{"id":55007,"date":"2020-03-16T11:33:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T11:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55007"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:59:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:59:48","slug":"estou-melhor-sem-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-melhor-sem-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Se eu precisar de diminuir a minha luz por tua causa, estou melhor sem ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez sentiu que precisava de tonificar-se<\/em> to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

Vestir mais em conformidade<\/em>usar menos maquilhagem, n\u00e3o mencionar os seus feitos?<\/p>\n

Nem sequer mostrar o quanto est\u00e1s feliz?! Isso \u00e9 muito errado.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que isso diz sobre si e o que \u00e9 que isso diz sobre ele?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It certainly says you\u2019re holding back your true potential \u2013 and because of who?<\/p>\n

A man who\u2019s not ready to face his own BS. And that is the whole truth.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s sad, because there\u2019s a difference between being sympathetic and understanding someone is not feeling their best, and a man who is pulling you down because of his unresolved issues.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m here to tell you to<\/p>\n

Orgulha-te de quem \u00e9s<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Never let anyone, let alone your significant other, decide how you\u2019re going to act, talk, dress, love, think.<\/p>\n

Ele deve encoraj\u00e1-la a ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesma e anim\u00e1-la, n\u00e3o sufoc\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s 7.8 billion people on this planet and you happen to be one of them \u2013 completely unique, with your own set of skills, your own reasoning, aspirations, and all the little things that make you – you.<\/p>\n

Tens todo o direito de ser sempre tu mesma. E ele deve estar feliz por a ter encontrado entre todas as outras.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toda a gente \u00e9 diferente e toda a gente tem valor. Tu tens valor. E s\u00f3 por isso deves ter orgulho.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s a raz\u00e3o pela qual ele deve melhorar o seu jogo, n\u00e3o se sentir inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Why would a man feel threatened by you? Because he feels like he\u2019s not good enough on his own.<\/p>\n

He obviously doesn\u2019t appreciate himself in the first place.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s true that everyone has their insecurities, but the question is how willing is he to commute them into their strengths?<\/p>\n

Toda a gente pode melhorar se quiser, mas \u00e9 preciso determina\u00e7\u00e3o e coragem para o fazer. Em vez de se sentir paranoico, ele poderia aprender consigo.<\/p>\n

Admitir o problema \u00e9 o primeiro passo.<\/p>\n

Mereces estar com um homem que te inspire<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Um homem saud\u00e1vel compreende as suas pr\u00f3prias capacidades e limites.<\/p>\n

E sente-se bem com elas porque sabe que cada um tem um objetivo diferente na vida.<\/p>\n

Um homem inspirador na sua vida quer v\u00ea-la feliz e bem sucedida, ao mesmo tempo que se certifica de que a apoia ao longo do seu percurso de vida.<\/p>\n

He has his own ambitions and life goals that always include you. That’s the kind of man you want to spend your life with.<\/p>\n

Um homem solid\u00e1rio e carinhoso que a compreenda e a ajude a crescer e a ser mais verdadeira.<\/p>\n

A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 silenciosa, as inseguran\u00e7as s\u00e3o ruidosas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably heard this quote many times, but what does it really mean?<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 alguma vez encontraste algu\u00e9m que tem sempre uma hist\u00f3ria melhor para contar? Se tu subiste a colina, eles subiram a montanha.<\/p>\n

Se conheceste a Ariana, eles conheceram a Mariah. E assim por diante.<\/p>\n

Ou algu\u00e9m que tem constantemente um comportamento passivo-agressivo \u00e0 sua volta?<\/p>\n

There’s a good chance those people and the people who are jealous of other people\u2019s achievements s\u00e3o as mesmas pessoas<\/em>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need to boast if you\u2019re confident in what you know and do. Everything has its time and place.<\/p>\n

And there\u2019s no need to downplay other people\u2019s emotions and achievements.<\/p>\n

Isso inclui especialmente a sua cara-metade.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o utilizador deve<\/em> speak about the things you\u2019re proud of with confidence and he should make damn sure he\u2019s proud of you too.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to say goodbye to a man who doesn\u2019t appreciate you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s sad to think that anyone we feel close to, or even just an acquaintance, could feel threatened by us.<\/p>\n

And it hurts like hell when it\u2019s your partner.<\/p>\n

You can try to explain that you have no ill intentions, but sometimes that\u2019s just not enough. And when it\u2019s not enough \u2013 it\u2019s time to leave.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t put up with a man who’s not willing to work on himself because that means he will never change.<\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para ser desperdi\u00e7ada a jogar pequeno quando se tem tanto para dar.<\/p>\n

And if your light is bothering him \u2013 good. It\u2019s a reminder he has been in the dark for too long.<\/p>\n

After all, you can\u2019t tell the sun to stop shining.<\/p>\n

E porqu\u00ea, se podemos apenas desfrutar das suas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os?<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever felt like you need to tone yourself down to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t feel uncomfortable. Dress more accordingly, wear less makeup, not mention your accomplishments? Heck, not even show how happy you are?! That is seriously wrong. What does it say about you and what does it say about him? It…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":55008,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-I-Need-To-Dim-My-Light-Because-Of-You-I\u2019m-Better-Off-Without-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55007","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55007"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55007\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}