{"id":54095,"date":"2020-03-04T09:57:43","date_gmt":"2020-03-04T09:57:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54095"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:43","slug":"razoes-pelas-quais-os-narcisistas-se-aproveitam-das-mulheres-com-ansiedade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/razoes-pelas-quais-os-narcisistas-se-aproveitam-das-mulheres-com-ansiedade\/","title":{"rendered":"10 raz\u00f5es pelas quais os narcisistas atacam as mulheres com ansiedade"},"content":{"rendered":"

Um narcisista raramente se envolve com qualquer pessoa.<\/p>\n

In fact, their selection is never random; they\u2019re always looking for the most suited victims for their abuse.<\/p>\n

E foi demonstrado que a maioria das v\u00edtimas de narcisismo s\u00e3o mulheres que sofrem de ansiedade<\/a> desordem.<\/p>\n

So, there has to be some kind of connection between the two. Let\u2019s look into it.<\/p>\n

1. A narcissist never takes responsibility\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma das caracter\u00edsticas mais comuns de todos os narcisistas \u00e9 o facto de nunca se considerarem culpados por nada do que dizem ou fazem.<\/p>\n

These are the people who usually have zero conscience and never admit that they\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n

Even when they see their mistake, they never admit it to anyone else \u2013 especially not their victims.<\/p>\n

Apesar de, no fundo, verem as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, os narcisistas t\u00eam a necessidade de se apresentarem como impec\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not like the rest of us mortals.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t make errors, repent for their misdeeds, or apologize when they\u2019ve done you harm.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que tudo isto faz parte da sua t\u00e1tica de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Fingir que \u00e9 demasiado bom para ser verdade no in\u00edcio \u00e9 uma forma de um narcisista se intrometer na sua pele.<\/p>\n

Ultimamente, tem-se safado dos seus pecados, pois nunca os admite e arranja sempre uma desculpa para o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

2. …while people with anxiety think they\u2019re always to blame<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, as pessoas com perturba\u00e7\u00f5es de ansiedade atribuem sempre a culpa a si pr\u00f3prias.<\/p>\n

E isso \u00e9 o que mais conv\u00e9m ao narcisista.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, mesmo que um narcisista vos diga he\u2019s sorry<\/a>, somehow he\u2019ll manage to twist the entire situation around and you will never get a genuine apology.<\/p>\n

Instead of taking responsibility for his actions, he\u2019ll end up convincing his anxious victim that she made him react that way, that he for example cheated because she wasn\u2019t giving him enough attention, or that he insulted (or even hit her) for her own good.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Parece absurdo, eu sei.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re anxious and insecure about yourself, something like this is easy to believe.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, um homem com um dist\u00farbio narc\u00edsico far\u00e1 uma lavagem cerebral em si durante meses e anos.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll blame you for every little thing that happens and for every failure of your relationship until you\u2019re manipulated into seeing things that way too.<\/p>\n

3. A narcissist makes their victims feel like they\u2019re not enough\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: A narcissist\u2019s ego is fragile.<\/p>\n

Despite popular opinion, these people don\u2019t think highly of themselves and have an awfully low self-esteem.<\/p>\n

No entanto, em vez de trabalharem estas quest\u00f5es, optam por um modelo de comportamento diferente.<\/p>\n

They decide to start acting completely the opposite to what they feel and pretending that they\u2019re self-confident in order for others to see them that way as well.<\/p>\n

So, when you first meet a man like this, you admire his sense of self-worth without actually knowing what\u2019s hidden underneath the surface.<\/p>\n

The problem isn\u2019t in this guy\u2019s cockiness, it is in the way he bases his self-value on humiliating others.<\/p>\n

A narcissist constantly compares himself to everyone around him \u2013 especially to his victim \u2013 and the only way for him to feel good is to be above you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Consequentemente, este tipo aproveita todas as oportunidades para o deitar abaixo.<\/p>\n

Insulta-o, chama-lhe nomes, diminui o seu valor, tro\u00e7a de si. Afirma que os seus amigos, a sua educa\u00e7\u00e3o ou a sua carreira n\u00e3o servem para nada.<\/p>\n

Obriga-nos a compararmo-nos com outras raparigas. E a lista continua.<\/p>\n

Ele faz de si o submisso na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

O sentimento de dom\u00ednio que ele tem sobre si d\u00e1-lhe uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de poder e de autoestima.<\/p>\n

4. …while anxious people already have self-doubts<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E quem \u00e9 que achas que \u00e9 o melhor para este truque de magia? Bem, ningu\u00e9m mais do que uma rapariga que j\u00e1 est\u00e1 a lutar contra a ansiedade e as inseguran\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher ansiosa \u00e9 a v\u00edtima mais adequada de um abuso de narcisistas<\/a> porque ela j\u00e1 pensa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente.<\/p>\n

So, a narcissist has no trouble making her believe that she really isn\u2019t worth anything.<\/p>\n

This guy puts all of his efforts into convincing you that you\u2019re not meant to be loved, that you should be lucky that he agreed to be with you, despite the way he\u2019s treating you, and that nobody else would ever look at you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not pretty or beautiful enough.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re stupid, crazy, incapable of doing anything with your life, and you would be a total failure if it weren\u2019t for him \u2013 your savior and the only person in this world who could ever love you the way you are.<\/p>\n

