{"id":56020,"date":"2020-03-24T15:10:48","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T15:10:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56020"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:09:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:09:40","slug":"estou-oficialmente-cansado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-oficialmente-cansado\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou oficialmente farto de ser uma reflex\u00e3o tardia"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m tired of being your<\/strong> segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a> e n\u00e3o ser a tua prioridade, quando eu sempre te coloquei em primeiro lugar<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

It seems that you only come to me when you have nowhere else to go, and that for all these years you\u2019ve been treating me like your last resort and safety net.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t expect to be the centre of your world and I never asked you to disregard your entire life just because I came along.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m your girlfriend and I shouldn\u2019t be the one you call only when everyone else has stood you up or abandoned you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The one you come to for reassurance that you\u2019re still important to someone, or the one you use as an ego boost.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of having to fit in to your plans, like my schedule doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m weary of having to wait the whole day for you to decide whether you can be bothered to come and pick me up like we agreed, and of putting my entire life on hold for you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done waiting for you to choose me<\/strong>. Estou farta de esperar pacientemente que te recomponhas e percebas que me devias come\u00e7ar a tratar melhor.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 chega de me comparar com as tuas ex e com todas as outras raparigas perto de ti.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Chega de competir com a tua carreira, com os teus hobbies, com as discotecas e com tudo o resto que \u00e9 obviamente mais importante do que eu.<\/p>\n

Acabou-se o tempo para se decidir.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of feeling like second best<\/strong>. And that is exactly how you make me feel – like you\u2019re with me just because I\u2019m the only one available and that you\u2019ll dump me as soon as someone better comes along.<\/p>\n

Because guess what – I\u2019m a catch<\/strong>mesmo que n\u00e3o o vejas.<\/p>\n

This might sound as cocky but I have a lot to offer – I\u2019m pretty, smart, interesting, have a great sense of humour and everyone enjoys my company. That is – everyone but you.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Most importantly – I\u2019m an namorada espetacular<\/span><\/a>. E Serei o melhor para algu\u00e9m que veja o meu valor e que o saiba apreciar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done begging for your love and affection.<\/p>\n

Done with chasing you around to be with me, done with feeling like I\u2019m forcing you to stay in this relationship and done with settling for bread crumbs of your attention.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with acting like I won the jackpot every time you treat me the way a normal boyfriend should treat the girl he loves.<\/p>\n

Done with envying all the other couples who have mature, healthy relationships and I\u2019m done with hoping that one day, ours will become the same.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of being the only one trying, while you put no effort into our relationship at all<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Cansado de fazer todos os sacrif\u00edcios, de ser o \u00fanico a iniciar constantemente o contacto e de ser o \u00fanico a tentar fazer-nos avan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of being the only one who believes in us as a couple and being the only one trying to save this relationship, which is obviously doomed to fail.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done settling for less and putting up with the fact that you don\u2019t love me enough. Yes, that\u2019s the truth, so let\u2019s start calling things by their rightful name.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s cut the crap – it\u2019s not that you\u2019re \u201clike that\u201d, it\u2019s not that you have trouble showing emotion, that this is your way of showing affection or your maximum – you don\u2019t love me enough, never did and never will.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong – I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re completely indifferent. In fact, I bet you care for me to a certain extent but I want and deserve more.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of giving you endless second chances.<\/p>\n

Sick of your false promises that one of these days, things between us will change and that you\u2019ll finally become the man you should have been since day one.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because – let\u2019s face it: that will never happen. And it\u2019s about time for me to accept the harsh truth.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done living in constant fear that you\u2019ll abandon me. Done being afraid that one day, you\u2019ll just vanish from my life, without any closure or a proper explanation.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m deixando-o<\/b><\/a><\/strong>. Yes, you heard that right – I\u2019m breaking up with you and this time, I\u2019m not making an empty threat so you\u2019ll come to your senses for a few days.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m walking away because I would rather be alone and wait for a man who will give me the place I deserve than continue being your afterthought.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Estou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m tired of being your second choice and not being your priority, when I always put you first. It seems that you only come to me when you have nowhere else to go, and that for all these years you\u2019ve been treating me like your last resort and safety net. I don\u2019t expect to be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":56035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I\u2019m-Officially-Tired-Of-Being-An-Afterthought.jpg",1000,667,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56020"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56020\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}