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Sometimes it is impossible to keep your word, and you don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s reasonable for situations like this to happen.<\/p>\n
But how many times has he failed you and broken his promises. How many times hasn\u2019t he kept his word?<\/strong><\/p>\n Try to count and if the number is big, then you should try to make some changes or have a \u2018serious talk\u2019 with him.<\/p>\n Ele prometeu-te algo mas n\u00e3o cumpriu a promessa tantas vezes.<\/p>\n You always hoped he’d change. That he\u2019d be more honest and try to keep his word or the promise he made.<\/p>\n If a man in love makes a promise, he\u2019ll try to keep his word even if it kills him.<\/strong><\/p>\n But he didn\u2019t even try.<\/p>\n He didn\u2019t bother because he thought that you\u2019d be there forever to believe him and forgive him every time he broke a promise.<\/p>\n Agora v\u00ea que estava enganado.<\/p>\n He thought that they were little things and that it wasn\u2019t a big deal if he didn\u2019t honor them.<\/p>\n Mas esse foi o seu maior erro, porque falhou mesmo nessas pequenas coisas.<\/p>\n As pequenas coisas s\u00e3o o que importa na vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tudo o que lhe pediste ou lhe fizeste prometer foi para a tua felicidade e para uma vida melhor.<\/p>\n Nunca foste ego\u00edsta. S\u00f3 querias ter a certeza de que ambos eram felizes.<\/p>\n But he didn\u2019t care for your feelings and that\u2019s why he didn\u2019t want to make you happy.<\/p>\n He couldn\u2019t do what you asked him to do, because to him it wasn\u2019t important. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n Sempre que falavam sobre o vosso futuro, ele tentava mudar de assunto ou adiar a conversa para outra altura, mas prometia sempre que iriam falar sobre isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n Mas, claro, nunca o fizeram. Porque, para come\u00e7ar, nunca tiveram qualquer futuro juntos.<\/p>\n Agora come\u00e7ou a ficar farto de palavras e promessas. Quer uma prova de que ele est\u00e1 a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t stand his sugar-coated words anymore. <\/strong>Ele fala, mas nunca faz nada para provar que est\u00e1 a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n Do you remember how many times he promised that he\u2019d put you at the top of his priority list?<\/p>\n That he\u2019d try to spend more time with you?<\/p>\n How many times did he promise that he\u2019d be more romantic, more creative, more adventurous for you?<\/p>\n Desde o primeiro dia em que se apaixonaram, tinhas de ser a prioridade dele, tal como ele era a tua.<\/p>\n But you weren’t.<\/p>\n Quanto tempo teve de esperar para se tornar a pessoa mais importante da vida dele? <\/strong><\/p>\n Ele ocupou esse lugar na sua vida durante tantos anos, ent\u00e3o porque \u00e9 que teve de esperar?<\/strong><\/p>\n He said that he loved you more than anything and that he wouldn\u2019t allow anything bad to happen to you.<\/p>\n That he wouldn\u2019t allow anyone to hurt you.<\/p>\n Era ele e tu contra o mundo, certo? Mas eram apenas palavras. Palavras sem sentido.<\/p>\n Ele mentiu<\/a> e \u00e9 preciso estar atento a isso.<\/p>\n Why didn\u2019t he stop himself from hurting you? Why didn\u2019t he stop lying? He let himself hurt you so many times.<\/p>\n Ele desiludiu-a tantas vezes. Ele \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o pela qual a fa\u00edsca da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se desvaneceu.<\/p>\n Um homem que a ame nunca pensar\u00e1 em mago\u00e1-la emocionalmente ou deix\u00e1-la ficar mal de prop\u00f3sito.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ele far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para se certificar de que est\u00e1 s\u00e3o e salvo de todas as formas poss\u00edveis e, quando algu\u00e9m o magoa, certificar-se-\u00e1 de que essa pessoa paga por isso, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n Os homens sabem muito bem o que as mulheres querem ouvir.<\/p>\n Eles sabem que \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil dizer a uma mulher o que ela gosta de ouvir.<\/p>\n Prometer-lhe algo que ela quer sem qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de cumprir essa promessa.<\/p>\n Eles sabem que uma mentira leva \u00e0 a\u00e7\u00e3o e que desaparecer\u00e1 antes da sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Ele nunca mostrou sinais de remorsos? Porque \u00e9 que o faria? Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 um homem honesto e verdadeiro<\/a>. Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o corajoso.<\/p>\n Accepting and admitting your mistakes requires courage and integrity – both traits he didn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n Um homem sem car\u00e1cter nunca aceitar\u00e1 a culpa e o facto de ter feito algo de errado.<\/p>\n Ele est\u00e1 sempre pronto para jogar o jogo da culpa.<\/p>\n Somos todos humanos e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em cometer erros. Todos n\u00f3s os cometemos.<\/p>\n Mas se amamos algu\u00e9m, sentimo-nos culpados sempre que fazemos algo de errado e pedimos perd\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n You were convinced that it was your fault that he wasn\u2019t keeping his word the way you wanted him to.<\/p>\n Pensou que o problema estava dentro de si e que tinha de mudar alguma coisa se quisesse que ele ficasse.<\/p>\n Do you remember all those times you looked at yourself in the mirror trying to figure out why you weren’t good enough?<\/p>\n Do you remember how many times you cried yourself to sleep because he\u2019d broken his promise again? And he did it countless times.<\/p>\n And believe me, he would have continued to do it if you hadn\u2019t stopped him.<\/p>\n When you realize you can\u2019t change him, that not even 100 ‘second chances’ or closing your eyes would make him love you and be a better man for you, that is when you\u2019ll finally be free and start loving yourself more.<\/p>\n Lembre-se de como tentou convencer-se de que seria melhor estar com ele, mesmo que isso a magoasse, do que estar completamente sem ele.<\/p>\n Lembra-te do dia em que finalmente decidiste que tinhas de te libertar dele.<\/p>\n Deix\u00e1-lo ir ser\u00e1 a coisa mais dif\u00edcil da sua vida, mas vai valer a pena.<\/p>\n One day someone else will come into your life and he\u2019ll show you that you deserve a man who will stand behind his words and that you deserve someone who will keep his promises.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s why you should be thankful to him. He\u2019s made you realize what you deserve.<\/p>\n Tornaste-te mais forte por causa dele.<\/p>\n Every time he let you down, you searched for comfort in yourself, you found a strength you didn\u2019t even know you had and come\u00e7ou a gostar mais de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n Valoriza-te o suficiente para te poupares a mais dor.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve already tried so hard to change him and to make him realize how miserable he is making you with all of his false promises.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t do more than you have already done. You are also exhausted.<\/p>\n![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-sitting-bed-hugging.jpg\")
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