5. A narcissist uses fear\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Outra t\u00e9cnica que todos os narcisistas utilizam para controlar as suas v\u00edtimas e mant\u00ea-las ao seu lado \u00e9 o medo.<\/p>\n

When you hear this, you probably assume that this man threatens to kill you or beat you up, but there is much more to fear than physical threats, even though they\u2019re also usually included in narcissistic abuse.<\/p>\n

He might emotionally blackmail you and tell you that he\u2019ll do something to himself if you leave him.<\/p>\n

Or he threatens to expose all of your secrets to your closest ones or publish your private videos and photos \u2013 the possibilities are endless.<\/p>\n

\"namorada<\/p>\n

He promises that he\u2019ll destroy you if you walk away on him or that he\u2019ll haunt you for as long as you\u2019re alive.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, o resultado final \u00e9 o mesmo.<\/p>\n

This man doesn\u2019t keep you physically locked up next to him, but he definitely does keep you hostage in another way.<\/p>\n

6. …while anxiety disorder makes you afraid<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, uma pessoa com ansiedade \u00e9 o alvo perfeito para este tipo de comportamento.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, a sua perturba\u00e7\u00e3o de ansiedade faz com que tenha medo por si s\u00f3.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re an overthinker and pessimist who always expects the worst case scenario.<\/p>\n

So, how could you assume that this man\u2019s threats are in vain?<\/p>\n

How could you see that he is actually nothing but a coward who wouldn\u2019t have the guts to do anything about it?<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Most importantly, how could you deal with this new fear, when you\u2019re already struggling with the ones you already have?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se pode olhar para ele diretamente nos olhos e acabar por afugent\u00e1-lo?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t, right? Well, sadly, your narcissistic boyfriend knows that and uses it to his advantage.<\/p>\n

7. A narcissist gaslights their victims\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Todos os narcisistas t\u00eam o h\u00e1bito de usar uma t\u00e1tica t\u00f3xica chamada gaslighting.<\/p>\n

Mentem, contam meias-verdades e fazem tudo o que podem para alterar o curso dos acontecimentos na sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re playing with your mind, trying to make you feel like you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/p>\n

Every time you two argue about something, a narcissist claims that you didn\u2019t hear things right, that you misinterpreted them, or that you made a big deal out of nothing.<\/p>\n

\"marido<\/p>\n

Nos casos mais extremos, um narcisista tentar\u00e1 convenc\u00ea-lo de que algumas coisas do seu passado nunca aconteceram.<\/p>\n

It is all in your head and you\u2019re imagining things just to accuse him of being a bad guy.<\/p>\n

Basically, they want to brainwash you to the point where you\u2019ll believe them over your own brain and where you\u2019ll start doubting your own sanity.<\/p>\n

8. …who don\u2019t trust their own judgments<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you\u2019re dealing with an anxiety disorder, it won\u2019t take you long before you start believing him, since you already question your judgment-making skills.<\/p>\n

A sua mem\u00f3ria est\u00e1 correcta ou este homem est\u00e1 a dizer a verdade?<\/p>\n

A sua mente est\u00e1 a pregar-lhe partidas?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a ver as coisas piores do que s\u00e3o na realidade devido ao seu pessimismo e inseguran\u00e7as?<\/p>\n

Bem, a resposta \u00e9 n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve everything but crazy and you have a more vivid remembrance of the past because of the pain it caused you.<\/p>\n

9. A narcissist makes their victim emotionally dependent\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Todos os narcisistas precisam de ser necess\u00e1rios porque isso lhes d\u00e1 um sentido de valor.<\/p>\n

E para o conseguir, faz com que as suas v\u00edtimas se tornem emocionalmente dependente<\/a> sobre ele.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, ele finge ser o melhor homem que j\u00e1 conheceu.<\/p>\n

Ele d\u00e1-te toda a sua alma e cora\u00e7\u00e3o, faz-te favores e ajuda-te sempre que pode.<\/p>\n

Claro que, passado algum tempo, come\u00e7amos a confiar nele.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

You count on the fact that this man isn\u2019t going anywhere and you\u2019re more than happy for finally finding someone to share your life difficulties with.<\/p>\n

Mas no momento em que reconhece isso, um narcisista desiste.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn’t leave you hanging for good. He just wants you to see how emotionally dependent you\u2019ve actually become on him.<\/p>\n

So, he manages to convince you that you can\u2019t make it without him.<\/p>\n

E ele faz com que o seu maior pesadelo seja o medo de o perder.<\/p>\n

10. …while anxious people are scared of abandonment<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re an anxious person, you\u2019re constantly obsessed with the thought that everyone you love will walk away on you sooner or later.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll do something to chase them away, they\u2019ll get tired of your demanding personality, or they\u2019ll just stop loving you.<\/p>\n

Bem, estes quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/a> you\u2019re dealing with is exactly what this guy uses against you.<\/p>\n

He knows you\u2019re terrified of the mere thought of him leaving you on your own, and he is always keeping your traumas alive.<\/p>\n

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