{"id":54961,"date":"2020-03-16T08:02:48","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T08:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54961"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:01:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:01:24","slug":"de-amigos-a-amantes-11-passos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/de-amigos-a-amantes-11-passos\/","title":{"rendered":"De amigos a amantes: 11 passos para a transi\u00e7\u00e3o para o pr\u00f3ximo n\u00edvel"},"content":{"rendered":"

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas mais bonitas s\u00e3o aquelas que passaram de amigos a amantes.<\/p>\n

O melhor amigo \u00e9 aquela rocha e aquele la\u00e7o que \u00e9 diferente de qualquer outro. Os verdadeiros bons amigos entendem-se a n\u00edveis incompreens\u00edveis para os outros.<\/p>\n

Through your make-ups and breakups, you’ve truly gone through thick and thin together and you cannot imagine your life without your bestie.<\/p>\n

When you’re just friends with someone you feel a deeply close bond with, deep down, you always know that h\u00e1 mais n\u00edveis na vossa amizade<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s daunting at first to believe that your best friend could be your true love but in reality, it happens quite often.<\/p>\n

\"jovens<\/p>\n

A friendzone \u00e9 o lugar onde muitas futuras almas g\u00e9meas se encontraram finalmente, depois de terem estado l\u00e1 durante demasiado tempo.<\/p>\n

As pessoas tendem a ter medo dos sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos que as dominam, porque \u00e9 o seu melhor amigo, a sua pessoa, o seu parceiro no crime.<\/p>\n

You feel so close to them…  How can you risk ever losing that? You just couldn’t live with yourself.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 de imaginar que o primeiro beijo com o melhor amigo do liceu nos d\u00e1 arrepios mas, ao mesmo tempo, enche-nos a cabe\u00e7a com coisas m\u00e1s que podem acabar por acontecer.<\/p>\n

A tua hist\u00f3ria de amor \u00e9 verdadeiramente com o teu melhor amigo?<\/p>\n

Conseguem passar de amigos a amantes sem comprometer a profundidade da vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o e perder o que t\u00eam?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que vai levar a uma rutura depois de finalmente se ter apaixonado e de se ter deixado experimentar isso pela primeira vez?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Todas estas s\u00e3o perguntas v\u00e1lidas que todos os amigos plat\u00f3nicos far\u00e3o a si pr\u00f3prios se sentirem que pode haver algo mais na sua amizade.<\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 at\u00e9 haver um ligeiro constrangimento no in\u00edcio, porque a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a transitar para algo t\u00e3o diferente que precisam simplesmente de deixar acontecer para ver onde vai dar.<\/p>\n

Mas uma coisa que posso dizer com certeza \u00e9 que isto pode acabar por mudar todo o seu mundo para melhor.<\/p>\n

Passar de amigos a amantes \u00e9 a coisa mais natural que pode acontecer a duas pessoas que est\u00e3o destinadas a ficar juntas.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como saber se um cara gosta de voc\u00ea com certeza: 12 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 totalmente a fim de voc\u00ea!<\/a><\/p>\n

Transition From Friends To Lovers – The Signs<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

O mais surpreendente \u00e9 que pode estar a viver uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem o saber.<\/p>\n

How crazy is that? It often happens that two best friends (or really good friends) are so close and in sync that they actually act like lovers but aren’t aware of it until someone else points it out.<\/p>\n

In my life, I’ve been lucky to experience this amazingly deep transition and I wouldn’t change it for the world.<\/p>\n

When you’ve been close to someone for so long, you are able to understand their body language better than anyone else.<\/p>\n

Sabe quais s\u00e3o os seus programas de televis\u00e3o preferidos, as suas equipas desportivas e as suas maiores irrita\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

You know exactly what they’re going to say at certain times and you know what they’re thinking just by looking them in the eye.<\/p>\n

You’re already so much more than just friends, you just don’t know it.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You know the movie When Harry met Sally and the scene where Billy Crystal\u2019s character explains about sex always getting in the way of male-female friendships? That’s basically you two.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Only with you, there’s also a deep emotional and intellectual connection on top of the crazy sexual attraction that is almost palpable at this point.<\/p>\n

If you’re still not sure that you’re transitioning from friends to lovers and you want me to play matchmaker, I’d be more than happy to!<\/p>\n

Stop everything that you’re doing and start reading the following signs.<\/p>\n

Once you start checking them all off, you’ll see that your BFF might just be your one true love.<\/p>\n

Congrats! Now let’s make sure these romantic feelings are truly there…<\/p>\n

1. Paquera sem fim<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Um dos sinais subtis da transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos para amantes \u00e9 o flirt constante e amig\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

