{"id":53022,"date":"2020-02-17T22:00:03","date_gmt":"2020-02-17T22:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53022"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:35:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:35:41","slug":"deus-me-de-o-que-eu-preciso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deus-me-de-o-que-eu-preciso\/","title":{"rendered":"Querido Deus, n\u00e3o me d\u00eas o que eu quero - d\u00e1-me o que eu preciso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido Deus,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I wanted a simple man. I was done with cheaters, the ones who think \u2018they can have every girl on this planet\u2019, with os t\u00edmidos<\/a> who don\u2019t know how to speak to me and the ones who play off and on.<\/p>\n

Queria algu\u00e9m a quem pudesse contar como foi o meu dia e o que aconteceu no meu trabalho.<\/p>\n

Queria que algu\u00e9m me segurasse a m\u00e3o quando algo inimagin\u00e1vel acontecesse e me dissesse que tudo ia correr bem.<\/p>\n

Em troca, queria dar-lhe todo o amor que trazia dentro de mim e que continuo a dar a mim pr\u00f3pria com tanta delicadeza.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Queria-o na minha vida para me aproximar e criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o, mas depois tinha medo que ele me deixasse sozinha. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I was so afraid that I didn\u2019t realize how easy it would be for him to actually leave.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I thought I had found the one but I didn\u2019t realize that an uncomplicated man doesn\u2019t exist. Or I just didn\u2019t want to see the real him.<\/p>\n

We both know that understanding and support are sometimes hard to find in people. But what drove me crazy was to think that people like him didn\u2019t even want to try.<\/p>\n

Ele optou pela op\u00e7\u00e3o mais f\u00e1cil, que era partir, e ele partiu a minha alma em migalhas.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You see, my past hasn\u2019t been so easy on me. I created all these walls around me because what I wanted the most was actually what could hurt me the most.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Decidi p\u00f4r de lado as minhas d\u00favidas, acolhi-o na minha vida e abri o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a minha mente para me apaixonar, mas, de alguma forma, o meu medo impedia-me.<\/p>\n

Querido Deus, o medo que senti foi quase como um sinal Teu a dizer-me para ter cuidado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Foste Tu que me lembraste de como me proteger.<\/p>\n

Pe\u00e7o desculpa agora, costumava implorar-te por algo imposs\u00edvel, mas queria que ele fosse a pessoa certa para mim. Queria-o tanto que fiz o imposs\u00edvel para que result\u00e1ssemos.<\/p>\n

Lamento ter feito isso. Agora sei que \u00e9 melhor.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If he was not the right man for me, I shouldn\u2019t have wasted my prayers on him. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele nunca vai mudar. Ele nunca ser\u00e1 o homem que eu preciso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sei que os teus planos s\u00e3o maiores do que os meus desejos. Sei que tens algo melhor reservado para mim.<\/p>\n

Algo muito, muito melhor do que alguma vez imaginei.<\/p>\n

Querido Deus,<\/em><\/p>\n

I admit that in my past, he and other people from it broke me multiple times but I know that I don\u2019t have to stay broken.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sei que me vou curar enquanto Te tiver ao meu lado.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Caminharei corajosamente em frente. Voltarei a amar, porque ter medo do amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que Tu queiras de mim.<\/p>\n

Pain and fear are only temporary feelings; they don\u2019t last as long as love does.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It was hard saying, \u201cGoodbye,\u201d to the one I cared for but it would be even harder to pass on the feeling of going home and knowing that someone\u2019s waiting for me\u2026 that special someone who cares for me.<\/p>\n

I know he\u2019ll be waiting for me one day when You decide the timing is right, when I am with the one who is meant for me.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t the one and You knew that long before I did. Thank you for saving me from my wishes. Thank you for saving me for someone better.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know that there is a lot to learn in this life, so I\u2019m going to start by loving myself.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s funny but when I think about myself, the amount of love that I owe myself is big enough to make the pain go away.<\/p>\n

It makes everything and everyone that I\u2019ve wanted so small. They\u2019re so small that they make loving myself turn into healing and forgiving.<\/p>\n

And I hope I\u2019m going to learn how to give forgiveness to myself so easily and jauntily as I gave to men in my past.<\/em><\/p>\n

Estou ansiosa por encontrar a felicidade dentro de mim. Finalmente, ela pode sair, viva e a gritar todas as gargalhadas que tenho estado a esconder.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It makes me smile that loneliness used to scare me and now I shut the door so loud, so everyone can know that I\u2019m having ME time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Atr\u00e1s de uma porta fechada e nesta solid\u00e3o, encontro compreens\u00e3o e aceito-me como the woman I\u2019ve become<\/a> depois de todos os meus desejos esmagados, rela\u00e7\u00f5es destru\u00eddas e homens que viam em mim a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o para me deixar.<\/p>\n

Isso torna-me maior do que qualquer mentira que ele me tenha contado.<\/p>\n

Accepting that I\u2019m enough and that I don\u2019t have to want \u2018an uncomplicated guy\u2019 makes me need the best version of myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lembra-me que tudo o que quero pode facilmente mudar ou partir, mas tudo o que preciso fica comigo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Querido Deus,<\/strong><\/p>\n

No matter how many times I question my faith and no matter how many \u2018what ifs\u2019 or mistakes I make, I know everything comes down to this\u2014needing all the beautiful feelings that You taught me to feel\u2026<\/p>\n

Love, forgiveness, happiness, understanding and accepting myself is what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n

Tu, Deus, conheces o meu passado e a raz\u00e3o por detr\u00e1s de cada batalha que perco e ganho.<\/p>\n

E desta vez, vou ganhar.<\/p>\n

\"Querido<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear God, I wanted a simple man. I was done with cheaters, the ones who think \u2018they can have every girl on this planet\u2019, with the shy guys who don\u2019t know how to speak to me and the ones who play off and on. I wanted someone who I could tell how my day went…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":53024,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/dear-god-dont-give-me-what-i-want-give-me-what-i-need.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53024"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}