{"id":55573,"date":"2020-03-23T09:14:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T09:14:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55573"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:58:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:58:10","slug":"amor-consumado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-consumado\/","title":{"rendered":"Amor consumado: Explicando a Teoria Triangular do Amor de Sternberg"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s somos colocados nesta terra numa miss\u00e3o em busca desse amor rom\u00e2ntico perfeito e intermin\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

But what most people don’t have a full grasp of is the fact that there are many types of love out there and if you and your true love share physical attraction but aren’t compatible in all the components of love, trouble may ensue.<\/p>\n

A teoria triangular do amor \u00e9 uma estrutura desenvolvida pelo psic\u00f3logo Robert Sternberg para ajudar a esclarecer esta quest\u00e3o intrincada das diferentes formas de amor e ajudar a diferenciar o n\u00e3o-amor e a mera atra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual do tipo de amor que implica caracter\u00edsticas mais profundas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sternberg’s theory aims to pin down the basic elements of romantic love and bring us closer to understanding the type of relationship we’ve created with our best friend\/true love and lead us to a healthier loving relationship.<\/p>\n

O amor consumado est\u00e1 no centro desta importante investiga\u00e7\u00e3o de Sternberg e, juntamente com o amor companheiro, o amor f\u00e1tuo, o amor vazio, a paix\u00e3o e alguns outros tipos de amor, \u00e9 uma parte crucial de uma teoria triangular do amor, que pode ser encontrada em pormenor no seu artigo da Psychological Review.<\/p>\n

Robert Sternberg’s research at Yale University aims to break the mold about the major differences between passionate love, which consists of a lack of commitment but thrives in sexual attraction, and other forms of love that lead to a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Embora o amor consumado seja o n\u00facleo de todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas saud\u00e1veis, Robert J.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sternberg brings us closer to the kind of love which consists of commitment components that don’t necessarily scream passion+intimacy and the types of relationships which can be described as love at first sight.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas combina\u00e7\u00f5es diferentes de amor verdadeiro e cada uma delas tem o potencial de levar a um compromisso a longo prazo, desde que ambos os parceiros estejam no mesmo comprimento de onda na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como ser uma boa namorada: Eleve a fasquia com estes 20 truques simples!<\/a><\/p>\n

A ess\u00eancia da teoria triangular do amor<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para compreender bem os elementos essenciais das rela\u00e7\u00f5es amorosas, Sternberg desenvolveu uma estrutura profundamente perspicaz, na qual explica em grande pormenor a base das suas descobertas sobre o amor consumado, bem como sobre todas as outras formas de amor.<\/p>\n

Sternberg explica ainda que existem, de facto, oito tipos diferentes de amor na sua teoria do tri\u00e2ngulo amoroso, todos eles resultantes de tr\u00eas componentes-chave: paix\u00e3o, intimidade e decis\u00e3o (tamb\u00e9m referida como compromisso).<\/p>\n

If your romantic love relationship consists of only one of the aforementioned components (let’s assume that there’s intimacy but you’re lacking in the passion and commitment departments), according to Sternberg, your love falls under the category of a more simple, basic form of love.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if your relationship has two of these components (for example, passion + intimacy but a lack of commitment), you’re on the right track but it’s still far from consummate love.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

E se a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o cont\u00e9m todos estes tr\u00eas componentes do amor, ent\u00e3o parab\u00e9ns!<\/p>\n

Isso significa que a vossa forma de relacionamento \u00e9 conhecida como amor consumado.<\/p>\n

Sternberg’s triangular theory of love aims to open people’s eyes to the real nature of their romantic love and guide them toward the kind of love where they’ll exchange infatuation for true, meaningful romantic love and get to the same level of commitment.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: A lista definitiva de objectivos de casal para as rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais felizes<\/a><\/p>\n

Os tr\u00eas componentes do amor<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

In order to help you better understand the triangular theory of love and explain all types of love, including consummate love, let’s delve deeper into the three key components of love and understand their roles in Sternberg’s triangular theory.<\/p>\n

Without them, there is no ultimate form of love, which is why you need to pay close attention and learn from Sternberg’s dedicated research into what makes love grow and evolve.<\/p>\n