It may be perceived as totally innocent and devoid of any romantic feelings because you’re just friends, right?<\/p>\n

Mas os amigos que se envolvem em brincadeiras frequentes e namoriscam em muitas ocasi\u00f5es est\u00e3o a caminho de se apaixonarem.<\/p>\n

Pode n\u00e3o ver as coisas assim agora, mas olhe para tr\u00e1s. Tem andado a namoriscar descaradamente com todos os seus bons amigos ou s\u00f3 com aquele em particular?<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

And there’s your answer. Flirting among friends is a common indication that there’s something much deeper there.<\/p>\n

If flirting makes you feel giddy and hopeful and gives you all of the feels, you already know where it’s headed.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um sinal muito claro, s\u00f3 tem de abrir os olhos e estar preparado para o ver e aceitar.<\/p>\n

If it’s meant to be, let your friendship develop to the next level!<\/p>\n

2. Olhos apenas um para o outro<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 alguma vez te aconteceu estares num grupo com a tua melhor amiga e estarem presentes muitas mais pessoas, mas tu e a tua melhor amiga s\u00f3 terem olhos uma para a outra?<\/p>\n

That’s what experts would call a dead giveaway of a clear friends-to-lovers transition.<\/p>\n

Group conversations normally include all of the people who are present but with you two, you just can’t stop talking to each other, which makes your group conversations a tad awkward and you’re totally oblivious to it.<\/p>\n

I bet everybody can see what’s going on except you two.<\/p>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Os seus amigos e as pessoas que lhe s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximas apercebem-se normalmente dos sinais desta transi\u00e7\u00e3o muito mais depressa do que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 que \u00e9 preciso algum tempo para correr esse risco, sermos honestos connosco pr\u00f3prios e apostar tudo.<\/p>\n

Os bons amigos s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis de encontrar e, embora a vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda seja mais do que evidente, est\u00e3o prontos para arriscar e mergulhar de cabe\u00e7a numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 o saber\u00e1 se decidir experimentar e simplesmente deixar-se ir.<\/p>\n

3. You’re willing to take the risk<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You’re aware that, sure, things might be a little weird and uncomfortable in your friend circle but you’re more than willing to take the risk.<\/p>\n

You haven’t had a full-blown conversation about it yet but you know that both of you are one hundred percent in.<\/p>\n

Things will settle down and your friends will get used to the idea of seeing you two kissing and when that all becomes the norm, you won’t be able to believe that you were once just friends.<\/p>\n

\u200bThe risk is more than worth every obstacle and any awkwardness if it means being truly happy with each other.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso coragem para passar de amigos a amantes porque, embora possa ser muito gratificante, tamb\u00e9m pode levar a uma tentativa falhada e a uma amizade desfeita.<\/p>\n

But you two know your feelings better than anyone and you’re here to stay.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Amigos falsos vs. amigos verdadeiros: 12 maneiras de identificar os falsos<\/a><\/p>\n

4. You’re always texting and talking<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Uma quantidade normal de interac\u00e7\u00f5es di\u00e1rias deixou de ser suficiente. Nunca nos cansamos delas.<\/p>\n

Queremos sempre ouvir a sua opini\u00e3o e os seus pensamentos sobre tudo.<\/p>\n

Assim que chegamos a casa, temos vontade de lhes enviar mensagens, mesmo que n\u00e3o tenhamos muito para dizer.<\/p>\n

There’s a palpable need for always being in communication with them.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 frequente falar em v\u00e1rias plataformas de redes sociais ao mesmo tempo e manter tr\u00eas conversas diferentes.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Your connection runs so much deeper than with the rest of your friends and for the first time ever, you feel like this person truly gets you and what you’re all about.<\/p>\n

That’s why talking to them is such a breeze!<\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 ele ser o seu \"felizes para sempre\"? Est\u00e1 finalmente pronta para dizer as palavras em voz alta e ver o que acontece?<\/p>\n

A transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos para amantes \u00e9 uma coisa natural que aqueles que est\u00e3o destinados a ser sempre saber\u00e3o apreciar.<\/p>\n

5. T\u00eam alcunhas giras um para o outro<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sim, muitos amigos criam alcunhas uns para os outros, mas n\u00e3o desta forma.<\/p>\n

Os vossos s\u00e3o bonitos e \u00edntimos e provavelmente resultam de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o pessoal que s\u00f3 voc\u00eas os dois conhecem.<\/p>\n

