{"id":53247,"date":"2020-02-19T23:21:59","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T23:21:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53247"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:21:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:21:21","slug":"a-verdadeira-mulher-torna-se-naquilo-que-quer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdadeira-mulher-torna-se-naquilo-que-quer\/","title":{"rendered":"Lembre-se, uma mulher de verdade se torna o que quer que ela queira ser"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o te importas que algu\u00e9m te diga o que deves fazer? N\u00e3o te importas que algu\u00e9m mande na tua vida?<\/p>\n

Since when do people have the idea they can change someone\u2019s life and direct them on a path ELES<\/em><\/strong> acham que \u00e9 o melhor? Ou, mais importante ainda, desde quando \u00e9 que as mulheres d\u00e3o ouvidos a essas tretas?<\/p>\n

Querida, faz o que te faz feliz!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You are a woman who has been through ups and downs. You\u2019ve seen hell and you\u2019ve tasted happiness.<\/p>\n

Ainda assim, permaneces de p\u00e9 com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o incorrupto e uma esperan\u00e7a sem fim. Ainda assim, est\u00e1s cheio de amor, todo feroz e maduro.<\/p>\n

No one \u2013 listen to me\u2026 NO ONE has the right to change who you are. NO ONE has the right to tell you what to do!<\/p>\n

Aceitar conselhos de algu\u00e9m \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos. Infelizmente, a maioria de n\u00f3s acaba por se tornar alvo de ci\u00fames e falsas pretens\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not uncommon to get stabbed in the back by the pessoa em quem pensou poder confiar<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Advice coming from those people \u2013 the ones who pretend to be your friends \u2013 is toxic and dangerous.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, o conselho de algu\u00e9m que se preocupa sinceramente consigo \u00e9 uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sadly, no one knows for sure when a piece of toxic advice is disguised as a warm and loving one, and when it\u2019s the other way around.<\/p>\n

Dito isto, acho que o que quero dizer \u00e9 o seguinte: A \u00fanica pessoa em quem podemos confiar \u00e9 em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. Uma mulher forte sabe isso.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher forte sabe que s\u00f3 pode confiar na sua pr\u00f3pria intui\u00e7\u00e3o e nas suas pr\u00f3prias ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Ela sabe que o seu julgamento \u00e9, no final, o mais fi\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Alguns podem interpretar isso como teimosia, mas a verdade \u00e9 que uma mulher forte sabe o que quer e, por isso, faz o que lhe apetece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A strong woman wants to\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ser indefin\u00edvel pela sociedade.<\/strong> <\/em>She doesn\u2019t want to be a stereotype \u2013 a beautiful, classy, and extremely feminine woman who is supposed to do girly stuff and act according to what society thinks is acceptable.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No, a strong woman \u2013 a woman who wants to be whatever the hell she wants \u2013 will watch football on Sundays and drink beer with the guys.<\/p>\n

Ela at\u00e9 se embebedar\u00e1 num bar, recusando-se a ir para casa. E nenhuma destas coisas lhe parecer\u00e1 rid\u00edcula; ningu\u00e9m a julgar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

The reason for that is more than simple. She is super confident and she will never force herself to do something she doesn\u2019t feel comfortable doing. And that\u2019s visible from the outside.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o seja nada menos do que completamente honesto.<\/strong><\/em> There is no place for mind games in her life. She thinks playing around is a complete waste of time \u2013 and her time is far too precious to waste.<\/p>\n

Quer se trate de uma amizade ou de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ela dir-lhe-\u00e1 sempre a verdade e nunca se envergonhar\u00e1 disso.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher como ela faz o que lhe apetece PORQUE<\/strong> ela pode.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ouvir a verdade dela pode parecer um duche frio, mas esse duche frio \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel por o trazer de volta \u00e0 realidade onde os problemas est\u00e3o \u00e0 espera de serem resolvidos. Agrade\u00e7a-lhe por o ter abanado!<\/p>\n

Ser nada menos do que completamente honesta consigo pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong><\/em> If she\u2019s hurting, she\u2019ll find the strength to accept it and, more importantly, get over it in time.<\/p>\n

She is woman enough to confess what\u2019s going on in her head and what she\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t concerned with appearing silly or crazy. The secret to her sanity and healthy spirit is honesty and embracing what she feels.<\/p>\n

Apenas mulheres maduras e fortes<\/span><\/a> est\u00e3o prontos para dar esse passo.<\/p>\n

Ser independente.<\/em><\/strong> And she is. She doesn\u2019t need anyone really. She doesn\u2019t need your love that badly that it will make her reach the border of the \u201cLand of the Desperate.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

On the contrary, she will accept your move, and then\u2026 Then she will make her own.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t see it coming. She\u2019ll surprise you with the last thing you thought she\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

Nestas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, \u00e9 muito mais aceit\u00e1vel afastar-se da pessoa que ama e ficar destro\u00e7ada durante algum tempo do que passar o resto da vida como uma tola, enganada e controlada.<\/p>\n

Lutar as suas pr\u00f3prias batalhas.<\/em><\/strong> She won\u2019t let you push her around. She won\u2019t let you bully her. Conflict isn\u2019t a strange concept to her.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t like it, but she doesn\u2019t avoid it either. If the situation asks for it, she will fight for what she wants no matter the consequences.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s no doormat and, trust me, she\u2019ll never let you take your frustrations out on her.<\/p>\n

Ela tem limites<\/span><\/a> e ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de os atravessar. Quem se atrevesse a faz\u00ea-lo era punido por isso.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 por estar.<\/em><\/strong> She isn\u2019t in it only for the sex. She doesn\u2019t need a casual relationship with you because she can find casual wherever she goes.<\/p>\n

Uma coisa \u00fanica n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o complicada de encontrar. Por outro lado, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o significativa \u00e9.<\/p>\n

A real relationship doesn\u2019t revolve around sex. It\u2019s definitely a part of it, but it is not a priority.<\/p>\n

Anyone who thinks differently doesn\u2019t stand a chance in the presence of a woman like this. She\u2019s on a completely different level of consciousness.<\/p>\n

Ser respons\u00e1vel pelos seus pr\u00f3prios erros.<\/em><\/strong> Uma pessoa como ela nunca vai atirar outra pessoa para debaixo do autocarro.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If she\u2019s wrong, she will come clean without thinking twice about it. Once again, maturity leaves its footprint.<\/p>\n

When it comes to relationships, she\u2019ll own up to her part of screwing up, but also want the same from you.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, por vezes, estas mulheres t\u00eam mais coragem para admitir os seus erros do que alguns homens.<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que ela quer resolver o problema e a \u00fanica forma de o resolver \u00e9 assumindo-o.<\/p>\n

In the end\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

A strong woman is a woman who\u2019ll walk away when she isn\u2019t happy. A strong woman is a woman who won\u2019t take BS from anyone, under any cost.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher forte faz tudo o que lhe apetece. Porqu\u00ea? Porque UMA MULHER FORTE CONSEGUE.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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\"Lembre-se,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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