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<\/p>\nAs mulheres n\u00e3o conseguem lidar com a verdade. Romantizam demasiado. V\u00eaem demasiados filmes.<\/p>\n
T\u00eam a cabe\u00e7a nas nuvens e esperam o imposs\u00edvel de homens que simplesmente tentam ser realistas.<\/p>\n
Ou ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 isso mesmo?!<\/p>\n
Os homens apresentam as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es pat\u00e9ticas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s mulheres como sendo a realidade.<\/p>\n
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The \u201cglass is neither half-full nor half-empty\u2019\u2019 side of life.<\/p>\n
In this story, a woman\u2019s need to be loved and cared for fully and honestly is a glass so full, it\u2019s overflowing.<\/p>\n
A \u00fanica forma razo\u00e1vel de as coisas funcionarem, segundo os homens, \u00e9 eles terem todo o poder, fazerem tudo \u00e0 sua maneira e nunca prestarem aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao que uma mulher sente.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s sick. You bring home cooked soup, rub his chest, and play his favorite shows for him while you gently massage his back.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re sick. He sends a message asking if you\u2019re okay.<\/p>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-1.jpg\")
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Na melhor das hip\u00f3teses, ele envia dois.<\/p>\n
You feel happy that he remembered to check how you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n
You cooked for him and he\u2019s late for dinner. He says he couldn\u2019t make it on time, you say it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n
He cooked (like that ever happens, right?), and you\u2019re late for dinner (no way, you\u2019d be too grateful he\u2019s doing something for you).<\/p>\n
Tem uma \u00f3ptima explica\u00e7\u00e3o e ele faz uma cena.<\/p>\n
O que quer que ele fa\u00e7a por si, tem de o elogiar por isso, enquanto que cuidar dele \u00e9 apenas l\u00f3gico.<\/p>\n
![\"jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-man-cooking-and-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\")
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If you really think about it, you\u2019ll see that you are the one considering his needs and wishes while he never actually thinks about yours.<\/p>\n
A pergunta a fazer \u00e9: a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o continuaria a funcionar se fosse ao contr\u00e1rio?<\/p>\n
Ser\u00e1 que ele alguma vez poderia ser aquele que estava em segundo plano enquanto tu estavas na ribalta?<\/p>\n
Ser\u00e1 que ele consegue lidar com o facto de chegar a casa do trabalho, querer falar sobre algo irritante ou mau que lhe aconteceu, e tu fingires que est\u00e1s a ouvir enquanto v\u00eas um jogo?<\/p>\n
N\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Ser\u00e1 que ele consegue enviar-lhe dez mensagens de texto e voc\u00ea n\u00e3o responder a nenhuma e depois inventar uma desculpa esfarrapada quando ele a confronta sobre o assunto?<\/p>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-look-bored-while-waiting-for-dinner-from-wife.jpg\")
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N\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Could he deal with not knowing where you are all night or who are you spending your time with, and you telling him that it\u2019s none of his business where, how, and with whom you spend your time?<\/p>\n
Nem pensar.<\/p>\n
A verdade \u00e9 que um homem n\u00e3o consegue lidar com a mesma realidade com que uma mulher tem de lidar.<\/p>\n
He pretends he\u2019s strong and dominant. He pretends he could never be needy or whiney.<\/p>\n
He makes sure he lets you know that you\u2019re overly emotional, overly controlling, and overly everything while he\u2019s just the right measure.<\/p>\n
Ele nunca, jamais, poderia comportar-se da forma como tu te comportas.<\/p>\n
![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-couple-lying-on-bed-1.jpg\")
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You\u2019re the one expecting too much from him.<\/p>\n
The whole situation couldn\u2019t be more absurd if it tried.<\/p>\n
Sinceramente, se o tratasse nem que fosse perto da forma como ele a trata, seria muito, muito pior do que ele pensa que \u00e9.<\/p>\n
He thinks he\u2019s so perfect, while the truth is that with everything you do for him it\u2019s easy to be content.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d feel much better about things if he was more kind, nurturing, and caring.<\/p>\n
If he respected what you say and do the way you respect everything he does, you\u2019d be blossoming and he\u2019d be the one broken.<\/p>\n
![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-no-talking-3.jpg\")
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It\u2019s a generally accepted opinion that women can\u2019t deal with the truth.<\/p>\n
Pergunto-me se a verdade que d\u00e1s a um homem fosse t\u00e3o desagrad\u00e1vel como a verdade que ele te d\u00e1, como \u00e9 que ele seria capaz de lidar com isso?<\/p>\n
I promise you, he\u2019d be so much worse at it than you are.<\/p>\n
Ser\u00e1 que todas as regras continuam a aplicar-se se fingires ser um homem por um dia e o tratares como ele te trata?<\/p>\n
I guarantee they wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
![\"um](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
I guess it\u2019s simple to deal with an easy truth, but dealing with the truths men serve women would be impossible for them.<\/p>\n
Lembre-se disso da pr\u00f3xima vez que ele a chamar de carente.<\/p>\n
Keep that in mind next time he doesn\u2019t even try to fulfill any of your needs.<\/p>\n
Keep that in mind and you\u2019ll finally realize that he can but he won\u2019t, ever be as strong as you are.<\/p>\n
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