Ponto de b\u00f3nus se se tratarem um ao outro por babe ou baby. Apanhados!<\/p>\n

Sabe-se que os amigos que se tratam por nomes carinhosos de animais de estima\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e3o a caminho de se tornarem algo mais.<\/p>\n

As minhas alcunhas para os meus amigos s\u00e3o engra\u00e7adas e, mais frequentemente, embara\u00e7osas!<\/p>\n

Mas chamar aos amigos \u00edntimos algo que algu\u00e9m chamaria ao seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 uma indica\u00e7\u00e3o clara de que se est\u00e1 a levar a amizade para o n\u00edvel seguinte.<\/p>\n

It usually feels very natural, intimate and beyond comfortable; almost as if you’re already taken that next step without ever actually uttering the words.<\/p>\n

6. Sinais de linguagem corporal<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Body language speaks when words fail and if you pay close attention to your friend’s body language (as well as your own), you’ll notice what’s already there.<\/p>\n

Os amigos que s\u00e3o na realidade muito mais tendem a mostrar os seus sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos com os seus corpos.<\/p>\n

For example, when you’re in a group setting, you two are much more likely to be facing each other as opposed to someone else from your group.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m se inclinam ocasionalmente (ou frequentemente) e estabelecem um forte contacto visual, de modo a que o outro se sinta visto, ouvido e compreendido.<\/p>\n

Your hands are always reaching out to them and vice versa and you’re much more physical with them than with any other group member.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o alguns dos sinais mais discretos da transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos para amantes.<\/p>\n

Your body will show the real situation even if you still haven’t embraced it fully.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: A lista definitiva de objectivos de casal para as rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais felizes<\/a><\/p>\n

7. As suas necessidades s\u00e3o mais importantes<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

There are those people who you’ll always make time for but you know those people who you never need to check your calendar for?<\/p>\n

Those are the most special people in one’s life and this is a valid example of just that.<\/p>\n

Esta pessoa \u00e9 algu\u00e9m para quem se tem sempre tempo.<\/p>\n

You’ll move your schedule, finish work later or meet at a time that isn\u2019t ideally convenient for you.<\/p>\n

If it’s them, you’re simply there! When they need you, there’s no looking at your schedule and trying to fit them in. They are a priority.<\/p>\n

And that’s the most indicative sign of changing from friends to lovers.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When you have that one person whose needs trump everyone else’s, there’s nothing to think about.<\/p>\n

O seu papel na sua vida \u00e9 de import\u00e2ncia vital e nada pode mudar isso.<\/p>\n

If this is the situation you’re in, then your friendship is truly ready to take that next natural step.<\/p>\n

The thing is, you’re already a couple, you just don’t know it yet. And that is the most amazing thing of all.<\/p>\n

Once you finally become aware of the actual nature of your relationship, you will be surprised you hadn’t realized it sooner.<\/p>\n

8. Ver a pessoa com outras desperta ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o sinal.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing subtle about it and if you can honestly say that seeing your best friend with someone else (in a romantic manner) sparks any jealous outbursts in you, then you know you’re already transitioning from friends to lovers.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que j\u00e1 tenham estado na tua zona de amizade, agora j\u00e1 sabes melhor. Muito melhor.<\/p>\n

No momento em que vemos a possibilidade de ele ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica com outra pessoa, sentimos a necessidade de cortar o mal pela raiz.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing wrong with that. All it means is that you two finally need to have the talk!<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You need to realize what’s becoming of your friendship and be delicate and careful about it.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 provavelmente uma das maiores mudan\u00e7as na sua vida, por isso, naturalmente, tem de estar muito atento \u00e0 sua abordagem.<\/p>\n

Falem um com o outro. Deixem que os vossos sentimentos enterrados venham \u00e0 superf\u00edcie.<\/p>\n

A vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 \u00e9 t\u00e3o forte, conseguem imaginar como se tornar\u00e1 inquebr\u00e1vel quando perceberem a sua verdadeira natureza?<\/p>\n

9. Tens um fraquinho por eles<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Okay, so this one is on the kinky side but it’s still totally valid. Have you ever daydreamed about sleeping with your best friend?<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 pensaram como seria fant\u00e1stico estar num ambiente \u00edntimo com eles e serem apenas voc\u00eas pr\u00f3prios \u00e0 volta um do outro, sem mais ningu\u00e9m para al\u00e9m de voc\u00eas os dois?<\/p>\n

If you have, I think it’s time to come clean about how you truly feel. You don’t just have the hots for every person you encounter.<\/p>\n

