{"id":55422,"date":"2020-03-19T21:17:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T21:17:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55422"},"modified":"2022-02-10T13:06:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T13:06:52","slug":"grandes-dons-para-o-homem-certo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/grandes-dons-para-o-homem-certo\/","title":{"rendered":"10 grandes erros para encontrar o homem certo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para onde quer que se olhe, h\u00e1 conselhos sobre como encontrar o amor.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente lhe diz o que deve fazer para atrair os homens e como se deve comportar para os manter.<\/p>\n

However, nobody focuses on the moves you shouldn\u2019t make during your pursuit for Mr. Right.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s about the change. We\u2019re bringing you some of the most common mistakes many women make while dating.<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t seem desperate<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The first thing on the list of things you shouldn\u2019t think of doing while looking for your match made in heaven is being too desperate.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to find love but please, don\u2019t go after it at all costs.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing being available and putting yourself out there, but chasing guys at all costs is a big no-no. Besides, trust me when I tell you that guys smell desperation a mile away.<\/p>\n

E fogem dela o mais depressa que podem.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, sempre que um rapaz v\u00ea que uma rapariga est\u00e1 demasiado ansiosa por ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, classifica-a como sendo demasiado carente<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Assusta-se com o facto de ela querer limitar a sua liberdade e enjaul\u00e1-lo, pelo que tem um impulso imediato para se salvar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely normal that you want to commit and settle down but don\u2019t let your entire life revolve around it. Don\u2019t turn your pursuit for love into the only thing that matters.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t expect someone to complete you<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If you expect your boyfriend to make you happy while you feel miserable and to turn your life the right way up again, think again because it\u2019s unlikely to happen.<\/p>\n

Yes, the right man can make your days more beautiful and interesting, but it\u2019s not his job to give your meaning to your existence.<\/p>\n

Primeiro, tens de estar contente e feliz com a tua vida tal como ela \u00e9 agora. Tens de te amar a ti pr\u00f3pria antes de um homem se atirar a ti.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Remember: You\u2019re not looking for another half; you\u2019re a complete individual with or without a man by your side.<\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019ll be much more attractive to the opposite sex once they see that you don\u2019t need them.<\/p>\n

Mostre a um rapaz que quer estar com ele, mas que pode passar sem ele a qualquer momento, e prometo-lhe que todos eles ir\u00e3o atr\u00e1s de si.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t get yourself involved with men who are taken<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So, I can\u2019t stress this enough: Stay away from homens casados<\/span><\/a> ou de homens que est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

The hell with it, stay away from those who have unresolved situationships going on as well. They don\u2019t have to be in a labelled relationship to mean trouble.<\/p>\n

First of all, a man who cheats on his girl with you will never change. Even if you manage to get him to leave her and be all yours, he\u2019ll do the same thing to you sooner or later.<\/p>\n

Also, do you really want to be someone\u2019s second choice?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sente-se realmente bem com o facto de ser a terceira mulher numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e de ser a outra mulher, quando merece muito mais?<\/p>\n

Finally, don\u2019t do it for the sheer sake of this girl who sits comfortably at home, thinking that her life is in perfect order while this douchebag is fooling around behind her back.<\/p>\n

You can be her in no time and trust me, it wouldn\u2019t be pretty.<\/p>\n

I know that you can fall for a taken man before you realize what hit you. However, even when that happens, don\u2019t go after your primary instincts. Let your reason take over.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t repeat your mistakes<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I bet you have some relationship experience by now. And if you\u2019re smart, you could have revised your behavior and come up with some kind of conclusion.<\/p>\n

Reconsider your mistakes up till now and don\u2019t repeat them.<\/p>\n

Para come\u00e7ar, parar de se envolver com o mesmo tipo de homens<\/a> \u2013 they\u2019re clearly not cut out for you.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, se tem o h\u00e1bito de sair com jogadores que acabam por o magoar, mude para rapazes com menos experi\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After that, change your dating game because everything you\u2019ve been doing in the past clearly hasn\u2019t worked.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been jumping into new relationships too fast, this time, give yourself time to think things through before acting on them.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se o seu excesso de pensamento o tem impedido de relaxar e o tem feito perder algumas oportunidades, para variar, v\u00e1 com a corrente e seja espont\u00e2neo.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t give too many second chances<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Another major \u201cdon\u2019t\u201d of finding love is not going back to your previous relationships.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you and your ex had a small inconvenience that led to your breakup. In that case, there is nothing wrong in giving your relationship another try.<\/p>\n

