{"id":56134,"date":"2020-03-25T00:02:03","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T00:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56134"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:38:15","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:38:15","slug":"nao-permitir-que-alguem-o-trate-mal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-permitir-que-alguem-o-trate-mal\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o permitas que algu\u00e9m te trate mal s\u00f3 porque gostas dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

O senso comum de toda a gente diz-lhes que n\u00e3o devem tolerar que as pessoas os magoem.<\/p>\n

If your friend was in a bad relationship where a guy treated her poorly, you\u2019d be the first to tell her to call it quits.<\/p>\n

No matter how much she loved the guy, you\u2019d know that her place is not next to him.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil perceber que a pessoa que amamos nos est\u00e1 a tratar mal e porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 ainda mais dif\u00edcil deixar de permitir que isso aconte\u00e7a?<\/em><\/p>\n

Love can make us blind, that\u2019s true. Loving someone can make us idealize everything good they do. And then when they do something wrong, we end up making excuses for them.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t born into this world to waste your energy, good heart, and love on someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Comece a amar-se a si pr\u00f3prio e a cuidar do seu bem-estar, e as coisas come\u00e7ar\u00e3o a desenrolar-se para si.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s take off the blindfold love has put over our eyes and try to see things clearly for once.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they don\u2019t answer when you call them and never even apologize, that\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n

If you wait for hours before they answer a simple message, that\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n

If they\u2019re never there for you, no matter the reason you need them, that\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If they can\u2019t find the time or energy to participate in your life, that\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n

If the person you\u2019re with can\u2019t seem to respect, support, and love you the way they\u2019re supposed to \u2013 that sure isn\u2019t right.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We don\u2019t want to think badly of the person we\u2019ve given so much to. We want them good, pure, and perfect in our minds.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we never let ourselves confess they are actually treating us quite poorly.<\/p>\n

Perceber e confessar que algu\u00e9m o est\u00e1 a magoar com o seu comportamento \u00e9 o primeiro passo para resolver este enorme problema.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter how much you love someone, you can\u2019t let them break you apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love can\u2019t be one-sided. If you love them, they should love you back, right? If they loved you, would they hurt you? Absolutely not.<\/p>\n

A pessoa que o ama verdadeiramente ter\u00e1 sempre em mente os seus melhores interesses. A pessoa que se preocupa nunca o magoar\u00e1 intencionalmente.<\/p>\n

Se algu\u00e9m continua a tratar-nos de uma forma que nunca tratar\u00edamos e continuamos a perdoar-lhe, agora \u00e9 o momento de quebrar esse ciclo vicioso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m nos pode magoar, por muito que nos queiram mal.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Would you ever do bad things to someone you love? Sure you wouldn\u2019t. Then, why do you let someone do that to you?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know you find many reasons to explain them hurting you in a way that makes it seem less important and like it\u2019s not even their fault.<\/p>\n

Essas ac\u00e7\u00f5es maliciosas n\u00e3o s\u00f3 s\u00e3o importantes, como tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o cruciais para a sua autoestima e para a sua felicidade futura.<\/p>\n

They take your trust and sincerity and they toss it all away, making it seem like you\u2019re the less important person in the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I wonder how they would feel if you did the same thing to them?! Would they forgive you? I\u2019m pretty sure not.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m quite sure they\u2019re constantly apologizing to you, asking your forgiveness. Well, let me tell you something: An apology that doesn\u2019t come with changed behavior<\/a> \u00e9 s\u00f3 conversa fiada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m also guessing that if by any chance you choose to actually stand your ground and show them you\u2019re no longer putting up with their shit, they will make you feel bad for being angry at them.<\/p>\n

This is the kind of toxic person you don\u2019t want in your life. They might have you believing they will change, but they won\u2019t!<\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 estar a pensar em dar-lhes uma segunda oportunidade, mas posso dizer-lhe desde j\u00e1 que qualquer oportunidade que lhes d\u00ea ser\u00e1 desperdi\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Someone who claims that they love you yet still decides to treat you poorly isn\u2019t worth a second chance.<\/p>\n

Yes, forgiveness is a beautiful path to choose, and sure you can choose to forgive them for every way they\u2019ve harmed you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve said forgive, not forget.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them treat you like you are unworthy of love, and don\u2019t let them ever harm you again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Everyone\u2019s common sense tells them they shouldn\u2019t tolerate people hurting them. If your friend was in a bad relationship where a guy treated her poorly, you\u2019d be the first to tell her to call it quits. No matter how much she loved the guy, you\u2019d know that her place is not next to him. Why…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":56150,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Someone-To-Treat-You-Poorly-Just-Because-You-Love-Them.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56134"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56134\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}