If your bestie makes your imagination run wild (but you never acted inappropriately on it) it means you’re on the verge of finally coming clean about your feelings.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Quem sabe, talvez o seu amigo esteja a ter exatamente os mesmos pensamentos a seu respeito!<\/p>\n

Pense em tudo o que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica implicaria e pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio se \u00e9 com esta pessoa que quer viver.<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, then go for it.  Tell them how you feel. You’re very likely to go from friends to lovers but one of you has to take the first step.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que eu amo em ti: Uma lista de 100 raz\u00f5es pelas quais te amo<\/a><\/p>\n

10. You talk about them 24\/7 (even when they’re not around)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O som do seu nome agrada-nos.<\/p>\n

Even when they’re not around, you’re always finding new ways to incorporate them into every conversation just so you can keep them with you in spirit.<\/p>\n

Trust me, this is such a clear sign, even if you don’t want to admit it. Chances are, the situation is the same on their part.<\/p>\n

You’ve caught the lovebug and you just don’t know it but you will soon enough. Good friends will surely point it out sooner or later; they always do.<\/p>\n

\"raparigas<\/p>\n

It’s fun watching two people being so obsessed with each other (in a good way) without being aware of what it means.<\/p>\n

Mas os teus amigos percebem, confia em mim.<\/p>\n

Everyone close to you sees that you\u2019re evolving from friends to lovers and when they have their fun with it, they’ll let you know.<\/p>\n

Until that happens, they’ll just smile and nod as you go on and on about this person without knowing the depth of what it all really means.<\/p>\n

11. Os amigos provocam-no uns com os outros<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Friends becoming romantically involved is one of the cutest things ever (don’t fight it).<\/p>\n

E, quer saibas ou n\u00e3o, as primeiras pessoas a reparar na tua transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos para amantes s\u00e3o nada mais nada menos do que os teus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos.<\/p>\n

Eles v\u00e3o enviar-te com tanta for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

They will make it a point to tease you about each other every chance they get but not in an annoying, overbearing way, more in a cute, adorable way that you’re totally on board with but have to pretend to be reluctant about because you don’t know if the other person shares the feelings.<\/p>\n

But the incessant teasing will be such a clear reminder of what’s really going on and at that point, it’s just a matter of time before you two realize that you are transitioning from friends to lovers.<\/p>\n

Promise me this: Next time you’re with your friend, pay attention to these signs.<\/p>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

Se conseguir assinalar a maior parte destes pontos da lista, j\u00e1 sabe o que tem de fazer.<\/p>\n

Clearly, your friend means much more to you than you’re ready to admit so take your time figuring things out, though.<\/p>\n

But always remember, the transition from friends to lovers is one of the most meaningful things that can happen to you. The person you used to keep in the friend zone could end up becoming your one true love. Isn’t it amazing how life works sometimes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Taking The Risk… Is It Worth It?<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

A million times yes. What you don’t realize is that by transitioning from friends to lovers, you’re losing virtually nothing and gaining everything!<\/p>\n

This person is already your best friend, your rock, your partner in crime. And now they get the most coveted title of all\u2014your lover.<\/p>\n

E ao deixar que os seus sentimentos o guiem e ao n\u00e3o hesitar em deixar-se sentir, abre espa\u00e7o no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para um n\u00edvel adicional de proximidade que j\u00e1 existe h\u00e1 demasiado tempo, mas que apenas reprimiu por medo.<\/p>\n

But there is nothing to fear. You cannot lose this person if they’re your true love.<\/p>\n

Ser amigo primeiro significa que ele j\u00e1 o conhece melhor do que ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Eles sabem que mastigar em voz alta o irrita e que ver um c\u00e3ozinho bonito na rua \u00e9 algo que nos toca o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eles sabem que vive para o rock da velha guarda e n\u00e3o suporta o som da m\u00fasica jazz.<\/p>\n

They know your every thought before it has even formed and they’ll always get what you mean, even when everyone else fails to.<\/p>\n

They’re your person. They’re the missing puzzle piece.<\/p>\n

A transi\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos para amantes \u00e9 uma das coisas mais org\u00e2nicas que pode acontecer a duas pessoas que est\u00e3o destinadas a ter as suas vidas entrela\u00e7adas para sempre. Corram o risco, conversem e desfrutem do vosso \"felizes para sempre\". Por vezes, \u00e9 mesmo assim t\u00e3o simples.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Ele \u00e9 meu namorado? 15 sinais leg\u00edtimos de que voc\u00eas dois s\u00e3o finalmente oficiais<\/a><\/p>\n

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