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<\/p>\nPor vezes, as coisas m\u00e1s que nos acontecem mudam as nossas vidas para sempre e isso n\u00e3o faz mal, porque aprendemos a viver atrav\u00e9s delas e a transform\u00e1-las em for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n
Still, from time to time, it\u2019s hard to be comfortable doing things like you did before, especially when it comes to close relationships\u2014especially with your significant other.<\/p>\n
You can feel out of place and insecure because you\u2019re left with triggers you didn\u2019t have before your trauma.<\/p>\n
You can feel like you\u2019re putting on a mask so you can feel protected.<\/p>\n
Poder\u00e1 sentir-se demasiado desconfiado ou receoso ou n\u00e3o ter confian\u00e7a ou mesmo motiva\u00e7\u00e3o para fazer as coisas que fazia anteriormente.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m here to tell you that\u2019s okay and you shouldn\u2019t worry and here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n
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Mereces algu\u00e9m que te compreenda a ti e aos teus sentimentos completamente.<\/p>\n
You deserve someone who will treat you like he gives a damn, who won\u2019t make fake promises or pretend to care for you and send you mixed signals.<\/p>\n
You shouldn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re a burden.<\/p>\n
Somebody who truly loves you will never make you feel like you\u2019re difficult to deal with.<\/p>\n
Em vez disso, mostram-se compreensivos, arranjam tempo para ouvir e esfor\u00e7am-se por o fazer sentir seguro e compreendido.<\/p>\n
Uma pessoa que nos ame verdadeiramente aceitar-nos-\u00e1 tal como somos nesse momento.<\/p>\n
Love shouldn\u2019t be restrictive or make ultimatums.<\/p>\n
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It shouldn\u2019t bring you to tears. Love should feel free and make you happy.<\/p>\n
If it doesn\u2019t make you happy, it\u2019s not love.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s something else you already learned about and don\u2019t want to recall.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re with the right person, life becomes easier.<\/p>\n
Continua a ter os seus altos e baixos, mas nunca nos torna infelizes.<\/p>\n
Deixamos de nos esconder atr\u00e1s de m\u00e1scaras que t\u00ednhamos de colocar porque t\u00ednhamos medo de ser magoados de novo.<\/p>\n
Deixamos de viver a vida de v\u00edtima e come\u00e7amos a criar a vida nos nossos pr\u00f3prios termos.<\/p>\n
Everything is easier when you have a person you can be yourself with\u2014completely and utterly yourself.<\/p>\n
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Com toda a sua gra\u00e7a ou ansiedade, tristeza ou excita\u00e7\u00e3o, brincadeira ou seriedade.<\/p>\n
De facto, uma pessoa que est\u00e1 verdadeiramente destinada a si pode ver atrav\u00e9s das suas m\u00e1scaras e da sua dor.<\/p>\n
They can recognize when you\u2019re putting up a front and when you’re being yourself.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t underestimate the powerful sight of love.<\/p>\n
Ele trat\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 com respeito nos bons e nos maus momentos.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t need to agree on everything but you have to respect each other and that includes times when you find it difficult to let go of certain things, like fears.<\/p>\n
A pessoa a quem se destina saber\u00e1 como voltar a p\u00f4-lo confort\u00e1vel e feliz.<\/p>\n
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Ele sentir-se-\u00e1 em casa.<\/p>\n
Ele coloca-te sempre em primeiro lugar e protege-te.<\/p>\n
Exprime os seus sentimentos livremente e sem hesita\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n
As suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es para contigo ser\u00e3o sempre claras e ele far\u00e1 com que saibas o quanto \u00e9s especial, apesar do teu lado dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n
You won\u2019t be stressed about his perception of you because deep down, you know he sees you for who you are.<\/p>\n
A sua verdadeira pessoa n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 medo de um desafio.<\/p>\n
Ele reconhecer\u00e1 o seu potencial e esperar\u00e1 que se abra sem o pressionar.<\/p>\n
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That\u2019s when you are going to know you\u2019re loved like you deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re loved like you deserve to be loved, you will throw away your masks and heal your wounds.<\/p>\n
Tudo o que antes o fazia esconder-se a si pr\u00f3prio e aos seus sentimentos dissolver-se-\u00e1 na felicidade do verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n
You will learn that love isn\u2019t about making constant sacrifices just to maintain the peace or crying through sleepless nights because he didn\u2019t call and then pretending the next day that it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n
O amor \u00e9 o compromisso de viver a vida juntos e um para o outro.<\/p>\n
O amor \u00e9 ser o melhor que se pode ser e a pessoa que nos rodeia torce pela nossa felicidade.<\/p>\n
Love is about feeling safe in his arms and falling asleep peacefully, knowing you\u2019re exactly where you need to be, the way that you are.<\/p>\n
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