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<\/p>\nHave you ever found yourself running after a man who clearly doesn\u2019t want you? After a man who can never give you what you want and who will never love you enough?<\/p>\n
If you have, you\u2019ll be well aware of how painful this situation can be. It\u2019s not that you end up heartbroken\u2013your ego is ruined, as well.<\/p>\n
However, besides this pain, chasing a guy who doesn\u2019t want to get caught brings numerous other long lasting consequences. Here are seven of them.<\/p>\n
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The first consequence of chasing a guy who doesn\u2019t want to be yours, is that you lose all sense of your self value.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t help but take this man\u2019s rejection personally and after a while, you convince yourself that there is something wrong with you.<\/p>\n
You wonder why the man you are into can\u2019t love you and doesn\u2019t want you. What do you need to change about yourself to become more appealing and attractive to him?<\/p>\n
After all, you\u2019ve done everything in your power to win him over.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve put in maximum effort and given him your best self but even so, he hasn\u2019t had the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n
So, you come to the conclusion that you\u2019re n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/span><\/a> para ele.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t know whether it\u2019s your looks, your character, or something else but the bottom line is that you\u2019re missing something and all your efforts can\u2019t seem to compensate for it.<\/p>\n Consequentemente, perde a sua autoestima e come\u00e7a a encontrar defeitos na sua apar\u00eancia e personalidade, tentando encontrar a causa da indiferen\u00e7a dele.<\/p>\n Not only that\u2013you also go as far as comparing yourself to all the other girls around him. What do they have that you don\u2019t?<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: P\u00e1ra de o perseguir e v\u00ea o que acontece (6 coisas incr\u00edveis)<\/a><\/p>\n Depois de algum tempo a correr atr\u00e1s de um homem que nunca a quis em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 natural sentir-se cansada e emocionalmente esgotada.<\/p>\n It\u2019s like the chase and all of the mind games you\u2019ve been trying to play have gotten the best of you.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve taken away your energy and sucked the life out of you, leaving you completely drained and empty.<\/p>\n You feel like you\u2019ve just gotten out of a war\u2013and this is exactly what this was: a battle which you didn\u2019t have the slightest chance of winning.<\/p>\n Naturally, this experience has changed you. It\u2019s turned you into a negative and bitter person who has lost her optimism and will to live.<\/p>\n O pior \u00e9 que todo este esfor\u00e7o foi em v\u00e3o. Investiu tanto de si para acabar por n\u00e3o obter nada.<\/p>\n Na verdade, conseguiu perder-se a si pr\u00f3prio e a vis\u00e3o positiva que tinha do mundo. E, definitivamente, n\u00e3o foi para isso que se inscreveu e n\u00e3o era isso que esperava.<\/p>\n Entre outras coisas, a consequ\u00eancia mais prejudicial \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, ter problemas de relacionamento<\/span><\/a> with someone you\u2019re not in an actual relationship with.<\/p>\n Na verdade, est\u00e1 numa esp\u00e9cie de situa\u00e7\u00e3o indefinida, uma quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ou o que quer que lhe queira chamar.<\/p>\n Either way, the point is that you have the arguments, the jealous outbursts, the anxiety when he doesn\u2019t respond to your texts. You have the lack of trust, understanding, and compromise.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you\u2013some of these things also happen in real relationships. Not all the time, but even if they do, it\u2019s not the end of the world and a couple will work to overcome them.<\/p>\n Every relationship has its negative sides. Nevertheless, sometimes, it\u2019s worth putting up with them because of all the good things your romance brings.<\/p>\n No final do dia, tens uma pessoa que te ama e respeita, e algu\u00e9m que sabes que nunca te abandonar\u00e1.<\/p>\n No entanto, quando se trata da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o de situa\u00e7\u00e3o, as coisas s\u00e3o bastante diferentes. Tem problemas de relacionamento e todos os aspectos negativos de um romance sem os positivos.<\/p>\n E isso \u00e9 uma treta!<\/p>\n Another dangerous consequence of chasing a guy who doesn\u2019t want to be caught is the inseguran\u00e7as<\/span><\/a> que provoca.<\/p>\n Without even planning it, you apply your overthinking state of mind to everyone\u2013not just to your almost boyfriend.<\/p>\n It is perfectly normal to have lost your trust in everyone and not believe in anyone\u2019s intentions anymore. You are convinced that everyone is out to get you and wants to hurt you.<\/p>\n Moreover\u2013 you overthink your every move, in constant fear of making a mistake and doing something wrong.<\/p>\n Without even being aware of it, you\u2019ve become a people pleaser and you\u2019ve started walking on eggshells around everyone because you are afraid that they will also think of you as not enough and reject you the same way this guy did.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em pensar bem nas coisas antes de as p\u00f4r em pr\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n No entanto, h\u00e1 uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre ser sensato e cuidadoso e analisar e dissecar todos os seus passos antes de os dar.<\/p>\n You\u2019re someone who can only focus on one guy at a time.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t give a damn whether he\u2019s worthy of your attention or whether he is giving you any positive feedback\u2013when you love a man, you have eyes only for him.<\/p>\n This is a great quality when you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who is also one hundred percent loyal, faithful, and devoted.<\/p>\n On the other hand, when you\u2019re the apenas um a tentar<\/span><\/a> tentadora e carinhosa, esta carater\u00edstica pode ter consequ\u00eancias nefastas.<\/p>\n Sabes, enquanto andavas atr\u00e1s desse homem que nunca quis saber de ti, perdeste muitas boas oportunidades.<\/p>\n Houve in\u00fameros rapazes simp\u00e1ticos que tentaram aproximar-se de si, mas voc\u00ea n\u00e3o reparou porque era cega.<\/p>\n Even though you\u2019re not actually taken, this is exactly how you behave: as if you were in a serious relationship, when you should be putting yourself out there.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not advising you to deliberately enter a rebound relationship, I\u2019m just begging you to at least take into consideration someone who deserves you.<\/p>\n2. Sente-se esgotado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. You have relationship problems with someone you\u2019re not in a relationship with<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Torna-se inseguro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Perde muitas oportunidades<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Sente-se ansioso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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