{"id":5493,"date":"2019-09-21T09:05:33","date_gmt":"2019-09-21T09:05:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5493"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:22:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:22:35","slug":"a-rapariga-merece-muito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-rapariga-merece-muito\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que merece muito mais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro <\/span>\u201cFuture Me\u201d<\/span><\/i>,<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

C\u00e1 vamos n\u00f3s outra vez. Tudo de novo. Mais um desgosto. Mais uma desilus\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mais dor. Tanta dor. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quantos idiotas me separam da realidade? Quanta mis\u00e9ria posso aguentar?<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done. I really am. I deserve better. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know it is fine to cry your eyes out. I know that no one will blame me if I refuse to get up from bed for a few days. I know that\u2019s all part of the \u2018getting better\u2019 process.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that I decided I won\u2019t be going through that again. I\u2019m done reliving that chapter of the book on my life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A realidade deu-me uma bofetada na cara com muita for\u00e7a.<\/a> It showed me that nothing is worth my pain and my suffering. Everything will be pointless if I lose myself\u2014if I give in to defeat.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a loser. I can admit I\u2019ve been beaten down, but I won\u2019t accept it. I\u2019m a fighter. I know what I deserve, and it\u2019s not heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to move on. It\u2019s time to write a new story of my life all by myself. It\u2019s time to forget about that sorry ass of a man who didn\u2019t know how to love and respect me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

One day, he will see what a huge mistake he has made, and he will regret it. He will want me back. But, I will laugh in his face: \u201cGoodbye honey, I\u2019m done.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, it\u2019s time to rebuild myself. I need to find my self-worth and self-confidence again. You made me misplace it. You made me ignore my own well-being. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fizeste-me ter medo do meu pr\u00f3prio futuro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Preciso de aprender com os meus erros.<\/a> J\u00e1 estou a faz\u00ea-lo. Nunca mais vou deixar algu\u00e9m pegar no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e brincar com ele at\u00e9 se aborrecer. Eu mere\u00e7o muito mais do que isso. <\/span><\/p>\n

I will go on and live my dreams because I\u2019ve realized that nothing is impossible. It all depends on me. If I decide my dreams and only me is more important than anything else, it\u2019s the first step to success. Things will only become better after that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, it takes time for the scars from the past to heal, but with time the scars will fade\u2014they will become almost invisible. Why almost? Because they will always serve as a reminder what I\u2019ve been through and what not to do. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, here\u2019s a reminder to myself\u2014only Eu sei o que realmente mere\u00e7o<\/a> e s\u00f3 eu posso fazer com que isso aconte\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

The rest of them can only observe\u2014they cannot participate. I won\u2019t let them.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Com os melhores cumprimentos,<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear \u201cFuture Me\u201d,   Here we go again. Everything all over again. One more heartbreak. One more disappointment. More pain. So much pain. How many jerks separate me from the real thing? How much misery can I take? I\u2019m done. I really am. I deserve better. I know it is fine to cry your eyes…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":5494,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/timothy-paul-smith-347021.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5493"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5493\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}