However, if this is the man you keep breaking up with and coming back to, someone you\u2019ve given more segundas oportunidades<\/span><\/a> mais vezes do que pode contar, seja honesto consigo mesmo e admita que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 estragada para al\u00e9m de qualquer repara\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Things with some people simply don\u2019t work, as much as you try. There is no point in wasting anymore of your time on an ex you\u2019ll never be happy with, so it\u2019s better to say your final goodbye right now.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t expect him to change<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando conhecemos um homem a um n\u00edvel mais profundo e nos apercebemos de quem ele realmente \u00e9, temos duas op\u00e7\u00f5es: aceit\u00e1-lo ou afast\u00e1-lo nesse instante.<\/p>\n

Tudo o resto \u00e9 in\u00fatil e, mais cedo ou mais tarde, tornar-se-\u00e1 uma tortura para ambos.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que o seu  <\/span>love can\u2019t change a man<\/span><\/a> que se recusa a faz\u00ea-lo ele pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Even if you succeed in making some modifications, this man\u2019s true temper and personality will swim up to surface after some time.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

In the meantime, you\u2019ll both be miserable \u2013 him because he has to pretend to be something he\u2019s not to please you, and you because you can\u2019t get him to become the man you want him to be, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, este tipo de acordo \u00e9 tudo menos justo. Gostaria que o seu parceiro tentasse matar o seu esp\u00edrito e o moldasse de acordo com os seus padr\u00f5es imagin\u00e1rios?<\/p>\n

I bet not. Well, don\u2019t try doing it to others either.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t look for perfection\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you think these points are going to help you find your Prince Charming on a white horse, I have to break your bubble and tell you that ain\u2019t happening.<\/p>\n

And you know why? Because there is no such thing as a perfect man and you shouldn\u2019t be looking for one either.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re not perfect either. Every guy you meet will have his set of flaws that you\u2019ll just have to deal with.<\/p>\n

Besides, a real life relationship is not a fairytale. The goal is to get yourself a man who\u2019ll make an imperfectly perfect match with you.<\/p>\n

8. \u2026but don\u2019t lower your standards either<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should accept whatever is served to you. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not allowed to have standards or that you should settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s perfectly normal if the guy you\u2019re dating has some imperfections and character flaws.<\/p>\n

However, if he is an abuser or a cheater, doesn\u2019t want to commit, or has some other personality traits you consider to be deal breakers, leave him without thinking twice.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is lowering your standards because someone told you that you\u2019re too picky.<\/p>\n

Em vez de o fazer, orgulhe-se do facto de saber o que e quem quer e mantenha-se firme.<\/p>\n

9. Don\u2019t think that love is enough\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a romantic soul who believes in romance and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it\u2019s nice for a change to see a girl who follows her heart in today\u2019s world.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se quiser encontrar o seu \"Sr. Certo\", tem de se tornar um pouco mais realista. Detesto ser eu a dizer-vos isto, mas \u00e0s vezes,  <\/span>love isn\u2019t enough<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

You can love a man with your entire heart but if there is no compromise, understanding, trust, and respect between you two, it is quite unlikely that you\u2019ll succeed.<\/p>\n

Besides, there is a thing called compatibility. If you don\u2019t get along with your partner and have completely different goals and views on life, love won\u2019t be able to save your relationship.<\/p>\n

10. \u2026but don\u2019t get into loveless relationships<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

No entanto, mesmo que o amor por si s\u00f3 n\u00e3o seja suficiente, continua a ser crucial.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t allow yourself to waste time on a bunch of loveless relationships in your search for the right guy.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can\u2019t grow feelings for a man the moment you start dating him.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if some time goes by and you see that he hasn\u2019t entered your heart, don\u2019t be scared to walk away, no matter how great this guy might be.<\/p>\n

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Wherever you look, there\u2019s advice on how to find love. Everyone keeps telling you what things you should do to attract men and how you should behave to keep them. However, nobody focuses on the moves you shouldn\u2019t make during your pursuit for Mr. Right. Well, that\u2019s about the change. We\u2019re bringing you some of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":55486,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/10-Major-Donts-Of-Finding-The-Right-Guy.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}