{"id":55141,"date":"2020-03-17T22:38:15","date_gmt":"2020-03-17T22:38:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55141"},"modified":"2022-01-09T14:44:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T14:44:43","slug":"ficar-solteiro-ate-isso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ficar-solteiro-ate-isso\/","title":{"rendered":"Fique solteiro at\u00e9 atingir estes 10 objectivos de vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qual \u00e9 a altura ideal para voltar a namorar? Quais s\u00e3o as coisas que deve fazer antes de encontrar um namorado?<\/p>\n

These are the questions every woman asks herself at one point in her life, especially if she\u2019s been single for a long period of time.<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to give you all the answers you need.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 10 objectivos de vida cruciais que deve fazer o seu melhor para alcan\u00e7ar antes de mudar o seu estado de relacionamento.<\/p>\n

1. Fica solteiro at\u00e9 saberes o que queres<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Before entering a healthy relationship, first you have to know who and what you want. And I\u2019m not talking about romance here only.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important for you to realize the direction in which you want your life to be headed.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to necessarily achieve all of your life goals overnight but you should at least have a list of the things you would like to accomplish.<\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica ao facto de sabermos quem queremos.<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e9 o tipo de homem que queres ter ao teu lado?<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Que tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o deseja ter?<\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o os seus maiores obst\u00e1culos e padr\u00f5es?<\/p>\n

Of course, I\u2019m not saying that you will ever find a man who will have everything from your list but it is important to know what you\u2019re looking for if you hope to ever find it.<\/p>\n

2. Permanece solteiro at\u00e9 te tornares tu pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Stay single until you know who you are and most importantly\u2014until you become okay with that.<\/p>\n

Build your own personality, stop comparing yourself to the rest of the world, be proud of your uniqueness and don\u2019t be a people pleaser who hides her real character to become more likable to others.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you\u2019re not a child and the last thing you want is for your potential boyfriend to raise you and try to shape you the way he wants.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need any man changing the essence of who you are and turning you into a completely different person who fits his standards.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 exatamente isso que vai acontecer se entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o antes de se tornar completamente voc\u00ea mesmo.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what will happen if you don\u2019t finish your own blooming process and if you don\u2019t grow up completely.<\/p>\n

3. Permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 deixar o passado para tr\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena envolver-se em qualquer tipo de romance se ainda tiver quest\u00f5es n\u00e3o resolvidas do passado.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete s\u00f3 a far\u00e1 sentir-se pior.<\/p>\n

Therefore, I\u2019m begging you to ficar solteiro at\u00e9 conseguir tudo<\/a> da sua bagagem emocional da forma mais saud\u00e1vel poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Yes, your past relationships are a part of you and they helped shape you into the woman you are today but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should enter a new romance carrying all of your traumas with you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Stay single if you still have feelings for your ex and if you\u2019re dealing with strong insecurities or fears.<\/p>\n

Stay single until you let go of the past and until you\u2019re truly ready to move on.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you are taking too long to recover and that you should have found someone new already.<\/p>\n

Remember that we all heal at a different pace so don\u2019t beat yourself up if you need some more time.<\/p>\n

4. Permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 tomar consci\u00eancia de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tornar-se consciente de si pr\u00f3prio significa ser capaz de se ver o mais objetivamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Significa estar consciente das suas qualidades, defeitos, desejos, esperan\u00e7as e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o as coisas que gosta de fazer? Como \u00e9 que gosta de passar o seu tempo?<\/p>\n

Tem gostos definidos em termos de m\u00fasica, cinema, literatura e arte? Quais s\u00e3o as suas prefer\u00eancias na vida?<\/p>\n

Quem \u00e9 voc\u00ea? Esta \u00e9 a pergunta a que deve ser capaz de responder fora da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sem esperar que um homem a defina.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014it means knowing your self-value and not allowing anyone to question it.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ter consci\u00eancia de si pr\u00f3prio tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante no que diz respeito \u00e0 sua hist\u00f3ria amorosa. Quais s\u00e3o os seus tra\u00e7os t\u00f3xicos?<\/p>\n

What are the dating patterns you\u2019re not so proud of and you\u2019d like to change?<\/p>\n

What are the mistakes you keep on repeating but can\u2019t seem to get rid of? Stay single until you get answers to all of these questions.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a uma autoan\u00e1lise e uma auto-introspe\u00e7\u00e3o e d\u00ea o seu melhor para se observar a si pr\u00f3prio como um espetador realista.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll learn a lot and you\u2019ll discover some parts of your character you didn\u2019t even know existed.<\/p>\n

