anything and everything to make people do what they want and they\u2019ll be the ones to get the best of it. Summarized, it’s called narcissistic abuse.<\/p>\n

People who suffer from a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) tend to ruin other people’s self-esteem for the sake of becoming dominant.<\/p>\n

The main manipulation tactic they use is gaslighting, aka silent treatment (especially in toxic relationships and other types of abusive relationships), used to gain control over the victim’s emotional responses, which is a form of emotional abuse.<\/p>\n

Narcissists have a delusional sense of self-worth and a lack of empathy, which is their primary tool when it comes to destroying their victim’s self-worth.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Pedir desculpa ou decidir deix\u00e1-lo em paz n\u00e3o \u00e9 do interesse deles.<\/p>\n

Dealing with toxic people and psychopaths can result in severe damage of the victim’s mental health because the victim often doesn\u2019t know how to set boundaries and deal with a narcissist’s bad behavior.<\/p>\n

Esta pessoa pode ser o seu vizinho, o seu chefe, o seu colega de trabalho, um parceiro narcisista, um pai narcisista, um ex narcisista, um dos seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos ou um familiar.<\/p>\n

Aprender a lidar com as suas tend\u00eancias narcisistas e a recuperar o seu poder \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio para evitar mais danos e iniciar o processo de cura.<\/p>\n

Agora, toda a gente luta contra os narcisistas \u00e0 sua maneira, mas as mulheres fortes conseguem lutar contra eles ao ponto de os vencerem no seu pr\u00f3prio jogo, por isso pod\u00edamos definitivamente aprender uma coisa ou duas com elas!<\/p>\n

\u00c9 ASSIM QUE AS MULHERES FORTES DERRUBAM AS PESSOAS NARCISISTAS<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Os narcisistas s\u00e3o muito bons a encontrar pessoas simp\u00e1ticas com o objetivo de alimentar os seus egos<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nOs narcisistas precisam de pessoas simp\u00e1ticas \u00e0 sua volta, para se sentirem melhor consigo pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Precisam de pessoas simp\u00e1ticas para alimentar os seus egos! \u00c9 que se rodeiam de pessoas assim, enganando-as para que pensem que s\u00e3o iguais.<\/p>\n

A diferen\u00e7a \u00e9 que as pessoas simp\u00e1ticas s\u00f3 nos dizem coisas simp\u00e1ticas quando s\u00e3o realmente sinceras, enquanto um narcisista usa palavras simp\u00e1ticas s\u00f3 para nos enganar e fazer com que sejamos amigos dele.<\/p>\n

Agir\u00e3o como os estranhos mais simp\u00e1ticos (especialmente se precisar de ajuda com alguma coisa), convenc\u00ea-lo-\u00e3o de que s\u00e3o a pessoa mais amorosa e carinhosa do mundo, elogiando-o constantemente, mimando-o e fazendo-o sentir-se especial.<\/p>\n

But they won\u2019t mean any of the nice words they say, their compliments will be fake and the only reason why they would ever want to make someone special is so that they can break them easily later on.<\/p>\n

O problema \u00e9 que as mulheres fortes n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o ing\u00e9nuas e \u00e9 por isso que s\u00e3o mestras em evitar ser um suprimento narcisista.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Strong women can easily spot whether somebody truly means what they’re saying or if it\u2019s just a trick.<\/p>\n

As mulheres fortes est\u00e3o muito conscientes da sua apar\u00eancia e tamb\u00e9m das suas outras qualidades e, no momento em que notam que algu\u00e9m \u00e9 ing\u00e9nuo, desvinculam-se imediatamente, aplicam a regra do n\u00e3o contacto e expulsam-no das suas vidas para sempre!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 4 coisas que v\u00e3o acontecer quando fores <\/span>Sem contacto<\/span> Com um narcisista<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Os narcisistas s\u00e3o bons a convencer os outros de que outra pessoa \u00e9\/era o problema<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nA narcissist’s grandiose sense of self makes them feel superior over everyone around them.<\/p>\n

Ignoram os seus pr\u00f3prios erros e s\u00e3o capazes de atribuir a culpa a outra pessoa num piscar de olhos.<\/p>\n

They are in constant pursuit of their victim’s weaknesses so they can turn them against them. Accepting they did something wrong is never an option (unless they use it as a tool to manipulate you.)<\/p>\n

O que quer que aconte\u00e7a, segundo um narcisista, aconteceu por causa de outra pessoa e ele est\u00e1 disposto a fazer tudo para convencer a v\u00edtima de que \u00e9 ele o culpado de tudo.<\/p>\n