\u2022  Intimacy is the component of a relationship that lets you feel warmth and closeness with your true love.It’s the feeling that once felt can never go to oblivion. It’s difficult to describe it with words as it’s something that needs to be felt in order to be fully understood.<\/p>\n

\u2022  Passion is the essence of sexual attraction between two people. Passion is the driving force that creates sexual tension and deep physical attraction in a love relationship.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

\u2022  Commitment is the core of a long-term relationship. It’s a constant decision to put your best friend first and remain loyal to them no matter the obstacles. Consummate love doesn’t exist without this key component of love. Along with the other two, it creates what Sternberg would call jackpot love (consummate love).<\/p>\n

All of these components of love are vital in keeping a romantic love afloat and give it a chance of becoming the ultimate form of love\u2014consummate love.<\/p>\n

But in some cases, not all are present, although this doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with those relationships.<\/p>\n

Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es a longo prazo t\u00eam o potencial de atingir o objetivo mais elevado.<\/p>\n

De acordo com Sternberg, estes componentes podem variar consoante o tipo de amor.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, um casal casado pode sentir falta de paix\u00e3o quando traz uma crian\u00e7a para o seu mundo, mas os seus n\u00edveis de intimidade e compromisso aumentar\u00e3o significativamente.<\/p>\n

Tudo depende muito da fase da rela\u00e7\u00e3o e do objetivo final que pretendem atingir.<\/p>\n

Consummate love is what many aspire to but until you get there, you’ll first need to understand (and likely go through) the eight other types of love to be able to fully understand, appreciate and cherish consummate love.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Sente-se derrotado e perdido? Estas 10 coisas v\u00e3o ajud\u00e1-lo a lidar com isso<\/a><\/p>\n

Os 8 principais tipos de amor<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

A teoria triangular do amor oferece uma vis\u00e3o incr\u00edvel sobre em que consistem estes oito tipos de amor e como est\u00e3o todos interligados atrav\u00e9s dos tr\u00eas componentes-chave do amor.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that your relationship may not fall straight into one of these categories but Sternberg’s framework will hopefully help you understand your current relationship (along with your past relationships) and see it in a whole new light.<\/p>\n

1. N\u00e3o amar<\/h2>\n

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As the name itself suggests, when all three components of love are evidently missing from your romantic relationship, you’re dealing with a non-love type of relationship.<\/p>\n

These kinds of relationships are usually among two casual friends who haven’t gotten to know each other well yet.<\/p>\n

Pode ser caracterizada por uma falta de paix\u00e3o, intimidade e compromisso.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 fogo, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 proximidade e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 planos para levar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o pr\u00f3ximo n\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

The person you’re having this type of relationship with does not hold much merit in your life and you could easily live without them by your side.<\/p>\n

2. Gostar<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When you’re dealing with liking, you’re probably close to someone to an extent (which can be described as intimacy) but there’s a palpable lack of commitment and passion.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a fase em que a maioria dos casais come\u00e7a, com uma grande probabilidade de a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o se transformar em amor consumado a dada altura.<\/p>\n

As long as there’s will on both sides to move forward, there’s a chance of it becoming healthy romantic love.<\/p>\n

3. Paix\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

An infatuation is a form of love characterized by a fiery sexual attraction that according to a triangular theory of love doesn’t amount to a complete type of love.<\/p>\n

While this relationship is passionate and physical, it’s lack of intimacy and commitment makes it far from consummate love.<\/p>\n

As pessoas que est\u00e3o neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o muitas vezes n\u00e3o conseguem manter as m\u00e3os longe uma da outra, o que resulta frequentemente em PDAs.<\/p>\n

While infatuation is a vital aspect of a relationship, it’s necessary for it to evolve into a deeper connection in order to sustain itself on a long-term basis.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que eu amo em ti: Uma lista de 100 raz\u00f5es pelas quais te amo<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Amor vazio<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Durante este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o casal luta para manter a rela\u00e7\u00e3o viva devido a uma grave falta de paix\u00e3o + intimidade.<\/p>\n

