{"id":55229,"date":"2020-03-18T14:36:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T14:36:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55229"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:47:02","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:47:02","slug":"o-homem-certo-vai-amar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-certo-vai-amar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"O homem certo vai adorar todas as coisas em si que o errado tentou mudar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lembra-se de como se sentia como se nunca fosse suficiente na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como sentias que nada do que fazias estava certo e como nunca conseguias encontrar uma forma de agradar ao teu ex e de o fazer feliz?<\/p>\n

How no matter how deeply you cared for him and how hard you tried to win over his heart, he couldn\u2019t love you the way you deserved?<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de como ele nunca aceitou o seu verdadeiro eu? Como ele tentou o seu melhor para mudar a ess\u00eancia da sua personalidade?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ele continuava a apontar os seus defeitos, a chate\u00e1-la com as coisas que devia fazer de forma diferente?<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Como ele tentou convencer-te de que sabia sempre o que era melhor e o que era melhor para ti?<\/p>\n

Remember how your ex spent your entire relationship trying to turn you into something you\u2019re not?<\/p>\n

Como ele fez o seu melhor para a moldar da forma que queria e tentou encaix\u00e1-la numa esp\u00e9cie de caixa?<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de como esse homem nunca gostou do seu aspeto, roupa, conversa ou comportamento? Como ele conseguia sempre encontrar algo para se queixar?<\/p>\n

Remember how he didn\u2019t like your friends, your taste in music, career choice? How he wasn\u2019t content with anything you did?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Do you remember how this man kept on accusing you of being too loud, too emotional, too weak, too independent, too disobedient\u2026?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know how he ended up making you feel like you\u2019re n\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado<\/span><\/a>?<\/p>\n

How he convinced you that it was you all along and that your relationship didn\u2019t work out because of your character faults?<\/p>\n

Sabes como ele te fez pensar que todos os homens que conheceres depois dele ser\u00e3o iguais?<\/p>\n

How he convinced you that you are incapable of making a man happy and that you don\u2019t have the qualities of a  <\/span>boa namorada<\/span><\/a>?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Of course, you didn\u2019t believe him at first. After all, before he came into your life, you were a girl who knew her value and who had loads of self-confidence.<\/p>\n

No entanto, durante anos, ele fez o seu melhor para mudar isso e para o mudar a si.<\/p>\n

Ele tentou arduamente matar-te espiritualmente, fazer-te vergar, fechar-te e destruir o teu esp\u00edrito.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E o pior \u00e9 que quase conseguiu.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que n\u00e3o queiras admitir, este tipo conseguiu fazer-te questionar a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Ele provocou as vossas d\u00favidas e despertou as vossas inseguran\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t know is that he was doing all of it because deep down, he knew he was the one who wasn\u2019t enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He was aware that you\u2019re better, stronger, and more capable of him and the only way for him to stop feeling beneath you was to drag you down to his level.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era ele que tinha problemas de auto-confian\u00e7a e por isso queria destruir a sua. Ele era intimidado<\/span><\/a> pelo seu valor ao ponto de ter de o desvalorizar.<\/p>\n

This guy couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you weren\u2019t too much\u2013he was just too weak to handle you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t too loud-you just had an opinion of your own and he couldn\u2019t stand having a girlfriend with her own personal viewpoint.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t too emocional<\/span><\/a>\u2013he was just a bastard who never treated you right and you had a completely natural reaction to his toxic behavior.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t asking for the impossible\u2013he was the one who wasn\u2019t giving you enough.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t a \u201clittle miss know it all\u201d, as he liked to call you-you were just more intelligent, ambitious, and educated than him.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

All of this time, this guy was threatened by you. He felt endangered by your greatness and the fact that he couldn\u2019t feel man enough next to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, isso \u00e9 problema dele - n\u00e3o teu. E \u00e9 mais do que evidente que ele n\u00e3o era a pessoa certa para si.<\/p>\n

Quando o homem certo aparecer, ele vai adorar todas as partes de si que o seu ex queria t\u00e3o desesperadamente mudar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este homem ficar\u00e1 mais do que feliz por ter uma mulher assim ao seu lado. Ele nunca tentar\u00e1 cal\u00e1-la, nem ter\u00e1 medo da sua personalidade forte.<\/p>\n

Em vez de te deitar abaixo, este homem vai empurrar-te para a frente com toda a sua for\u00e7a. Em vez de te impedir de avan\u00e7ar, ele estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para apoiar todos os teus objectivos e sonhos.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Em vez de se sentir amea\u00e7ado pelo seu poder interior, ele sentir-se-\u00e1 orgulhoso dele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele vai apaixonar-se pelo seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o gentil e pela sua personalidade feroz. Ele vai amar-te com todo o seu ser, tal como tu \u00e9s.<\/p>\n

This guy won\u2019t change any of you, even if he has the chance to. In fact, he will even love your imperfections as much as he loves your qualities.<\/p>\n

Por favor, deixar de se contentar com homens que querem mudar-te<\/a> because they don\u2019t have what it takes to handle you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop being with guys who don\u2019t have the capacity to keep up with you and who have to diminish your worth to confirm theirs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with guys who want to be above or below you,with those who act overly dominant, nor with the ones who want a mother instead of a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with someone who expects you to be submissive just because he is male, nor with an immature boy who needs your guidance through life.<\/p>\n

Instead, be patient enough to wait for a man who can be your equal partner and don\u2019t accept anything less.<\/p>\n

Even though you might think that this kind of man doesn\u2019t exist-trust me when I tell you: he will come along.<\/p>\n

Finalmente, lembre-se: you\u2019re not wrong for being you. Your only sin is choosing men who are too weak to go shoulder to shoulder through life with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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