{"id":5589,"date":"2020-07-25T07:57:05","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T07:57:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5589"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:32:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:32:27","slug":"5-razoes-para-afastar-um-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-para-afastar-um-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais afastamos a pessoa que amamos"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI’ve never fallen in love right off the bat. I get scared to say I love you too soon because it means so much. It means you’re not seeing an end to things.\u201d<\/i>~ Leighton Meester<\/b><\/p>\n

You push him away because you’re scared of getting hurt again<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You are scared you\u2019ll give everything you\u2019ve got once again, but you\u2019ll get nothing in return except a broken heart.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared this new love<\/a> pode ser um investimento demasiado grande.<\/p>\n

Mas sabes que mais? \u00c9 preciso apostar em grande para ganhar em grande. \u00c9 preciso investir se se quiser ganhar alguma coisa com isso.<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019ve been gambling and losing too many times, but all you need is to win just once\u2014maybe this is it.<\/p>\n

You push him away because you think you don\u2019t deserve him<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Talvez se tenha habituado a ser tratado como lixo. A tua \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o foi assim.<\/p>\n

That guy didn\u2019t respect you and he definitely didn\u2019t deserve you. All he did was destroy your self-worth and self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Por causa dele, duvida de si pr\u00f3pria. Pensa que \u00e9 a pessoa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 amada.<\/a><\/p>\n

You think that you are not worthy of anyone\u2019s love. But that\u2019s far from the truth. He made you think like that. This guy you\u2019re dating now is a gift sent from heaven. You truly deserve him.<\/p>\n

Think of what you\u2019ve been through and how much suffering and how many insults you took.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it about time you get something in return\u2014some kind of a reward for being so strong, for enduring all the pain?<\/p>\n

Well, it is\u2014and it\u2019s him. You deserve him. Don\u2019t push him away by thinking that you are not good enough.<\/p>\n

You push him away because you\u2019re insecure<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what you want. In this state you\u2019re in\u2014a vulnerable state\u2014you are not up for making huge life decisions.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only natural that you feel more secure when someone else decides something for you. But, for the long run, that is not something you want.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let others control your life.<\/a> Don\u2019t let others tell you how to love and how to behave in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Because, if you do, that\u2019s not you. Your partner is not dating you. He is dating people who make decisions for you\u2014that is what pushes him away.<\/p>\n

Afasta-o porque n\u00e3o \u00e9 a altura certa para o fazer<\/h2>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Maybe you weren\u2019t ready to jump into a new relationship. Maybe you are deliberately pushing him away without even knowing it.<\/p>\n

Although your mind tells you\u2019ve made the right call and you really want to be with him\u2014it makes sense, it\u2019s logical\u2014your heart is not quite there yet. It is still stuck in the past.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, don\u2019t force it. You will only destroy his life and yours, too. If it\u2019s not the right time, stop. Let your heart heal, so it can be able to love again\u2014unconditionally.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re pushing him away because you\u2019re scared he will leave you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared he is the same as all of them\u2014as the one before him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared you\u2019ll get attached easily and he is going to leave right at that moment when you let down your guard. He is not. Once again, I tell you\u2014take a risk.<\/p>\n

Even though it\u2019s hard to let love slap you in the face over and over again, one of those slaps will be <\/i><\/b>o \u00faltimo.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n

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