{"id":5351,"date":"2020-03-19T20:33:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T20:33:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5351"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:16:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:16:40","slug":"7-maneiras-diferentes-de-amar-as-raparigas-com-ansiedade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-maneiras-diferentes-de-amar-as-raparigas-com-ansiedade\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneiras de como as raparigas com ansiedade amam de forma diferente"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAnxiety is love’s greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic. <\/i> \u201d~Anais Nin<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like being trapped in a well. Everywhere around you it\u2019s dark, and you are standing in knee-high water.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t fall asleep because if you do, you\u2019ll drown. And you can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s anxiety.<\/a> It traps you and it holds you its captive. And you can\u2019t do anything about it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You can try to escape, but it\u2019s a never-ending battle. It lasts for your whole life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Anxiety becomes you. You can scream for hours in that deep well but no one will hear you. You will just have to manage and try to make it on your own\u2014try to survive.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por causa desse sentimento, estamos sempre a levantar a guarda. Estamos sempre preocupados e duvidamos de tudo.<\/p>\n

And when the people who don\u2019t get what anxiety is do even one wrong move, we feel like we are in that deep well, once again.<\/p>\n

Raparigas com ansiedade amar de forma diferente<\/a>. Temos de amar de forma diferente porque somos diferentes. Mas o nosso amor \u00e9 aquele que perdura.<\/p>\n

Our love is the one that is pure. Once we feel we can trust you, we will let you into our hearts. And we\u2019re going to let you stay there forever.<\/p>\n

You will be the one who is honored to be loved by a girl with anxiety\u2014differently.<\/p>\n

Precisamos de nos sentir seguros<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Precisamos de um espa\u00e7o seguro. Somos independentes.<\/a> Don\u2019t get me wrong, we are. But it\u2019s just that in those moments when we are at our lowest, we need someone to feel safe with.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando estamos fora, detestamos situa\u00e7\u00f5es que est\u00e3o fora da nossa zona de conforto.<\/p>\n

So, we need you. We need you to be our safety net and to protect us from the things we are scared of. You don\u2019t even have to protect us. Being there is enough.<\/p>\n

Estamos protegidos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Guardamos o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Temos medo de ser magoados e a nossa ansiedade faz-nos acreditar que a pessoa com quem estamos nos vai magoar mais cedo ou mais tarde.<\/p>\n

Temos problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Demora muito tempo at\u00e9 confiarmos completamente numa pessoa. Fazemo-lo porque a nossa ansiedade est\u00e1 sempre a tornar-nos cautelosos.<\/p>\n

Faz-nos imaginar coisas que n\u00e3o existem.<\/p>\n

Queremos confiar neles, mas a ansiedade apodera-se de n\u00f3s.<\/b><\/p>\n

Temos de ter a certeza<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

We need that feeling of safety. We need to know that you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Whenever we ask you to confirm and prove your love for us, it\u2019s not because we are second-guessing you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because we cannot control our anxiety which makes us doubt even things which we are the most positive about.<\/p>\n

The feeling of knowing everything is fine and that you are by our side gives us calmness. That\u2019s all we need.<\/p>\n

Precisamos de si por perto\"homem<\/h2>\n

Sempre que a nossa ansiedade nos atinge, leva-nos para lugares sombrios. Leva-nos \u00e0 depress\u00e3o e \u00e0 tristeza.<\/p>\n

Whenever that happens, we need to know that you are by our side. And if you are, we\u2019ll never let you go.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s tu que nos v\u00eas no nosso pior e quando somos mais vulner\u00e1veis. E se ficares por perto mesmo depois disso, seremos teus para sempre.<\/p>\n

Isolamo-nos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Afastamo-nos porque a nossa ansiedade faz-nos querer estar sozinhos. Faz-nos fechar e construir um muro enorme e inquebr\u00e1vel \u00e0 nossa volta.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 ainda pior quando nos estamos a apaixonar, devido a todos os problemas de confian\u00e7a que temos. Nessa altura, a nossa ansiedade est\u00e1 no auge.<\/p>\n

Vamos amar-te \u00e0 nossa maneira \u00fanica, para sempre<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Podemos ser uma m\u00e3o-cheia, eu sei. Mas somos dedicados porque respeitamos e valorizamos o facto de teres encontrado a forma e a for\u00e7a para nos amar.<\/p>\n

We know it\u2019s hard, and you did it. That means o teu amor vale mesmo alguma coisa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3s amamos-te porque \u00e9s aquele que nos ama mesmo quando te questionamos. Tu \u00e9s aquele que nunca desiste.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s o nosso protetor e o nosso porto seguro numa noite de tempestade.<\/p>\n

Nunca vos deixaremos sentir que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o amados. Mesmo quando sofremos mais, quando a ansiedade nos afecta mais, nunca deixaremos de te mostrar o quanto te amamos.<\/p>\n

Anxiety is real. It consumes you. It takes control over your body and mind. That\u2019s why we freak out at the smallest problem.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we get scared to face the smallest obstacle.<\/p>\n

Dar-vos-emos os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es e depositaremos a nossa f\u00e9 em v\u00f3s. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se nos magoares, nunca mais seremos capazes de amar algu\u00e9m dessa forma.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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