{"id":53385,"date":"2020-02-21T22:31:11","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T22:31:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53385"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:02:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:02:19","slug":"superar-aquele-que-nao-sabe-amar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/superar-aquele-que-nao-sabe-amar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Mais cedo ou mais tarde, vais superar aquele que n\u00e3o sabe como te amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que, deste ponto de vista, est\u00e1 convencida de que vai amar o seu ex para sempre.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re desperate and think that he\u2019ll be stuck in your mind and that you\u2019ll want him to be yours until the end of time.<\/p>\n

Actually, it\u2019s like you\u2019ve already given up on the idea that you\u2019ll ever get over him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve learned to live with him existing somewhere in the back of your head, haunting you and reminding you of all the pain you went through and are still going through.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what really happened\u2014whether he was an abuser, if he cheated on you or was a narcissistic manipulator; the bottom line is the same\u2014you\u2019re crying over a man who didn\u2019t love you enough<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Over a man who never should have had a place in your life in the first place and who didn\u2019t know how or didn\u2019t want to treat you the way you deserved.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t you worry because you\u2019re not the only one who is going through something similar.<\/p>\n

Despite your pessimistic predictions, this awful feeling won\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

E sabem porqu\u00ea? Because sometime soon, you\u2019ll grow up, you\u2019ll mature and you\u2019ll leave this toxic man in the past, right where he belongs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is completely irrelevant how old you are or how much life experience you have\u2014the fact is that deep down, in the privacy of your soul, you\u2019re still just a kid.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might appear to be a tough and strong woman but as long as you don\u2019t overcome the people from your past, including this man, it is clear that you haven\u2019t emotionally matured.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

No entanto, chegar\u00e1 a si mais cedo do que pensa.<\/p>\n

One of these days, you\u2019ll wake up and all of a sudden, you will realize you\u2019ve outgrown him and everything you felt for him.<\/p>\n

When this happens, you won\u2019t be able to believe how many tears you\u2019ve cried for this man.<\/p>\n

Vai parecer incr\u00edvel que um idiota como ele tenha sido a causa de todas aquelas noites sem dormir, d\u00favidas e desgostos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll consider yourself foolish for giving him so much space in your heart and head. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll laugh at yourself for ever caring for someone like him and you\u2019ll wipe him out of your memory for as long as you breathe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like that, you\u2019ll start seeing this man for who he really is.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll stop idealizing him and you\u2019ll finally understand that he was never worthy of your love and attention.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll face the harsh truth\u2014este tipo nunca soube amar-te e nunca aprender\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo corretamente, por mais segundas oportunidades que tenciones dar-lhe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll be mature enough to lose the ability to love the ones who don\u2019t love you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

One of these days, you\u2019ll understand that you never needed his half-hearted love.<\/p>\n

Que ele nunca lhe deu a aten\u00e7\u00e3o ou a devo\u00e7\u00e3o que procurava e que sentiria para sempre a falta das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, mesmo que tivesse ficado ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

When you grow up for real, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019re way melhor sem ele<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Que ele nunca te faria feliz e que, na verdade, ganhaste na vida quando o perdeste.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After some time, you\u2019ll realize that love should never hurt you. That it doesn\u2019t have anything to do with mind games, chasing or playing hard to get.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re ready, you\u2019ll outgrow your ego and the feeling that you\u2019re not worthy just because one guy didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll outgrow all those people who didn\u2019t appreciate or respect you enough, including your ex.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn not to waste your effort, time and energy on the wrong people.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize it\u2019s much better to save your love for the one who will cherish it like the most valuable possession instead of throwing it at the feet of a guy who took it for granted.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014when you finally outgrow the need to be loved by someone who simply doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, you\u2019ll learn to love yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that the relationship that you have with yourself is the only one that matters and the one you should take care of the most.<\/p>\n

\"Mais<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that from this point of view, you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll love your ex forever. You\u2019re desperate and think that he\u2019ll be stuck in your mind and that you\u2019ll want him to be yours until the end of time. Actually, it\u2019s like you\u2019ve already given up on the idea that you\u2019ll ever get over…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":53386,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sooner-or-later-youll-outgrow-the-one-who-doesnt-know-how-to-love-you.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53385"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53385\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}