{"id":53823,"date":"2020-02-28T08:02:41","date_gmt":"2020-02-28T08:02:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53823"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:33:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:33:12","slug":"10-maneiras-de-reconhecer-o-amor-verdadeiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-maneiras-de-reconhecer-o-amor-verdadeiro\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneiras infal\u00edveis de reconhecer o amor verdadeiro depois de ser magoado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ap\u00f3s in\u00fameras desilus\u00f5es, perde-se a capacidade de discernimento.<\/p>\n

You become paranoid that all guys just want to break your heart and you\u2019re convinced that every relationship you get yourself into will leave you devastated and even more damaged.<\/p>\n

After everything you\u2019ve been through, you lose the ability to differentiate between right and wrong.<\/p>\n

Despite all of your attempts, after being hurt more than once, you don\u2019t know how to recognize real love even if it\u2019s standing right in front of your face.<\/p>\n

And that is why we\u2019re here\u2014to give you the bulletproof signs that this is the real deal and that it is safe to put your baixar a guarda.<\/a><\/p>\n

1. You think it\u2019s too good to be true<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

At first, after numerous douchebags, when you finally meet a man who truly loves you, you can\u2019t believe what is happening.<\/p>\n

Assume que tudo isto faz parte do seu engano e das suas falsas pretens\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

He is obviously just lying to get in your pants and under your skin and he\u2019ll end up hurting you the way everyone else before him did.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais, porque \u00e9 que este seria diferente?<\/p>\n

Pensa que este homem \u00e9 demasiado bom para ser verdade, que \u00e9 literalmente imposs\u00edvel que um homem seja honesto consigo desde o primeiro dia e que lhe demonstre tanto amor sem quaisquer inten\u00e7\u00f5es ocultas.<\/p>\n

Por isso, continua a procurar pistas.<\/p>\n

You focus on his imperfections and you look for validation that you were right all along and you\u2019re trying to prepare yourself for what must come next.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a desilus\u00e3o que se espera n\u00e3o est\u00e1 \u00e0 vista.<\/p>\n

No matter how deep you dig, you can\u2019t find anything that proves this guy is a douchebag and just like one of your exes.<\/p>\n

2. It doesn\u2019t bring drama<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Em todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores, tudo foi uma montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

O drama era constante e nunca se sabia o que poderia acontecer no dia seguinte.<\/p>\n

O pior \u00e9 que, passado algum tempo, come\u00e7amos a acreditar que \u00e9 assim que as coisas devem ser.<\/p>\n

You saw it in romantic movies and you read about it\u2014the protagonists who actually love each other deeply keep stumbling on different problems, there is always some action going on and everything around them is wild and crazy.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you won\u2019t fight in this relationship.<\/p>\n

No entanto, at\u00e9 as vossas discuss\u00f5es ser\u00e3o mais pac\u00edficas e nenhum de voc\u00eas far\u00e1 barulho por coisas pequenas e irrelevantes.<\/p>\n

Nem todos os desacordos parecem ser o fim do mundo e nem todas as discuss\u00f5es levam a um separa\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/a><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 tens\u00f5es desnecess\u00e1rias que sempre o acompanharam nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas.<\/p>\n

Desta vez, tudo parece resol\u00favel.<\/p>\n

Sabe que, mesmo nos piores cen\u00e1rios, as coisas correm pelo melhor.<\/p>\n

3. Parece que estamos em casa<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Quando era mais novo, associava o amor verdadeiro a borboletas no est\u00f4mago.<\/p>\n

Pensavas que o facto de estares nervoso ao p\u00e9 de algu\u00e9m e de o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bater loucamente cada vez que o vias ou ouvias a sua voz era sinal suficiente de que se tratava de algu\u00e9m a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que h\u00e1 uma enorme diferen\u00e7a entre estar apaixonado e amar algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

E esta \u00e9 a diferen\u00e7a que s\u00f3 se consegue ver quando se encontra um amor verdadeiro depois de ter sido magoado.<\/p>\n

Este amor \u00e9 tranquilo e faz-nos sentir em casa.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make you hysterical, it doesn\u2019t give you sleepless nights, anxiety or endless worries and instead, it makes you calm.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t live in constant fear that you\u2019ll lose this person and you don\u2019t think you couldn\u2019t make it without them.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, sabe muito bem que sobreviveria \u00e0 sua aus\u00eancia, mas opta conscientemente por t\u00ea-los na sua vida.<\/p>\n

4. Commitment isn\u2019t an issue<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Another sure-fire sign that you\u2019ve met your forever person after all those failures you had to go through is the fact that things like compromisso<\/a>A lealdade e a fidelidade nunca s\u00e3o postas em causa.<\/p>\n

Yes, these things should be normal in a relationship but sadly, in today\u2019s world, they have become things you need to fight for and things you should consider yourself lucky to get.<\/p>\n

The difference between this man and everyone else is that you don\u2019t have to wait for him to make up his mind about you, to choose you from all the other girls in his life or to realize you\u2019re the one for him.<\/p>\n

Once you find this man, he won\u2019t have trouble labeling your relationship and he\u2019ll immediately give you the title of his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t waste your time and lead you on for years, without ever telling you honestly where you two stand or without ever talking about your future together.<\/p>\n

