{"id":54761,"date":"2020-03-13T09:33:19","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T09:33:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54761"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:35","slug":"o-que-e-realmente-o-casamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-realmente-o-casamento\/","title":{"rendered":"O que \u00e9 realmente o casamento (porque \u00e9 muito mais do que um grande e elegante casamento)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tudo o que antecede o dia do casamento \u00e9 muito rom\u00e2ntico: planear uma grande rece\u00e7\u00e3o, um belo vestido e, claro, o seu pr\u00edncipe encantado.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando se aprofunda o casamento, a vida pode parecer menos rom\u00e2ntica. Menos excitante. Menos interessante.<\/p>\n<p>Cuidar da sua casa e organizar a sua vida depois do casamento pode at\u00e9 faz\u00ea-la pensar se fez a coisa certa.<\/p>\n<p>Pergunto-me porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 muito menos do que esperava.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54764 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-couple-sitting-at-home-and-looking-at-laptop-screen.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente sentado em casa e a olhar para o ecr\u00e3 do computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-couple-sitting-at-home-and-looking-at-laptop-screen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-couple-sitting-at-home-and-looking-at-laptop-screen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-couple-sitting-at-home-and-looking-at-laptop-screen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You need to trust me on this one. Marriage is in no way less. It\u2019s so, so much more.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Marriage isn\u2019t always rainbows and butterflies but it beautifully deepens the bond you\u2019ve created with your soulmate.<\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 deixar de lado as expectativas do que pens\u00e1vamos que o casamento deveria ser e perceber que \u00e9 muito mais do que alguma vez poder\u00edamos sonhar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Marriage is cuddling up on the sofa and realizing there\u2019s no one else in the whole wide world you\u2019d rather be with.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 ser capaz de imaginar um futuro em conjunto, seja ele qual for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54771 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-cuddling-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a acariciar-se em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-cuddling-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-cuddling-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-cuddling-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sentir-se pronto para lidar com tudo o que surgir no seu caminho, porque saber que o vai fazer com a sua alma g\u00e9mea torna-o destemido.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage is learning that one fight doesn\u2019t mean the end. A fight is just one of the ways you grow better and stronger together.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 dizer algo intencionalmente ofensivo e arrepender-se no momento em que sai da boca, esperando que a pessoa o perdoe.<\/p>\n<p>O casamento significa ter algu\u00e9m que nos apoie mesmo quando estamos no nosso pior momento. Significa ter algu\u00e9m que se ria das nossas piadas mais parvas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54765 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-on-bed-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz sentado na cama num quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-on-bed-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-on-bed-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-on-bed-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Significa estar sempre por perto. Para sempre. Para o bem e para o mal. Significa que ele te protege e que tu o proteges, mesmo quando fazes asneiras.<\/p>\n<p>No casamento, partilha-se tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Your home, your bed, your secrets, and your most intimate thoughts &#8211; the ones you thought you could never share with anyone.<\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 sentir-se seguro, amado e cuidado e ter a certeza de que a outra pessoa se sente exatamente da mesma forma devido ao que fazemos por ela.<\/p>\n<p>Casamento \u00e9 passar uma grande parte da noite descoberta, mas recusar-se a comprar edred\u00f5es separados porque o quer t\u00e3o perto de si quanto poss\u00edvel, durante o m\u00e1ximo de tempo poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is singing and dancing to the same tune &#8211; one that only you two can hear.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54766 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-dancing-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a dan\u00e7ar em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-dancing-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-dancing-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-dancing-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Marriage is wanting to prove that you\u2019re right so badly but choosing not to because it\u2019s less important than creating a healthy atmosphere between you and your partner.<\/p>\n<p>It means having a best friend who can read any face you make and know just what you\u2019re up to simply by the way you look at them.<\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 mostrar um ao outro que nos preocupamos \u00e0 nossa maneira.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be roses, chocolates, and gifts.<\/p>\n<p>Pode ser uma refei\u00e7\u00e3o caseira, um lava-loi\u00e7a fixo ou um telefonema a meio do dia para ver como est\u00e1 o seu ente querido.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O casamento raramente \u00e9 um grande gesto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54768 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-spending-nice-time-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a passar um bom bocado em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-spending-nice-time-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-spending-nice-time-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-spending-nice-time-at-home-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>More often than not it\u2019s a messy web of short moments, memories, and beautiful things you say and do to each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 perceber que a beleza, a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o e a aprova\u00e7\u00e3o social n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada a ver com a vossa pequena comunidade.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 fazer um pacto secreto que garante que ser\u00e3o sempre voc\u00eas os dois contra o mundo.<\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 discordar de muitas coisas, mas ter sempre a certeza de uma: garantir que nunca, mas nunca, desistem um do outro e do vosso amor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It means enjoying each other\u2019s differences and loving your partner for their flaws, not despite them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54772 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a olhar um para o outro e a sorrir\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O casamento \u00e9 apaixonar-se vezes sem conta, cada vez pela mesma pessoa, mas de uma forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o se trata apenas de nos amarmos uns aos outros, mas tamb\u00e9m de gostarmos e respeitarmos uns aos outros como pessoas. Significa trabalhar em conjunto para o mesmo objetivo.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage isn\u2019t a necessity in life but it is an amazing luxury, bringing the promise of friendship, love, and support forever.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se obtenha simplesmente. \u00c9 preciso trabalhar arduamente.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage is something you do &#8211; learning to love and care for your partner each day of your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O casamento come\u00e7a, de facto, quando se casa com a pessoa que se ama, mas constr\u00f3i-se amando a pessoa com quem se casa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54763 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"O que \u00e9 realmente o casamento (porque \u00e9 muito mais do que um grande e elegante casamento)\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/WHAT-MARRIAGE-REALLY-IS-BECAUSE-IT\u2019S-SO-MUCH-MORE-THAN-A-BIG-FANCY-WEDDING-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everything that leads up to your wedding day is very romantic: planning a big reception, a beautiful dress, and of course, your Prince Charming. Deeper into marriage, though, life can seem less romantic. Less exciting. Less interesting. Taking care of your home and organizing your life after the wedding might even make you wonder if&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":54762,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54761","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/What-Marriage-Really-Is-Because-It\u2019s-So-Much-More-Than-A-Big-Fancy-Wedding.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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