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<\/p>\nAfter all this time, I’m still hoping.<\/p>\n
I’m hoping that maybe one day you will explain why you left me.<\/p>\n
I know it’s wrong. I should just leave you in the past and simply move on with my life.<\/p>\n
But that’s not easy.<\/p>\n
Como \u00e9 que se ultrapassa algo que se pensava que ia durar para sempre?<\/p>\n
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Como \u00e9 que se deixa para tr\u00e1s algu\u00e9m por quem se tinha sentimentos t\u00e3o fortes e a quem se amava de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n
To be honest, I don\u2019t know how many times I tried to write this letter and I couldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n
As minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es estavam \u00e0 flor da pele.<\/p>\n
Continuo a amar-te.<\/p>\n
However, I was also angry because I couldn\u2019t believe it was so easy for you to let me go. To let our love go.<\/p>\n
Agora, estou zangada comigo mesma por ter amado algu\u00e9m que nunca foi meu, que me deixou sem palavras.<\/p>\n
Senti-me tra\u00edda porque me mentiu.<\/p>\n
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How many times did you say that you would do anything for me, that there was nothing in this world you wouldn\u2019t have done for me?<\/p>\n
Bem, a \u00fanica coisa que tinhas de fazer era amar-me como eu te amava. E falhaste.<\/p>\n
I felt sad. That\u2019s it. I felt so profoundly sad.<\/p>\n
N\u00e3o h\u00e1 palavras suficientes para descrever este sentimento.<\/p>\n
Espero que compreendas o que fizeste e as consequ\u00eancias que deixaste em mim. Deixaste uma marca ineg\u00e1vel no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
If you ever cared for me, you wouldn\u2019t have made me feel like this.<\/p>\n
I was afraid. I was actually worried about my mental health because I didn\u2019t think I was strong enough to cope with you leaving.<\/p>\n
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As cicatrizes que deixaste assustaram-me.<\/p>\n
Estava sempre a temer que o homem que viesse depois de ti fosse t\u00e3o mau como tu.<\/p>\n
After it all ended, I didn\u2019t want anyone else to take your place.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t want to have someone near me if that wasn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n
I was confused. I simply wasn\u2019t able to comprehend what happened.<\/p>\n
Nada disso parecia fazer sentido para mim.<\/p>\n
Tudo parecia ser perfeito num momento, mas depois partiste-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Partiste-me.<\/p>\n
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E fiquei com um sentimento de inseguran\u00e7a, que ainda hoje tenho.<\/p>\n
I thought that I wasn\u2019t enough for you or that maybe I had rushed you into something you didn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n
Sometimes I even caught myself thinking that I wouldn\u2019t ever find someone who would be able to love me like I deserve, like I loved you, selfless and pure, without any measure.<\/p>\n
But now, after time healed my wounds and after I managed to patch my heart, I know that true love will find me, at the right time…<\/p>\n
Por isso, obrigado. Obrigado por me deixares ir.<\/p>\n
Aprendi a dizer adeus. Ensinaste-me a abrir as asas e a voar livremente de novo.<\/p>\n
Guess what? The world didn\u2019t stop with you leaving after all.<\/p>\n
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H\u00e1 tantas coisas bonitas \u00e0 espera que eu saia e as explore.<\/p>\n
H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que estar\u00e1 pronto para o meu amor.<\/p>\n
Algu\u00e9m que me vai mimar com o seu amor. Algu\u00e9m que eu encorajarei a ser melhor a cada passo do caminho.<\/p>\n
H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m com quem vou realizar os meus sonhos.<\/p>\n
Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to love or commit.<\/p>\n
I know it\u2019s my fault I gave you all the love you didn’t deserve.<\/p>\n
Eu dei-te tudo de mim.<\/p>\n
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I am sorry because I didn\u2019t know how to love any less than that… But you weren’t ready to love me the same way.<\/p>\n
Se calhar esforcei-me demasiado.<\/p>\n
Did I scare you with something I did? I know you didn’t fake all of that.<\/p>\n
You can’t fake emotions as strong as that. You didn’t fake your love. So, what really happened?<\/p>\n
This is a rhetorical question because I don\u2019t want to know the answer.<\/p>\n
I am afraid of it. I am afraid you\u2019ll tell me that I rushed you into something serious.<\/p>\n
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I want to believe that you weren’t ready for a serious relationship, that you weren\u2019t ready for the type of love I was giving you.<\/p>\n
You weren’t ready for that \u2018forever type of love\u2019.<\/p>\n
Anyway, it doesn\u2019t matter anymore who was wrong and who was right. It doesn\u2019t matter whether I chased you away or you were the running type.<\/p>\n
O que importa \u00e9 que aprendi alguma coisa com a nossa hist\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n
I learned a thing or two about men and relationships. I learned to let go of the things that weren\u2019t meant for me.<\/p>\n
Mais importante ainda, aprendi a valorizar-me mais.<\/p>\n
Abri os meus olhos para novas perspectivas e para uma nova vida que posso ter sem ti.<\/p>\n
E tu?<\/p>\n
Tornaste-te parte do meu passado e quero deixar-te l\u00e1. Estou pronto para o futuro.<\/p>\n
Take care of yourself and goodbye… forever!<\/p>\n
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