{"id":53676,"date":"2020-03-20T23:03:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T23:03:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53676"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:36:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:36:37","slug":"ele-era-apenas-a-tua-licao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-era-apenas-a-tua-licao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele foi a tua li\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o uma senten\u00e7a de morte - deixa-o no passado"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve all been there. We know how much it hurts. But please be brave. Life shouldn’t stop just because he left you.<\/p>\n

Recolhe os peda\u00e7os do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Cola-os de novo. Vais sarar.<\/p>\n

Choose to learn from the past, not to regret it. If you focus too much on it, you’ll miss out on a beautiful future.<\/p>\n

The experience will leave scars. They’ll be there all your life just to remind you to choose yourself more often.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll mold you to become a better person in every possible way. They won’t let you go back to that man ever again.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A ci\u00eancia provou que o amor ativa no nosso c\u00e9rebro os mesmos mecanismos que algumas drogas. Por outras palavras, o amor \u00e9 viciante.<\/p>\n

E se formos privados dela de repente, temos de passar por uma fase de abstin\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Be stronger than that. Don’t get high. Think about the long-term side effects.<\/p>\n

But don’t ever let that past define you. You aren’t uma rapariga com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> who can’t trust and love anymore. No, you are not.<\/p>\n

Remember, you will love again. And more importantly, you’ll be loved as you never have before.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to finish a relationship with someone you would have done anything for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s hard, and it may get harder\u2014but it will pay off. All the pain and tear-soaked nights will pay off. You’ll be free and happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Don’t give him more power over your life than he deserves. He is now just an ex, and that’s all.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’ll say hello to him when you see him on the street. Maybe you won’t.<\/p>\n

He’ll surely suggest that you two stay friends. Don’t do that. Don\u2019t even respond.<\/p>\n

He’ll move on much faster than you, and if you keep in touch with him, you’ll have to see him with his new girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Talvez ele tenha pedido para sermos amigos para que esteja dispon\u00edvel de vez em quando, quando sentir a sua falta.<\/p>\n

If you show him you\u2019re okay with that arrangement, he’ll enjoy those little make-up-and-cuddle sessions, and before you know it, you\u2019ll be so far in that you won’t be able to stop.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t call him\u2014not even to return his things or ask for yours. Be fair and give back what\u2019s his, but send it via someone else.<\/p>\n

Se um dia chegar a casa e encontrar uma caixa com as suas coisas \u00e0 sua porta, deve livrar-se imediatamente delas.<\/p>\n

Throw it away\u2014no matter what’s inside. Whatever it is, it will slow your healing process.<\/p>\n

Deixem-no no passado. Don’t look back<\/a>. E se a Cinderela tivesse ido buscar o seu sapato? Ela nunca teria conhecido o seu pr\u00edncipe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

An ending doesn\u2019t have to be a bad thing. An ending simply means that something else is about to begin.<\/p>\n

O melhor que tem a fazer \u00e9 criar alguns mecanismos para lidar com a sua nova situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por exemplo, pode escrever-lhe uma carta e pegar-lhe fogo, juntamente com as suas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es e fotografias.<\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>\n

Se pensa que a sua sa\u00fade mental est\u00e1 a sofrer, deve procurar o apoio de um terapeuta...<\/p>\n

Tente estar rodeado de pessoas que gostam de si e que v\u00eaem o melhor de si. Manter-se socialmente ativo \u00e9 muito importante para evitar a depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Nunca negue que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o aconteceu ou que ele a magoou.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re afraid of being alone. Maybe you think he is the only man you’ll ever love.<\/p>\n

You’re in shock, and you can’t think straight now, but you\u2019ll feel better\u2014you just need time.<\/p>\n

If you are still hoping that he’ll come back, that means you are stuck in the past. That unhealthy, negative energy will kill your soul.<\/p>\n

Life is a journey, and it\u2019s just taking you somewhere else. Buckle your seat belt and enjoy the ride.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

O tempo curar\u00e1 tudo, se o permitir. Passa o tempo a fazer o que te relaxa.<\/p>\n

Leia o seu livro preferido, v\u00e1 \u00e0 praia, ponha a sua m\u00fasica preferida a tocar ou v\u00e1 \u00e0s compras. Respire. N\u00e3o pense demasiado. N\u00e3o pense demasiado.<\/p>\n

Para curar as tuas feridas, tens de parar de lhes tocar. Ele queria ir embora, ent\u00e3o mostra-lhe a sa\u00edda e fecha aquela porta para sempre.<\/p>\n

He is now in the past. Your past is a history of victory. Learn from it. It\u2019s the biggest lesson of your life.<\/p>\n

Acaba com as tuas ilus\u00f5es sobre ele. Ele nunca foi o teu para sempre. P\u00e1ra de colecionar pedras quando mereces diamantes. Tu mereces o amor mais verdadeiro de todos.<\/p>\n

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