{"id":55423,"date":"2020-03-19T20:15:52","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T20:15:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55423"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:25:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:25:10","slug":"as-mulheres-fortes-nao-dao-segundas-oportunidades","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-mulheres-fortes-nao-dao-segundas-oportunidades\/","title":{"rendered":"As mulheres fortes n\u00e3o d\u00e3o uma segunda oportunidade aos homens que as enganaram"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sei que est\u00e1s habituado a raparigas que t\u00eam sempre as portas e as m\u00e3os abertas para ti, fa\u00e7as o que fizeres.<\/p>\n<p>Girls who\u2019ll keep on forgiving your misdeeds and always take you back, despite the way you treat them.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a big shot, aren\u2019t you? A <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-diferencas-entre-um-jogador-e-um-homem-para-sempre\/\">jogador<\/a> who can get every girl he wants \u2013 this macho man no one could ever resist.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t get your way with this woman. Because she is very different to anyone you\u2019ve ever met.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55426 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girlfriend-leaving-her-man-while-he-is-sitting-sad-1.jpg\" alt=\"namorada deixa o seu homem enquanto ele est\u00e1 sentado triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girlfriend-leaving-her-man-while-he-is-sitting-sad-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girlfriend-leaving-her-man-while-he-is-sitting-sad-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girlfriend-leaving-her-man-while-he-is-sitting-sad-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see, with a strong woman like her, you get only one shot. And if you blow it, you\u2019re out of the game forever.<\/p>\n<p>Este \u00e9 o tipo de mulher que colocar\u00e1 todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga por si.<\/p>\n<p>Ela vai amar-te como ningu\u00e9m, cuidar de ti, prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s tuas necessidades e respeitar-te.<\/p>\n<p>However, she\u2019ll be doing all of this as long as you reciprocate her love \u2013 as long as you put the exact same amount of effort into your relationship as she does.<\/p>\n<p>But beware: The moment she notices that you\u2019re only trying to fool her, she will dump you.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o haver\u00e1 avisos, nem pedidos de mudan\u00e7a, nem ultimatos. Ela vai simplesmente fazer as malas e deixar-te no passado, onde pertences.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55427 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-woman-leaving-her-worried-man-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada deixa o seu homem preocupado \u00e0 porta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-woman-leaving-her-worried-man-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-woman-leaving-her-worried-man-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-woman-leaving-her-worried-man-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Antes de se envolver com algu\u00e9m como ela, lembre-se de que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 um tipo de mulher comum.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, she won\u2019t play mind games with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that she doesn\u2019t know how to play them, she simply doesn\u2019t want to since she sees it a waste of her precious time and energy.<\/p>\n<p>She is a grown and mature person and the last thing she needs is a man who doesn\u2019t know what he wants and has a hard time choosing her.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t tolerate you taking your time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/merecem-alguem-que-nao-consegue-fazer-a-cabeca\/\">decidir-se<\/a> sobre ela, nem vai esperar que finalmente lhe d\u00ea um t\u00edtulo que ela merece e ponha um r\u00f3tulo na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You have to understand one thing: This girl doesn\u2019t need you, she chose to be with you, the same way she can easily choose to continue living without you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55429 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga que acaba com o namorado e o deixa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 financeira nem emocionalmente dependente de si, nem nunca o ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>She is not scared of being alone nor does she think that she\u2019ll never find someone else if you two break up.<\/p>\n<p>Por conseguinte, uma mulher como ela n\u00e3o tem qualquer raz\u00e3o v\u00e1lida para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/quando-ela-esta-realmente-farta-das-tuas-tretas-nao-ha-mais-segundas-oportunidades\/\">aguentar as vossas tretas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rapariga fraca que possa manipular e chantagear emocionalmente sempre que cometer um erro, para que ela sinta pena de si e o aceite de volta.<\/p>\n<p>As much as she loves you, she doesn\u2019t idealize you and she will see right through your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t romanticize your mistakes nor will she justify them, lying to herself that somewhere deep down you love her despite everything.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55430 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a relaxar em casa com uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-2-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O mais importante \u00e9 que, por muito que ela o ame, amar-se-\u00e1 sempre mais a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, ela nunca lhe dar\u00e1 a si ou a qualquer outra pessoa a oportunidade de a magoar e de lhe partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o duas vezes, porque \u00e9 suficientemente inteligente para saber que as segundas oportunidades s\u00e3o exatamente isso: uma luz verde para que continue com o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n<p>Ela parece dar muito trabalho, certo? Bem, n\u00e3o se as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es forem puras.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a normal guy who doesn\u2019t plan on acting like a jerk and will love her with all of your heart, none of this will be a problem for you.<\/p>\n<p>After all, just don\u2019t screw up and you won\u2019t be needing any second chances in the first place.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55425 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"As mulheres fortes n\u00e3o d\u00e3o uma segunda oportunidade aos homens que as enganaram \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you\u2019re used to girls who always keep their doors and hands open for you, no matter what you do. Girls who\u2019ll keep on forgiving your misdeeds and always take you back, despite the way you treat them. You\u2019re a big shot, aren\u2019t you? A player who can get every girl he wants \u2013&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":55424,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55423","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Strong-Women-Don\u2019t-Give-Second-Chances-To-Men-Who-Played-Them.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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