{"id":55776,"date":"2020-03-23T18:25:44","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T18:25:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55776"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:38:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:38:35","slug":"vais-ter-a-tua-faisca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vais-ter-a-tua-faisca\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele quebrou-te mas vais recuperar a tua fa\u00edsca"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando algu\u00e9m que significava o mundo para n\u00f3s se vai embora, toda a gente pensa que o despeda\u00e7ar do nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o que d\u00f3i mais.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, o choque inicial entorpece-nos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re in denial and refuse to accept that something like this has happened.<\/p>\n

Recusa-se a encarar as partes do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que precisa de reconstruir e assume que a supress\u00e3o das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es o far\u00e1 sentir-se melhor.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, after a little while, all the pain hits you and to put it mildly, it starts to feel like you\u2019ve been stabbed in the stomach.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you\u2019re going through physical pain that prevents you from breathing properly and which you can\u2019t explain.<\/p>\n

You know you\u2019re safe and sound but you feel dead on the inside.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, pensamos que este sentimento nunca ir\u00e1 desaparecer.<\/p>\n

You assume that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life walking around with this incredibly heavy rock in your gut and that every morning you wake up will be just a new agony.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, tdor passa, mais cedo ou mais tarde. Passa-se por algumas fases diferentes que terminam com a aceita\u00e7\u00e3o e, mais cedo ou mais tarde, o desgosto deixa de ser a \u00fanica coisa em que se consegue pensar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t happen overnight, since it is a process that takes a lot of effort and energy. Nevertheless, eventually, time does its magic and it stitches your broken heart.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-se passos de beb\u00e9 e, passado algum tempo, aprende-se a respirar de novo. Apanha-se a sorrir e surge a esperan\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You think that this is it\u2014you\u2019re officially saved. Your<\/strong> o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido \u00e9 curado<\/b><\/a> and you\u2019re good to go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, sadly, things don\u2019t work that way. Because what hurts more than a shattered heart is the consequences this awful experience leaves on you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened to you. This man didn\u2019t just break your heart\u2014he broke you as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele mudou a pessoa que eras antes de o conheceres. Ele matou a rapariga inocente e ing\u00e9nua que acreditava nas pessoas e que tinha f\u00e9 no amor.<\/p>\n

Ele fez desaparecer a verdadeira pessoa e substituiu-a por esta mulher amarga, negativa e c\u00ednica que n\u00e3o confia em ningu\u00e9m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He erased the girl who followed her heart\u2019s lead no matter what and instead, brought about a disappointed, guarded and overly careful woman who is trying her best to shut off her emotions because she is medo do amor<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014ele tirou-te o brilho. Matou o seu esp\u00edrito e destruiu o seu otimismo e entusiasmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Este homem transformou-te num morto-vivo.<\/p>\n

A dada altura, deix\u00e1mos de viver e pass\u00e1mos a existir e h\u00e1 uma enorme diferen\u00e7a entre as duas coisas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014when was the last time you caught yourself being truly happy, without any specific reason?<\/p>\n

Qual foi a \u00faltima vez que coisas simples como dar um mergulho no mar ou ver um p\u00f4r do sol incr\u00edvel o emocionaram?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember, right? Well, that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, even though you accepted the new you, I\u2019m here to tell you that things won\u2019t always be like this.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prometo-vos que um dia destes, a tua fa\u00edsca voltar\u00e1<\/strong>. Ele vir\u00e1 inesperadamente, bater\u00e1 \u00e0 sua porta e nunca mais o abandonar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push yourself too hard and give yourself enough time to completely heal but remember that this will pass, the same way your heartbreak did.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t<\/strong>  <\/b>perder-se<\/b><\/a> forever and you\u2019ll get the girl you used to be back. Just be patient and don\u2019t think about giving up just yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014the scars on your soul will remain there forever.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Servir\u00e3o para vos recordar as batalhas por que passaram e, mais importante ainda, como uma mem\u00f3ria da forma como conseguiram sobreviver.<\/p>\n

No entanto, you\u2019ll manage to pick up the broken pieces of yourself and glue yourself back together. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll succeed in rebuilding yourself to make an even stronger, updated version of the girl you once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E sabem porqu\u00ea? Porque no matter what happens, what you go through or what some evil people do to you, you\u2019re never broken beyond repair.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When someone who meant the world to you walks away, everyone thinks that the shattering of your heart is what hurts the most. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time. At first, you are numbed by the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":55790,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/He-Broke-You-But-You-Will-Get-Your-Spark-Back.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55790"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}