{"id":56100,"date":"2020-03-24T22:49:42","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T22:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56100"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:55:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:55:58","slug":"nao-foram-feitos-para-ficar-juntos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-foram-feitos-para-ficar-juntos\/","title":{"rendered":"Era para nos apaixonarmos, mas n\u00e3o para ficarmos juntos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando penso em n\u00f3s, a minha mente reproduz apenas as nossas mem\u00f3rias mais felizes. \u00c9 como se me quisesse magoar ainda mais.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to admit but you were everything I knew about love. It sounds so dramatic, I know, and it\u2019s even scarier knowing how deeply I feel those words even now.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I didn\u2019t think of you as the love of my life. You were so silly trying to get my attention in such unnecessary ways.<\/p>\n<p>Fiquei um pouco aborrecido, mas encantado com a tua espontaneidade.  Fomos ambos demasiado honestos desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56109 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beijar-se ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t exactly the most romantic love but it was for sure a passionate one and soon, through you, I learned that passion isn\u2019t always short-lived; sometimes from passion arises maturity, something I never would\u2019ve guessed.<\/p>\n<p>Mas era esse o nosso caso. Acab\u00e1vamos e depois faz\u00edamos as pazes, chor\u00e1vamos em desespero e depois r\u00edamos disso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nothing in the world could stop us. Maybe we didn\u2019t have the most perfect relationship ever but deep down, we knew we had found each other to heal each other in the most unusual ways.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s probably why we had so much respect for each other.<\/p>\n<p>We played it cool until we couldn\u2019t. Our scars intertwined like our hearts and our hands.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56111 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a relaxar no rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7aste a sentir-te como em casa para mim e eu comecei a sentir-me como em casa para ti. \u00c9 estranho como nos torn\u00e1mos insepar\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>Deixamo-nos levar, fazer tudo, dizer tudo. Pela primeira vez em tantos anos, senti algo e foi contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Senti como \u00e9 ser amado apesar do que penso de mim pr\u00f3prio.  Senti como \u00e9 ser aceite pelo que sou.<\/p>\n<p>Aprendi o que se sente quando uma pessoa nos v\u00ea a n\u00f3s e s\u00f3 a n\u00f3s; a estar loucamente apaixonada.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I didn\u2019t tell you as many times as I should have but you were the first person I let in after being hurt so badly, the first person to climb the walls I built around myself.<\/p>\n<p>A nossa honestidade uniu-nos muito. \u00c9ramos loucos um pelo outro. Nem um dia da nossa vida era aborrecido.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56112 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal encantador a observar a cidade nocturna a partir da colina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amamo-nos-mas-nao-podemos-estar-juntos\/\">Amamo-nos mas n\u00e3o podemos estar juntos: O que fazer<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1vamos em \u00eaxtase, desesperados, zangados, mas nunca indiferentes.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how my heart got broken.&nbsp; Who knew that silence could be so lethal?<\/p>\n<p>Quem diria que aquele que me amava t\u00e3o profundamente se tornaria apenas um estranho?<\/p>\n<p>You stopped asking about my life and you couldn\u2019t understand me anymore.<\/p>\n<p>No in\u00edcio, pensei que estava a fazer algo errado. Pensei que tinha feito algo que te tinha afastado.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to change myself and that went against everything we said we would never do. Soon, despair came over me and I couldn\u2019t deal anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56113 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a abra\u00e7ar o namorado na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I felt alone and abandoned and I couldn\u2019t take it; not while you were with me whereas in actuality, you were far gone.<\/p>\n<p>My soul couldn\u2019t take it. I was so angry at life for giving me something so perfect only to take it away so ruthlessly.<\/p>\n<p>Comecei a aperceber-me de que, depois de curar as nossas feridas, nos torn\u00e1mos pessoas diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>No man is the same when he\u2019s in pain and when he\u2019s not. Finally, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-sua-partida-nao-me-matou\/\">separ\u00e1mo-nos e algo se foi para sempre nesse dia<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back at it, I still don\u2019t regret anything. It\u2019s just the way it was meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people come into your life to show you everything you forgot about yourself\u2014and then they sometimes leave.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56114 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal preocupado a olhar um para o outro num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Apesar de tudo, nunca deixarei de gostar de ti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1s sempre a primeira pessoa que me vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a quando ou\u00e7o uma can\u00e7\u00e3o de amor no meu terceiro copo de vinho.<\/p>\n<p>Eu amar-te-ei sempre. Espero que um dia eu encontre conforto na nossa hist\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 l\u00e1, desejo-vos adeus. A chama que arde duas vezes mais forte, arde metade do tempo.<\/p>\n<p>We fell hard and we loved hard. And that\u2019s how we ended too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes love isn\u2019t enough despite what they say. You and I are the living proof.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56104 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Era para nos apaixonarmos, mas n\u00e3o para ficarmos juntos\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I think of us, my mind plays only our happiest memories. It\u2019s like it wants to hurt me even more. It\u2019s hard to admit but you were everything I knew about love. It sounds so dramatic, I know, and it\u2019s even scarier knowing how deeply I feel those words even now. At first, I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":56106,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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