You asked yourself: What did I do to deserve this? Why can\u2019t I just have a normal, loving relationship, full of trust?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s the only thing you ever wanted. It should be so simple.<\/p>\n
After some time, you realized it wasn\u2019t about you or what you wanted.<\/p>\n
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N\u00e3o havia espa\u00e7o para as suas necessidades.<\/p>\n
It was always about him and you didn\u2019t even mind it until he violated your boundaries and transformed your whole world into such a lonely place.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esfor\u00e7aste-te tanto para te tornares novamente vulner\u00e1vel porque sabias que essa era a \u00fanica forma de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcionar.<\/p>\n Enfrentava os seus medos um a um, queria que isto fosse puro. Um novo come\u00e7o.<\/p>\n You tried to understand. You didn\u2019t think it would be easy to deal with all your fears and insecurities.<\/p>\n Olhando agora para tr\u00e1s, percebe que estava apenas a tentar justificar os comportamentos ego\u00edstas dele.<\/p>\n It\u2019s crazy how love can blind you. You didn\u2019t have anyone to reach out to\u2014because he was all you knew.<\/p>\n Entregou-se a ele. A pessoa que adoravas tornou-se no teu pior pesadelo.<\/p>\n Tudo o que partilharam tornou-se apenas mem\u00f3rias dolorosas e mais dor. Sentia-se t\u00e3o s\u00f3.<\/p>\n Haver\u00e1 algo pior do que partilhar todos os nossos medos e esperan\u00e7as com algu\u00e9m s\u00f3 para ver essa pessoa us\u00e1-los contra n\u00f3s, us\u00e1-los para nos magoar ainda mais?<\/strong><\/p>\n Como \u00e9 que isso \u00e9 poss\u00edvel? Ele disse que se preocupava tantas vezes.<\/p>\n Ele disse que ningu\u00e9m se aproximava de ti. Ele disse que ningu\u00e9m te podia magoar.<\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing scarier than thinking those words were straight-up lies and he was the one who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n The worst thing is, you stopped trusting yourself and this is because you couldn\u2019t believe you fell for the same thing again.<\/p>\n Isso fez-te sentir t\u00e3o insegura. Perdeste toda a tua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n A voice in your head kept saying it was all your fault and it wouldn\u2019t go away.<\/p>\n Todos os dias, acordava com medo, com um peso no peito e sem acreditar que esta era agora a sua realidade.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 queria voltar a dormir porque s\u00f3 assim \u00e9 que a dor passava.<\/p>\n Rezou para voltar a ser voc\u00ea mesmo um dia. Levou tanto tempo s\u00f3 para conseguir fazer coisas normais.<\/p>\n You wanted to enjoy the small things again, so you started with everything that didn\u2019t remind you of him.<\/p>\n I want you to know that there\u2019s life after this.<\/p>\n Eu sei que isto a deixou cautelosa, mas tem de saber que h\u00e1 pessoas que a compreendem e que est\u00e3o a passar pelo mesmo.<\/p>\n Pouco a pouco, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a ouvir o que tu<\/em> o que quer, o que o faz sentir-se confort\u00e1vel e seguro.<\/p>\n Decidir\u00e1 que quer conhecer-se melhor.<\/p>\n Come\u00e7ar\u00e1s a conhecer-te fora da tua dor.<\/strong><\/p>\n Em primeiro lugar, pode come\u00e7ar por aceitar a sua dor e perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio por n\u00e3o saber fazer melhor.<\/p>\n Em segundo lugar, pode levar a s\u00e9rio todos os seus objectivos de vida e come\u00e7ar a fazer progressos para voltar a ser voc\u00ea mesmo.<\/p>\n Deixa-te apaixonar por tudo o que podes fazer e tudo o que podes ser.<\/p>\n Tome a decis\u00e3o de ver tudo o que passou como motiva\u00e7\u00e3o e como uma curva de aprendizagem.<\/p>\n Learn to accept that everything in life happens for a reason, one you don\u2019t know in advance.<\/p>\n This realization will make you at peace with yourself. There\u2019s no other way than to let go and try again.<\/p>\n A sua for\u00e7a est\u00e1 na sua hist\u00f3ria de vida. O seu sentido de poder vem do facto de acreditar sempre, tentar e seguir em frente, apesar da dor que as pessoas lhe causaram.<\/p>\n Once you realize that no person can take your power if you don\u2019t let them, you\u2019re invincible. Stand in your power.<\/p>\n This life is yours and yours only and it\u2019s you who gets to decide what you\u2019re going to do with it.<\/p>\n It\u2019s never too late. It\u2019s just one decision away.<\/p>\n Do it all not to prove yourself to anyone but yourself because you\u2019re the one who deserves it all.<\/p>\n You know that someday he\u2019s going to wake up overwhelmed by sadness and betrayal and ask himself: Is this how she felt? Yes. Even worse, it\u2019s how you felt so many times in life that you almost lost all your hope. You forgot what safe felt like. 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