{"id":5625,"date":"2020-11-25T13:15:14","date_gmt":"2020-11-25T13:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5625"},"modified":"2024-10-24T12:24:12","modified_gmt":"2024-10-24T10:24:12","slug":"dizer-ola-novo-capitulo-da-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dizer-ola-novo-capitulo-da-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Diga ol\u00e1 ao novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I feel like I have never been much of a writer when it comes to my own life\u2019s book. I was more of a reader. I would read and follow the plot. I never had enough courage to take a pen into my own hands and write it by myself.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I am starting now. I am starting to write the new chapter of my life. I am sure it is going to be a good one. Written in my style and to my own taste.<\/p>\n<p><i>I want to leave all the things that brought me down and all the emotional baggage in the chapters of a book entitled \u2018PAST\u2019. I am never reading it again.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>The new book is called \u2018NOW\u2019 and this new chapter\u2014concentrating on where I am now and what am I doing now\u2014will determine my future.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>For starters, I want no more hibernation. I am done sleeping. I was doing that for so long I wasn\u2019t even aware of it. It\u2019s time to wake up. I wasn\u2019t literally sleeping. I just let life take its course without me participating in it. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/mercedes-maidana\/how-to-feel-fear-and-move_b_5885190.html\" rel=\"noopener\">Perdi todo o controlo sobre a minha vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este novo cap\u00edtulo come\u00e7a com um eu acordado. <\/b>Vou assumir o controlo. Vou tomar as minhas pr\u00f3prias decis\u00f5es, os meus pr\u00f3prios passos e encontrar as minhas pr\u00f3prias direc\u00e7\u00f5es. Depois, bem ou mal, vou apoiar todas elas e aceitar os resultados. Sei que nem tudo pode estar sob o meu controlo. Por isso, o que quer que aconte\u00e7a, acontece. <i>Mas vai acontecer porque eu o disse. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Desta vez, estou a escrever com uma folha de papel em branco. Este novo cap\u00edtulo n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 praticamente nenhuma liga\u00e7\u00e3o com o passado.<\/i><\/b> Por vezes, posso refletir sobre os erros que cometi no passado. N\u00e3o para os lamentar. Estou farto de me arrepender. Estou grato pelos erros. Fizeram-me crescer. Fizeram-me<a href=\"http:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Rediscover-Yourself\" rel=\"noopener\"> redescobrir-me<\/a>. I am going to remember them just so I don\u2019t repeat them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122941\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa segurando uma ch\u00e1vena de ch\u00e1 no exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thoughtful-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Estou a escrev\u00ea-lo para mim e s\u00f3 para mim. <\/b>A partir de agora, estou a fazer tudo por mim. Estou farto de fazer as coisas que os outros esperam ou querem de mim. No entanto, vou ter uma mente aberta.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que algu\u00e9m quer falar comigo ou dar-me um conselho, <i>I am going to listen. I am going to talk less and listen more. That\u2019s the only way I will learn something. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Verei se os seus conselhos me conv\u00eam e se consigo tirar algum proveito deles.  No final, tudo ser\u00e1 decidido por mim.<\/p>\n<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sou-solteira-um-homem-toxico-o-suficiente-toda-a-vida\/\">Pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> n\u00e3o podem figurar neste cap\u00edtulo.<\/b> They were in the last one and that one is closed. I am done with toxicity of any kind. My time is valuable and I don\u2019t want to spend it on people who drain my energy. I am looking forward to the new people in my life. I will keep them close if they return the good vibes I am giving them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este novo cap\u00edtulo tem tudo a ver com positivismo. <\/b>Estou grato por todas as pessoas positivas que j\u00e1 est\u00e3o na minha vida. Elas deram-me todo o amor, apoio e compreens\u00e3o que uma pessoa precisa na sua vida. Elas vir\u00e3o comigo para este pr\u00f3ximo cap\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This chapter says, \u2018Go for it!!!\u2019 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am going to be bold and take risks. I won\u2019t dwell on the outcomes. I will do all of the things that scare me first because they are worth it. I will profit the most from them, in any sense.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso come\u00e7ar a escrever um novo cap\u00edtulo, talvez mesmo num livro completamente novo. Numa nova cidade ou com um novo estado de esp\u00edrito. Porque se continuarmos a reler os cap\u00edtulos antigos, nada muda. <i>The plot stays always the same and you are not moving\u2014you are stuck. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>That&#8217;s why I welcome this new chapter. With my arms wide open and all the hope in my heart.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122942\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Diga ol\u00e1 ao novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel like I have never been much of a writer when it comes to my own life\u2019s book. I was more of a reader. I would read and follow the plot. I never had enough courage to take a pen into my own hands and write it by myself. That\u2019s why I am starting&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":176219,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5625","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Say-Hello-To-The-New-Chapter-Of-Your-Life_-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5625","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5625"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5625\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176214,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5625\/revisions\/176214"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176219"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}