{"id":55599,"date":"2020-03-23T09:39:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T09:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55599"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:57:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:57:33","slug":"com-a-pessoa-certa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/com-a-pessoa-certa\/","title":{"rendered":"Com a pessoa certa, n\u00e3o sentir\u00e1s que \u00e9s dif\u00edcil de amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca descreveria a sua cara-metade como ser dif\u00edcil de amar<\/em>, tu farias?<\/p>\n

Still, that\u2019s what you believe to be true about yourself and what you think others think of you.<\/p>\n

Sempre que algo de mau acontece, a primeira coisa que fazemos \u00e9 culparmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

A sua mente vai para um lugar negativo e sente-se um fracasso.<\/p>\n

Acreditar em tais coisas \u00e9 uma grande parte do problema.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Having low self-esteem is a sign of distrusting your worth. It means you don\u2019t see anything valuable in you and that just isn\u2019t true.<\/p>\n

But first, let\u2019s see what led you to believe in that lie in the first place and how can we change that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a sensitive person. Being a sensitive person makes you super aware of things other people don\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n

Isso tamb\u00e9m significa que pode ficar sobrecarregado mais facilmente e ter dificuldade em estabelecer limites e dizer n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You understand everything deeply and sometimes you feel like you\u2019re not doing everything you can.<\/p>\n

You can be harsh on yourself over things you can\u2019t control. You\u2019re an overthinker.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os pensadores excessivos vivem na sua mente e passam uma quantidade de tempo doentia a reviver os seus supostos erros e a desejar poder mudar algo que j\u00e1 aconteceu.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s stopping them from giving self-love a chance.<\/p>\n

Tem dificuldade em aceitar as imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Striving for perfection means constantly having to prove your self-worth. And that\u2019s exhausting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s often mixed up with the fear of disapproval.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need approval to be who you are. You should be loved as you are.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para deixar de se deprimir, tem de mudar as cren\u00e7as prejudiciais que tem sobre si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Para mudar esta autoimagem distorcida, \u00e9 preciso saber o que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Para recuperar a sua auto-confian\u00e7a com a ajuda do seu futuro parceiro, eis o que deve ter em aten\u00e7\u00e3o e como deve ser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

A pessoa certa lidar\u00e1 com os conflitos com maturidade.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o haver\u00e1 coment\u00e1rios mesquinhos e sil\u00eancios embara\u00e7osos, chamadas n\u00e3o atendidas ou agressividade.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 muitos diga-me como se sente e porqu\u00ea e eu dir-lhe-ei o mesmo.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o haver\u00e1 culpa.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing worse than manipulating a person who has been hurt before, especially if you use culpa<\/em> para os controlar. As rela\u00e7\u00f5es felizes baseiam-se na confian\u00e7a e na honestidade.<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1 que tudo tem solu\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Com a pessoa certa, que compreende as suas necessidades, sentir-se-\u00e1 sempre \u00e0 vontade.<\/p>\n

Com a pessoa certa, sentir-se-\u00e1 como se pertencesse a ela.<\/p>\n

Como se pudesses finalmente baixar a guarda e relaxar em paz, sabendo que algu\u00e9m tem os teus melhores interesses no cora\u00e7\u00e3o, apesar dos teus defeitos.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t see your flaws as a reason to doubt you, but opportunity to understand you better.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Os defeitos s\u00e3o apenas lembretes de onde precisamos mais de amor.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t use your flaws against you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn that real love can\u2019t be hard. There\u2019s no such thing as being hard to love.<\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 suposto ser leve. Cheio de alegria, compreens\u00e3o e carinho.<\/p>\n

Deve elevar-nos, n\u00e3o nos deitar abaixo e fazer-nos questionar tudo o que fazemos.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t see your partner as someone to obey, someone you\u2019re not worthy of, or someone who makes you compare yourself with others to measure your worth.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Deve ser algu\u00e9m que caminhe ao seu lado enquanto segura a sua m\u00e3o e que se certifique de lhe mostrar o seu amor de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

When you stop believing you\u2019re hard to love, you will suddenly start noticing love that has been shown to you, not only by your partner but your loved ones.<\/p>\n

Nunca devemos tomar o amor como garantido. Nos dias maus, quando te sentires incapaz de ser amado, lembra-te disso.<\/p>\n

Remember all the people who\u2019ve loved you your whole life and all the things they\u2019ve done for you.<\/p>\n

Remember that regardless of your past, your courage, your fears, your confidence, your age, looks, or accomplishments \u2013 you are always worthy of love.<\/p>\n

\"Com<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You would never describe your significant other as being hard to love, would you? Still, that\u2019s what you believe to be true about yourself and what you think others think of you. Every time something bad happens, the first thing you do is blame yourself. Your mind goes into a negative place and you feel…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":55600,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/With-The-Right-Person-You-Won\u2019t-Feel-Like-You\u2019re-Hard-To-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}