Com este tipo, as coisas ser\u00e3o muito claras desde o primeiro dia.<\/p>\n

He will be completely devoted to your relationship and he\u2019ll put as much effort in to make it work as you do.<\/p>\n

5. It won\u2019t change you<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

In all of your previous relationships, you were expected to meet someone else\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n

Ou n\u00e3o era suficiente ou era demasiado para o homem que estava ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Por isso, fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para se tornar a mulher que estes tipos queriam que fosse.<\/p>\n

Mudou a cor do cabelo, ganhou ou perdeu peso, come\u00e7ou a vestir-se de forma diferente e, acima de tudo, modificou a sua personalidade.<\/p>\n

No final do dia, perdeste-te a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Na tentativa de lhes agradar e de ser melhor para eles, esqueceu-se de quem era antes de todos estes homens terem entrado na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Well, when you finally meet a man who accepts you for who you really are, you\u2019ll know he is your match made in heaven.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014there will probably be some parts of your character this guy won\u2019t be crazy about but even in that case, he won\u2019t make you change your ways and become someone you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

6. Vai curar-vos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014no man deserves to have a girlfriend who carries loads of emotional baggage into their relationship.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o seu novo namorado ter\u00e1, infelizmente, de lidar com os seus traumas passados.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, he won\u2019t run away when he sees that you\u2019re damaged.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, este homem ter\u00e1 como prioridade ajud\u00e1-la a reparar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado e a restaurar a sua f\u00e9 perdida no amor.<\/p>\n

Because that is what true love does\u2014cura-te<\/a>, enquanto todos os outros vos quebram.<\/p>\n

Faz desaparecer todas as tristezas, cura as inseguran\u00e7as, enxuga as l\u00e1grimas, volta a p\u00f4r um sorriso no rosto e faz de n\u00f3s a pessoa mais feliz do mundo.<\/p>\n

7. There won\u2019t be excuses<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

How many times have you been involved with a guy whose actions didn\u2019t match his words?<\/p>\n

Com um homem que lhe prometeu o mundo mas acabou por n\u00e3o lhe dar nada e que a convenceu de que viveria um verdadeiro conto de fadas ao lado dele mas transformou o seu dia a dia num inferno?<\/p>\n

Bem, agora, tudo isso faz parte do passado.<\/p>\n

Acabaram-se as falsas promessas e, acima de tudo, as desculpas.<\/p>\n

Quando um homem a ama a s\u00e9rio, est\u00e1 sempre l\u00e1 para si, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 demasiado ocupado para o ajudar e ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 mais importante do que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n

Em vez de gastar toda a sua energia \u00e0 procura de desculpas, concentra-se em encontrar solu\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

8. \u2026 or blame games<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de como era sempre culpada por tudo o que estava mal nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es? De como os seus exs continuavam a culp\u00e1-la, mesmo pelas suas comportamento t\u00f3xico<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 outra coisa que deixa de acontecer quando se encontra o verdadeiro amor depois de muitas desilus\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, it doesn\u2019t matter who is guilty or who is right or wrong; the only important thing is to come up with a solution.<\/p>\n

There are no more blame games because you\u2019re both mature adults who know when to take responsibility for their actions.<\/p>\n

Nenhum de voc\u00eas joga jogos mentais e o facto de iluminar a outra pessoa n\u00e3o aumenta o seu ego.<\/p>\n

9. Inspir\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a crescer como pessoa<\/h2>\n

 While you were involved with all those wrong guys, you were constantly insecure and you couldn\u2019t help but wonder whether you were enough.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see your true value as a person and you thought you had self-confidence issues.<\/p>\n

Embora a \u00faltima parte seja verdadeira, o facto \u00e9 que se sentiu assim porque foi constantemente diminu\u00eddo pelos seus parceiros.<\/p>\n

Tinham a necessidade de o deitar abaixo porque era a \u00fanica forma de se sentirem melhor consigo pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quando o amor verdadeiro entrar na sua vida, ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Quando o homem certo come\u00e7a a am\u00e1-la, ensina-a a amar-se mais a si pr\u00f3pria e isso \u00e9 a melhor coisa que pode fazer por si.<\/p>\n

Este homem vai ajudar-te a crescer como pessoa e vai inspirar-te a atingir todo o teu potencial.<\/p>\n

Ele empurrar-te-\u00e1 para a frente e acreditar\u00e1 em ti, mesmo quando perderes a f\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014a real man will never be intimidated by your achievements.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, ter\u00e1 orgulho neles e estar\u00e1 sempre presente para os apoiar enquanto sobem a escada do sucesso.<\/p>\n

10. Sentir-se-\u00e1 parte de um casal<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Uma das melhores coisas que o amor verdadeiro e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel trazem consigo \u00e9 o sentimento de perten\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

From the moment it enters your life, you stop feeling like you\u2019re sozinho<\/a> neste mundo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll lose your individuality in this relationship.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll just feel much stronger because you know there exist hands which will catch you if you fall; you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re part of a team that can\u2019t lose!<\/p>\n

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