{"id":54905,"date":"2020-03-15T09:01:39","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T09:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54905"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","slug":"algo-que-esta-destinado-a-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/algo-que-esta-destinado-a-si\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se pode estragar algo que foi feito para n\u00f3s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguma vez pensou nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas e sentiu que estava a desperdi\u00e7ar a sua preciosa vida com algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o a merecia?<\/p>\n

Talvez o facto de pensar que estava a fazer algo errado seja o que o impede de ter o que quer agora.<\/p>\n

If that one man didn\u2019t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you did something wrong, but perhaps that he simply wasn\u2019t someone you needed.<\/p>\n

Maybe it means there’s a greater plan ahead.<\/p>\n

If he criticizes you often, he\u2019s not the one<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

If a man keeps telling you you\u2019re not doing something right or keeps downplaying your emotions, I\u2019m sorry, but that means he isn\u2019t the one.<\/p>\n

What he\u2019s doing is  <\/span>abuso emocional<\/span><\/a>. Ningu\u00e9m merece ser tratado assim.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important you recognize the signs on time. Emotional abuse is a real thing that happens to many women who don\u2019t even realize it.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need your partner to put so much unneeded pressure on you.<\/p>\n

O que precisas \u00e9 de apoio infinito. Um lugar seguro para onde voltar.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que te protege sempre, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

Precisas que ele seja o teu maior apoio. Tudo o que seja menos do que isso \u00e9 inaceit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

He must accept you as you are \u2013 no more, no less<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If the love is real, you can\u2019t really mess up. So-called mess ups are just an opportunity for more understanding and strengthening your relationship.<\/p>\n

And if your partner\u2019s the right one, he will know that better than anyone.<\/p>\n

Understanding your partner\u2019s flaws is the best way to show them you accept them fully.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quando souber que ele a aceita como um todo \u00e9 que se pode sentir segura e come\u00e7ar a construir uma vida com ele sem medo de falhar novamente.<\/p>\n

If he constantly makes you feel like you need to be somehow better, he\u2019s got a problem, and that problem isn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n

Encare o fracasso como uma garantia, n\u00e3o como uma trag\u00e9dia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Instead of believing your fears and thinking you\u2019re doing something wrong, try seeing failures as a sign telling you something\u2019s not good for you.<\/p>\n

Ou melhor ainda:<\/p>\n

A sign telling you there is something else waiting for you and when the time comes, you\u2019re going to know that\u2019s it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Every cloud has a silver lining. Nothing is lost. You\u2019re not there yet.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019re not late. There\u2019s time.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no plan you should follow. Nobody can control life.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re allowed to have your own life\u2019s rhythm. And dance how you want to.<\/p>\n

Acredite na sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"bela<\/p>\n

This is the thing most people seem to forget about or simply dismiss because they think somebody else knows better what’s good for them.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make sense. How can someone else know what you\u2019ve been through and what you\u2019ve been feeling better than you?<\/p>\n

No one else can know it more intensely than yourself! That\u2019s the truth of life.<\/p>\n

The sooner you realize it, the sooner your life starts to change. Rapidly. You\u2019ll start trusting yourself more and more.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisa de ter f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio e o resto vir\u00e1 a seguir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixem de p\u00f4r tudo o resto \u00e0 vossa frente.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

If you needed a sign to tell you it\u2019s time to take your life into your own hands and start trusting your inner voice, this is it.<\/p>\n

Encorajo-vos a eliminar todas as vossas d\u00favidas e a dar corajosamente o primeiro passo para a vossa nova vida.<\/p>\n

A new life where you\u2019re always sure your decisions are what leads you right there where you need to be.<\/p>\n

And remember:  You can\u2019t mess up something that\u2019s meant for you. So, keep your head up and start being brave again.<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you ever think about your past relationships and feel like you\u2019ve been wasting your precious life on someone who didn\u2019t deserve it? Maybe thinking you were doing something wrong is what keeps you from having what you want now. If that one man didn\u2019t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":54910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}