O amor vazio tem compromisso, mas a falta dos outros dois componentes torna dif\u00edcil mant\u00ea-lo \u00e0 tona.<\/p>\n

Isto acontece normalmente com um casal mais velho cuja rela\u00e7\u00e3o infelizmente estagnou.<\/p>\n

5. Amor rom\u00e2ntico<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

De acordo com Sternberg, quando se combina paix\u00e3o + intimidade, obt\u00e9m-se o amor rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n

Now this may seem like the type of love one should aspire to but there’s something missing: commitment.<\/p>\n

This often occurs in romantic relationships where one partner wants to commit but the other one isn’t ready.<\/p>\n

There’s attraction and there’s a connection but it’s incomplete due to its one-sided nature.<\/p>\n

A love relationship of this kind can sustain itself for a little while but it’s more likely to fizzle out due to a severe lack of commitment.<\/p>\n

6. Amor de companheirismo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

O amor companheiro \u00e9 o tipo de amor em que o compromisso e a intimidade est\u00e3o muito presentes, mas a paix\u00e3o est\u00e1 ausente desta equa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

For long-term commitment, a romantic couple needs to evolve from this kind of love and find that fire that’s missing.<\/p>\n

This is usually between two close friends who have forged a strong bond which became a relationship but unfortunately, it\u2019s one that lacks sexual attraction.<\/p>\n

Cabe-lhes a eles decidir se o seu amor vai seguir em frente e encontrar a componente que falta ou se v\u00e3o deixar correr o seu curso, aceitando a realidade tal como ela \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Um beijo na bochecha: Significados e 12 tipos diferentes de beijos<\/a><\/p>\n

7. Amor f\u00e1tuo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Neste tipo de amor, h\u00e1 paix\u00e3o e h\u00e1 compromisso, mas a intimidade est\u00e1 visivelmente ausente.<\/p>\n

While any type of relationship has a certain amount of potential to amount to something deeper, according to Sternberg’s triangular theory of love, this one is unlikely to last.<\/p>\n

Para forjar um la\u00e7o suficientemente forte para resistir ao teste do tempo, \u00e9 preciso intimidade.<\/p>\n

Without it, there’s no trust and without trust, there’s no basis for a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Therefore, fatuous love is not one to aspire to as it won’t last very long.<\/p>\n

8. Amor consumado<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

And finally, we’ve come to the ultimate type of love that is the core of Robert Sternberg’s triangular theory.<\/p>\n

Amor consumado. O pr\u00f3prio nome d\u00e1-nos uma indica\u00e7\u00e3o de amor completo.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Porque cont\u00e9m as tr\u00eas componentes do amor.<\/p>\n

De acordo com a teoria triangular do amor, toda a gente deveria aspirar a ter este tipo de amor.<\/p>\n

But once you attain it, don’t think that your work is done.<\/p>\n

Mesmo nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 sempre necess\u00e1rio trabalhar nela, aliment\u00e1-la e esfor\u00e7ar-se seriamente.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Para que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o flores\u00e7a, precisa de ser constantemente regada.<\/p>\n

Wherever you find yourself on the journey of love right now, don’t try to rush into something you’re not ready for.<\/p>\n

Sternberg’s framework serves a unique purpose of helping you understand where you are so that you can see where you want to go.<\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

Whether you’re in a consummate relationship or still on your journey toward it, one thing needs to remain crystal clear; a relationship won’t grow unless you make it so.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que permite as tr\u00eas componentes do amor na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica e nunca ignore uma delas.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Without passion, intimacy and commitment, you cannot expect to achieve what Sternberg’s research has explained as the complete type of love.<\/p>\n

Take this as a guide toward attaining what you’ve been yearning for, without skipping any steps in the process.<\/p>\n

A teoria triangular do amor \u00e9 uma vis\u00e3o profunda dos meandros de todos os tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas e da import\u00e2ncia de se procurar sempre mais.<\/p>\n

Consummate love is not unattainable; it\u2019s simply a deeply progressed form of love that only the most loyal and dedicated can hope to achieve.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Os 10 principais sinais de que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para um relacionamento no momento<\/a><\/p>\n

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