{"id":55128,"date":"2020-03-17T17:36:53","date_gmt":"2020-03-17T17:36:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55128"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:19:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:19:03","slug":"e-melhor-ser-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-melhor-ser-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser solteiro \u00e9 sempre melhor do que lutar pela rela\u00e7\u00e3o errada"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tem medo de<\/strong> recome\u00e7ar<\/b><\/a>?<\/strong> Acha que n\u00e3o vale a pena procurar outra pessoa, quando todos os homens que existem s\u00e3o iguais ao seu ex?<\/p>\n

Ele tornou-a emocionalmente dependente dele?<\/strong> Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can\u2019t survive without his presence in your life?<\/p>\n

Ou \u00e9 a vossa hist\u00f3ria juntos?<\/strong> Sente-se triste com o tempo e o esfor\u00e7o que dedicou a esta hist\u00f3ria?<\/p>\n

Ainda se agarra a esta charada de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o por causa dos anos que investiu nela?<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019ll see it as a waste of time the moment you admit that your romance has failed?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Is it because you can\u2019t stand losing? Do you consider the breakdown of your relationship to be a personal defeat?<\/p>\n

Ou tens medo do que as pessoas possam dizer?<\/strong> Are you afraid that you\u2019ll be seen as an outcast just because you don\u2019t have your plus one?<\/p>\n

Are you still in this relationship because it\u2019s become your comfort zone? Because you\u2019re terrified to step out of it, even though you\u2019re anything but happy.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que o assusta tanto vida de solteiro<\/span><\/a>? Why exactly do you think that you can\u2019t make it without a man by your side?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see yourself as whole? Do you think you need an emotional partner to complete you and to give your life meaning?<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the answers to these questions aren\u2019t important. What matters is that either way, you\u2019re fighting a battle you know you\u2019ll lose.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to admit that it\u2019s time for you and this guy to part ways.<\/p>\n

One of these days, you\u2019ll have to accept that the relationship isn\u2019t right for you and that it\u2019s time to say your final goodbye.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, de que est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Deixem-me dizer-vos que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nada de errado em ser solteiro. Na verdade, pode ser o melhor per\u00edodo da sua vida se decidir viv\u00ea-lo da forma correcta.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you – getting used to a new scenario in your life won\u2019t be easy at first. There will be times when you\u2019ll feel alone, abandoned, and heartbroken.<\/p>\n

Times when you\u2019ll regret your choice and moments when you\u2019ll feel like giving everything you have just to become a part of a couple once more.<\/p>\n

However, these crises will pass. And once they do, you\u2019ll be more than happy for making the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando acontece, you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re much<\/strong> mais vale estar solteiro<\/b><\/a> do que estar na rela\u00e7\u00e3o errada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that you\u2019re way happier laying in a cold, empty bed than spending the entire night looking at your boyfriend\u2019s back and wondering where things went wrong.<\/p>\n

That it\u2019s much better spending a Valentine\u2019s Day alone<\/a> do que adormecer toda aperaltada, \u00e0 espera que ele apare\u00e7a, como combinaram.<\/p>\n

After the initial trauma fades away, you\u2019ll realize it\u2019s much better having your phone silent all the time than spending the entire day arguing over a text, or desperately waiting for a phone call that should but will not come.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That you\u2019re way happier without anyone waiting for you to come home than you were with a possessive jealous psycho who tried to follow your every move.<\/p>\n

Most importantly – you\u2019ll understand that fighting for your own future beats lutar por algo que est\u00e1 condenado ao fracasso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que \u00e9 muito melhor investir o seu tempo e energia na sua pr\u00f3pria vida do que desperdi\u00e7\u00e1-los em batalhas in\u00fateis.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As coisas v\u00e3o ser dif\u00edceis no in\u00edcio, mas com o passar do tempo, vai acabar por perceber: n\u00e3o ter amor \u00e9 melhor do que ter de implorar por ele e estar sozinho \u00e9 melhor do que sentir-se sozinho numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you least expect it, you\u2019ll realize that it\u2019s way better to give yourself a chance to be happy on your own than to settle for being unhappy with to the wrong person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Are you afraid to start over? Do you think that it is pointless to look for someone else, when all the men out there are just like your ex? Has he made you emotionally dependent on him? Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can\u2019t survive without his presence in your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":55135,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55128"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55128\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}