{"id":55490,"date":"2020-03-20T10:25:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T10:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55490"},"modified":"2022-02-14T01:52:04","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T01:52:04","slug":"deixa-lo-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixa-lo-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele quiser ir embora, mantenha a porta aberta para ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Haver\u00e1 por a\u00ed alguma mulher que nunca tenha sido abandonada? N\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

One way or another, there\u2019s always a man in every woman\u2019s life who decides not to stay.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s heartbreaking and seems like the worst possible outcome at that particular moment but trust me on this one\u2014it isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Any one man who can\u2019t find a reason to stay on his own is not worth persuading otherwise.<\/p>\n

Pode sentir-se tentada a tentar provar que ele est\u00e1 errado. Pode querer enumerar todos os momentos bonitos que passaram juntos.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You might even try to show him how good you are for him so he doesn\u2019t leave you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s leaving you for another woman, you might want to try and prove to him that you\u2019re the better one.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a chance you\u2019ll want to show him just how wrong she is for him and how you are the one who fulfills him beautifully.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

He was there for all of it. He didn\u2019t go anywhere, he wasn\u2019t in a freaking coma. He remembers, trust me.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tudo o que aconteceu na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o claro para ele como para si.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no way you should try and tell him a lovely story of how things could get better for the two of you.<\/p>\n

Se ele quisesse ficar, ficaria<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If he thought all the romantic nights, all the days filled with love, all the amazing things you\u2019ve done for him and all the gentle ways you took care of him were enough, he wouldn\u2019t think about leaving.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

No, don\u2019t start thinking about how he loves you deep inside, in his own way. That\u2019s a huge trap you\u2019ll fall right into.<\/p>\n

If he loved you, he wouldn\u2019t be leaving.<\/p>\n

He has a right to leave. You can\u2019t control that\u2014always remember this.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control him but you can and you should control yourself. Control your thoughts and your behavior.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let yourself become a toxic, obsessive shadow of who you were before.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to chase him. That shouldn\u2019t even be an option. You don\u2019t want to be with anyone who doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n

Why waste your precious time on somebody who doesn\u2019t give a damn?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ponha-se no lugar dele. O que uma mulher faz, por vezes, \u00e9 deixar um homem porque n\u00e3o aguenta mais ser magoada.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you might imagine that all he needs is a bit more persuasion to stay with you.<\/p>\n

You should know that men rarely do that. If he\u2019s out, he\u2019s out. There\u2019s no point in holding him back.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think about trying to be better for him just so you can keep him. There\u2019s no happiness in changing who you are for anyone.<\/p>\n

The right guy will love everything about you. The right guy won\u2019t think about leaving. The right guy won\u2019t need you to change anything to make him stay.<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you dare blame yourself. Just because one guy doesn\u2019t have an appreciation for who you are doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re doing anything wrong.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think about whether he\u2019ll come back eventually. Just don\u2019t go there.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Toma a tua vida nas tuas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os. Pensa em todas as coisas boas que v\u00eam com esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7am as malas dele e deitem-no fora. Tira algum tempo para fazeres o luto e ultrapassares isso. Tira tudo o que puderes dessa experi\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Pega em tudo o que te faz melhor. Leva tudo o que te ajudar\u00e1 a apreciar o homem certo quando ele aparecer.<\/p>\n

Deixar todos os pormenores deprimentes, tristes e pequenos que n\u00e3o far\u00e3o mais do que enlouquecer, perguntando-se onde \u00e9 que tudo correu mal.<\/p>\n

Se ele quiser ir embora, deixem-no ir.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Nada do que fa\u00e7a pode mudar a decis\u00e3o dele e, mesmo que mude, ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 mesmo isso que quer? Sentir que, de alguma forma, o obrigou a ficar quando ele queria ir embora?<\/p>\n

I could tell you to think of it as a new beginning rather than an ending but I won\u2019t. It is an ending.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s an ending to you wasting your time with someone who doesn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s an ending to living a life far worse than the one you could be living with the right person.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mas \u00e9 realmente um come\u00e7o. O come\u00e7o de um novo tu. Aquela que se aprecia a si pr\u00f3pria e n\u00e3o deixa que nenhum homem decida o seu valor.<\/p>\n

Remember this once he\u2019s standing on that doorstep.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que deve fazer se ele quiser ir-se embora \u00e9 segurar graciosamente a porta aberta para ele.<\/p>\n

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Is there a woman out there who has never been dumped? No. One way or another, there\u2019s always a man in every woman\u2019s life who decides not to stay. It\u2019s heartbreaking and seems like the worst possible outcome at that particular moment but trust me on this one\u2014it isn\u2019t. Any one man who can\u2019t find…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":55500,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-He-Wants-To-Leave-Hold-The-Door-Open-For-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55490","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55490"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55490\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55500"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55490"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55490"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55490"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}