5. Stay single until you\u2019re not afraid to be single<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you consider entering a new relationship just because you\u2019re tired of your single life\u2014don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

More importantly, don\u2019t do so if you\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll end up forever alone and that you\u2019ll never find your forever person.<\/p>\n

Please, stay single until being single doesn\u2019t feel so scary.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go around looking for a potential boyfriend just because all your friends found their special man.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it because you\u2019re ashamed of never having a plus-one or because you feel it\u2019s about time for you to find a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for less and lower your standards just because you\u2019re afraid that your biological clock is ticking or because you\u2019ve become obsessed with the thought that you won\u2019t find a man to grow old next to.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, antes de se meter numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, aprenda a aproveitar ao m\u00e1ximo a sua vida de solteiro.<\/p>\n

Utilize todos os seus benef\u00edcios e divirta-se com o facto de ser solteiro!<\/p>\n

Stay single until you stop searching for love and until you realize that it will come to you when you least expect it and when it\u2019s meant to be.<\/p>\n

6. Permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 se tornar financeiramente autossuficiente<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

Uma das piores coisas que uma mulher pode fazer a si pr\u00f3pria \u00e9 tornar-se financeiramente dependente do seu namorado ou marido.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that every guy out there will use this against you the first time you have an argument but that\u2019s a risk you shouldn\u2019t be taking.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a mature, healthy adult who is perfectly capable of earning her own money and you don\u2019t need anyone providing for you.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to be filthy rich before entering a relationship. However, it would be great if you are financially self-sufficient first.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, por muito que goste de um rapaz e por muito forte que o seu romance possa parecer no in\u00edcio, a dura verdade \u00e9 que nunca se sabe quanto tempo vai durar e nem sequer se pode ter a certeza se as coisas v\u00e3o acabar mal no futuro.<\/p>\n

So, it\u2019s best to avoid a situation in which you\u2019re remaining in a toxic relationship just because you\u2019re financially dependent on your partner and have nowhere to go.<\/p>\n

7. Permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a procurar um parceiro igual<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re looking for a boyfriend, don\u2019t expect to find a parent you\u2019ve been missing your whole life, an older brother you never had, a life coach or a savior.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, comece a procurar um parceiro igual que passe pela vida ao seu lado, ombro a ombro consigo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go searching for a purpose or for someone to magically resolve all of your problems.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a guardian angel, nor a man who will snap his fingers and heal your broken heart just by appearing in your life.<\/p>\n

8. Ficar solteiro at\u00e9 ser feliz sozinho<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

The most crucial thing every girl in the world needs to remember is that a relationship can\u2019t make you happy.<\/p>\n

Yes, it can make you feel better, it can improve your life but if you\u2019re not in a good place with yourself, it won\u2019t make a huge difference.<\/p>\n

You see, if you\u2019re not happy single, you won\u2019t be happy taken. So, please stay single until you become happy on your own.<\/p>\n

Stay single until you realize that there won\u2019t come a man with a magic wand into your life who will wipe away all of your tears and erase all of your problems, traumas or issues.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Um homem que vai matar todas as suas inseguran\u00e7as profundamente enraizadas ou que vai fazer com que se ame mais.<\/p>\n

Yes, the right guy will help you with all of this. However, you\u2019re the only creator of your own happiness and the key is in your hands.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re in charge and you can\u2019t expect anyone else to take the wheel.<\/p>\n

9. Fica solteiro at\u00e9 come\u00e7ares a amar-te primeiro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There is one thing you need to remember above everything else\u2014the relationship you have with yourself is more important than any other, including romantic ones.<\/p>\n

You can be crazy over a man, you can care for him from the depths of your heart but you\u2019ll never have a happy love life until you learn the importance of putting and loving yourself first.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t get yourself involved in any relationship until you build a healthy relationship with your inner self.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Stay single until you realize that you\u2019re more than enough, until you build your self-confidence, until you become sure about yourself and your abilities and until you become selfish enough to prioritize your own needs in front of everyone else’s.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que nenhum homem a apreciar\u00e1, respeitar\u00e1 ou amar\u00e1 da forma que merece at\u00e9 que voc\u00ea mesma o fa\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

You need to show him that you\u2019re very much aware of your own worth and that nothing he says or does can impact your self-image.<\/p>\n

10. Stay single until you\u2019re ready for a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, mantenha-se solteiro at\u00e9 se sentir preparado para partilhar a sua vida com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go around chasing a relationship if you feel pressured by the people in your surroundings, if you\u2019re doing it because you think it\u2019s how things should be or if you simply prefer to not be alone now.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t listen to anyone or anything besides your gut and trust me\u2014things will work themselves out.<\/p>\n

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