O problema \u00e9 que as mulheres fortes nunca permitem que algu\u00e9m as use como um terreno de despejo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll admit their part of the guilt but they\u2019ll demand the same from the other side.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t ever allow a narcissist to put the blame on them or anybody else in fact and that\u2019s why narcissists have a tendency to avoid strong women.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: O guia definitivo para ignorar um narcisista (Spotting and The Aftermath)<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Narcissists might make many long-term promises to raise the stakes in a relationship and make sure the person they\u2019re dating is highly invested<\/h2>\n

\"jovem
\nNarcissists lure their victims into believing they have a future together and that\u2019s when the victim lets down their guard completely.<\/p>\n

They fool the victim into believing that they have a strong connection, that they have future plans and that they’ll always be there for them no matter what.<\/p>\n

But in reality, the only thing they’re doing is giving fake promises so that they can easily manipulate their victim and make them think that they’re one hundred percent serious and devoted in the relationship.<\/p>\n

In reality, the only thing they’re doing is preparing the terrain for massive manipulation.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re that victim, you\u2019ll start planning your joint future and you won\u2019t be aware that the narcissist is using that open window to use you in any and every possible way.<\/p>\n

If you’re that victim, you’ll be blind to see the narcissist’s real nature because they are so good at hiding their true self.<\/p>\n

The problem is that strong women don\u2019t let down their guard so easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca acreditam apenas em palavras, esperam sempre que as outras pessoas tomem medidas que sigam as suas promessas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where their conflict with a narcissist arises because, as you might\u2019ve imagined, narcissistic people never keep their promises.<\/p>\n

As mulheres fortes nunca se baseiam em palavras, promessas ou desculpas. Em vez disso, s\u00f3 acreditam em ac\u00e7\u00f5es e em coisas que podem ver com os seus pr\u00f3prios olhos.<\/p>\n

4. Os narcisistas t\u00eam tend\u00eancia para manipular as pessoas<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nNarcisista<\/span> as pessoas controlam as outras<\/span><\/a> tendo a capacidade de influenciar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es ou as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es para que as coisas corram a seu favor.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam tend\u00eancia a fazer-nos acreditar em cada uma das suas palavras sem nunca questionar nada.<\/p>\n

And if you ever complain about being mistreated or similar, they will just accuse you of overreacting and being the crazy one, even though you know for a fact that you’re the victim in the whole story.<\/p>\n

But, unfortunately, they’re not interested in hearing any of it. They are only interested in hearing what they want to hear.<\/p>\n

They’re only interested in making you feel less worthy so that they can break you more easily but with strong women, this is not such an easy task.<\/p>\n

O problema \u00e9 que as mulheres fortes s\u00e3o extremamente dif\u00edceis de manipular.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they don\u2019t feel like doing something or if they have a strong opinion about something, it\u2019s highly unlikely that even the strongest manipulators out there, such as narcissistic people, will trick them into doing things they don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

When a strong woman senses that someone is trying to trick her or make her feel like she’s the crazy one, she makes sure to let them know that she will not dance to their tune.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher forte decide imediatamente cortar todo o contacto com ele e elimin\u00e1-lo da sua vida para sempre. (Este \u00e9 um dos conselhos mais s\u00e1bios sobre como acabar com um narcisista, por isso n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de o memorizar).<\/p>\n

5. Narcissists often bring down the people they\u2019re surrounded by<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nPara que um narcisista se sinta superior, todos os outros t\u00eam de estar abaixo dele.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why narcissistic people often undermine people, bring them down or bring up their flaws at the worst possible moment.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist is feeling down, they\u2019ll use anything and everything they can to bring you down as well, so they can feel better about themself.<\/p>\n

Humilham-no pessoalmente, nas redes sociais e at\u00e9 em p\u00fablico para se sentirem donos de si.<\/p>\n

O problema \u00e9 que as mulheres fortes n\u00e3o se deixam abater t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o muito conscientes das pessoas que s\u00e3o e sabem a for\u00e7a que t\u00eam.<\/p>\n

As mulheres fortes tamb\u00e9m est\u00e3o conscientes dos seus defeitos e trabalham-nos todos os dias, pelo que nunca deixam que ningu\u00e9m as censure.<\/p>\n

Estas coisas saem sempre pela culatra aos narcisistas quando as usam em mulheres fortes.<\/p>\n

Tentam atra\u00ed-los para o seu mundo t\u00f3xico, mas acabam por falhar sempre que o tentam fazer.<\/p>\n

6. Os narcisistas t\u00eam tend\u00eancia para agir de forma diferente em p\u00fablico e em privado<\/h2>\n

\"grupo
\nNarcissistic people have many faces or many shades of one face and they pull out the one that\u2019s the most convenient for the situation.<\/p>\n

For example, they\u2019ll agree with your opinion on something when you\u2019re alone together but when you\u2019re out with other people, they\u2019re most likely to change their opinion in order to please others.<\/p>\n

Or they will pretend that they agree with you only when they’re surrounded by other people so that they can see how kind and loving they are.<\/p>\n

And when you’re back to your four walls, they all of a sudden change their mind, telling you that they didn’t really mean what they said in front of others or that they made a mistake.<\/p>\n

You see, narcissists have a tendency to adapt to every possible situation and make it look like they’re just awesome to be with, when in reality they are the complete opposite and strong women know that!<\/p>\n

O problema \u00e9 que mulheres fortes<\/b><\/a> nunca tolerar\u00e1 este tipo de comportamento<\/strong>. They\u2019ll immediately expose the narcissist and confront him in public.<\/p>\n

Isto arruinar\u00e1 o seu sentido ilus\u00f3rio de autoestima e for\u00e7\u00e1-los-\u00e1 a deixar de estar sempre a fazer de Deus.<\/p>\n

And given that narcissistic people are not accustomed to this unusual behavior, they probably won\u2019t even know what hit them.<\/p>\n

7. Narcissists play by the rule \u2018attack is the best defense\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When you catch a narcissist in a lie or when you discover their masquerade, you\u2019ll fight them for two minutes about their behavior and then you\u2019ll be defending your actions for the next two hours.<\/p>\n

They just throw the ball in your court and keep you so busy with defending yourself that you\u2019ll forget what the fight was about in the first place.
\nIt’s one of their favorite manipulation tactics used when they want to solely focus on you instead of the real problem which is them.<\/p>\n

Atacam-nos com todas as suas armas narc\u00edsicas e esperam que nos rendamos.<\/p>\n

O problema das mulheres fortes \u00e9 que nunca diminuem a sua voz e nunca permitem que ningu\u00e9m desvie os seus pensamentos de algo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, when a narcissist tries to switch topics, they\u2019ll cut them at the root by saying that isn\u2019t the topic of the conversation and that they can get back to that later but they\u2019ll deal with the original issue first.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t leave them a way out and they\u2019ll have to show their real face, wanted or not.<\/p>\n

And if they still refuse to switch topics, strong women make sure to tell them to go to hell because they’re not worthy of their time.<\/p>\n

If you’re wondering how to shut down a narcissist, this is the way to do it.<\/p>\n

8. Quando apanhadas, as pessoas narcisistas fazem-se de v\u00edtimas<\/h2>\n

\"casal
\nWhen their real face is revealed, they\u2019ll try to hide behind the mask of a victim.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll make excuses for being the way they are and blame it on their ‘abusive’ past, by their narcissistic mother or similar.<\/p>\n

Fazem-no para despertar a empatia das pessoas e para que nos sintamos mal por elas, de modo a podermos perdoar-lhes os seus pecados.<\/p>\n

Querem que fique com a consci\u00eancia pesada por os acusar, porque eles s\u00e3o a v\u00edtima em toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o voc\u00ea. (\u00c9 claro que isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo verdade).<\/p>\n

When busted, a narcissistic person turns into an innocent child just to make you feel guilty about everything you’ve said or everything you’re about to say or do.<\/p>\n

But in reality, they’re still the same manipulative person, ready to do anything for their selfish goals.<\/p>\n

The problem with strong women is that they do have emotions and they do feel empathy toward others but they\u2019re perfectly able to recognize when somebody is playing them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll never be tricked into pitying somebody they should be mad at.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll stand untouched by the puppy eyes that narcissists try to pull and they won\u2019t allow emotions to cloud their judgment.<\/p>\n

Strong women always put reason before their emotions when they feel that something’s utterly wrong.<\/p>\n

They don’t let others take advantage of them because they’re ready to fight till the last breath.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Como magoar emocionalmente um homem narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

9. As mulheres fortes enfrentam os seus agressores!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nThey don\u2019t dim their voices, they don\u2019t let others pretend to be something that they are really not and they don\u2019t allow others to use them as their puppet or to make them dance to their tune.<\/p>\n

Defendem com orgulho aquilo em que acreditam e s\u00e3o fi\u00e9is a si pr\u00f3prios, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what they expect from others as well.<\/p>\n

Todas as tentativas de um narcisista, todos os truques que fazem, todos os jogos que tentam jogar, nunca funcionam com mulheres fortes, porque elas v\u00eaem atrav\u00e9s deles.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why strong women are so intimidating to narcissistic people.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how strong women shut narcissistic people down!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Reaja ao seu narcisista com estes 7 contra-ataques eficazes<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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