{"id":56561,"date":"2020-03-26T18:34:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T18:34:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56561"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:51:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:51:07","slug":"nao-se-pode-confiar-nele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-pode-confiar-nele\/","title":{"rendered":"Obrigado Deus, por me ensinares que n\u00e3o se pode confiar nele nem em quem gosta dele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Obrigada Deus, por me ter dado esta enorme for\u00e7a para continuar, quando tudo o que eu queria era desistir.<\/p>\n<p>Obrigada pelo momento de lucidez, quando finalmente percebi que ele nunca iria mudar e quando finalmente desisti dele.<\/p>\n<p>O amor \u00e9 a coisa mais bonita do mundo. \u00c9 suposto ser puro mas, infelizmente, a maioria das pessoas aproveita-se dele.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I continue to believe in love\u2026 I just don\u2019t trust men like him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Sou um ser humano com emo\u00e7\u00f5es profundas. Acreditava no amor verdadeiro e eterno e continuo a acreditar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56565\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-young-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher bonita a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-young-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-young-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-young-woman-posing-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sou uma rom\u00e2ntica incur\u00e1vel e continuarei a acreditar no amor, n\u00e3o importa quantas vezes ele me falhe.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, quero falar sobre ele. Tamb\u00e9m preciso de lhe agradecer. Ele deu-me uma das li\u00e7\u00f5es mais importantes da minha vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por vezes, as pessoas de quem mais gostamos acabam por ser as pessoas<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/depois-de-ter-partido-alguem-em-quem-confiava\/\"><b><i>em quem se pode confiar menos.<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Agora estou grata por todas as suas mentiras. Todas aquelas noites em que ele chegava tarde a casa, depois de eu ter chorado at\u00e9 adormecer, noite ap\u00f3s noite.<\/p>\n<p>As suas desculpas eram t\u00e3o convincentes e cred\u00edveis.<\/p>\n<p>He must\u2019ve considered me a fool for believing all of them. I just trusted him more than he deserved.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn\u2019t make me a fool; that makes me a woman who loved a man more than she loved herself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56566\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-in-love-sitting-on-the-roof-top.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado sentado no telhado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-in-love-sitting-on-the-roof-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-in-love-sitting-on-the-roof-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-in-love-sitting-on-the-roof-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Confiei nele cegamente, mas ele ensinou-me que as palavras sem ac\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o t\u00eam significado.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Arrisquei-me a confiar nele, a apaixonar-me por ele, e isso causou o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. Talvez o seu amor fosse falso, mas a dor que me causou foi real.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not sorry, I did it because I loved him with all my heart and I trusted him just as much.<\/p>\n<p>Tenho de lhe agradecer por me ter feito compreender que mere\u00e7o muito mais do que ele me deu.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou uma rapariga insegura e fr\u00e1gil que deixa um homem brincar com o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e controlar a sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Estou mais forte, mais s\u00e1bio e mais confiante. Estou mais do que nunca determinada a n\u00e3o deixar que o meu parceiro afecte a minha sa\u00fade, a minha autoestima ou o meu futuro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56567\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-picking-flowers-in-the-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a apanhar flores na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-picking-flowers-in-the-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-picking-flowers-in-the-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-picking-flowers-in-the-nature-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ele abriu-me os olhos. Mostrou-me que as pessoas de quem mais gostamos podem, por vezes, ser as primeiras a virar-nos as costas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>His excuses and sick games disturbed my peace. Afterward, his presence started suffocating me but now I&#8217;m finally breathing again. I forgot how beautiful this feeling of freedom is.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He had some strange power over me. I can\u2019t even describe it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It helped to make me feel broken and incomplete. Now that he is gone, I&#8217;m finally learning to be complete on my own.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, sometimes loneliness hurts but I\u2019m also slowly learning to cope with that. I know it takes time and patience but I know that true love is waiting for me somewhere.<\/p>\n<p>I never knew that I was so brave and strong. I went through so much emotional pain and misery but that didn\u2019t break me; quite the opposite, it made me stronger.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56570\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-crossed-her-hands-and-prayes.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher cruzou as m\u00e3os e rezou\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-crossed-her-hands-and-prayes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-crossed-her-hands-and-prayes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-crossed-her-hands-and-prayes-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ele era a minha vida, a minha rocha e o meu melhor amigo. Agora, ele \u00e9 apenas uma mem\u00f3ria.<\/strong> Uma mem\u00f3ria que mudou a minha vida e a minha opini\u00e3o sobre os homens e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Estou-lhe grata por me ter ensinado a prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pessoas que me rodeiam e a ter cuidado em quem confiar.<\/p>\n<p>No fundo, acredito verdadeiramente que Deus me enviou esta experi\u00eancia para me transformar numa mulher que sabe verdadeiramente o que quer.<\/p>\n<p>E nunca mais me vou contentar com um amor que \u00e9 menos do que eu mere\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>After all, it turned out that he is the one who is weak and insecure. That\u2019s why I can\u2019t be angry, I feel sorry for him.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll never be able to feel that true and unconditional love because he is incapable of love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56571\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-in-dark-clothes-and-dark-hat.jpg\" alt=\"homem com roupas escuras e chap\u00e9u escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-in-dark-clothes-and-dark-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-in-dark-clothes-and-dark-hat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-in-dark-clothes-and-dark-hat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente. Aprendi isso da maneira mais dif\u00edcil, mas estou contente por ter sido assim. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>As suas mentiras e desculpas horr\u00edveis tiveram um efeito t\u00e3o grande que nenhum amor meu conseguiu resolver o problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Felizmente, sou uma grande guerreira que lutou contra tudo e ganhou esta guerra. Encontrei o meu caminho de volta para quem realmente sou e, apesar de ele me ter magoado tanto, ainda acredito no amor.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-dicas-poderosas-para-uma-mulher-com-problemas-de-confianca\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O mais importante \u00e9<\/span><\/a> que agora sei o que devo procurar antes de dar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m novo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Thank-You-God-For-Teaching-Me-That-He-And-The-Likes-Of-Him-Cant-Be-Trusted-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Obrigado Deus, por me ensinares que n\u00e3o se pode confiar nele nem em quem gosta dele\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Thank-You-God-For-Teaching-Me-That-He-And-The-Likes-Of-Him-Cant-Be-Trusted-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Thank-You-God-For-Teaching-Me-That-He-And-The-Likes-Of-Him-Cant-Be-Trusted-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Thank-You-God-For-Teaching-Me-That-He-And-The-Likes-Of-Him-Cant-Be-Trusted-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Thank-You-God-For-Teaching-Me-That-He-And-The-Likes-Of-Him-Cant-Be-Trusted-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thank you God, for giving me this huge strength to keep going, when all I wanted to do was give up. Thank you for the moment of clarity, when I finally realized that he would never change and when I finally gave up on him. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world. It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":56575,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Thank-You-God-For-Teaching-Me-That-He-And-The-Likes-Of-Him-Cant-Be-Trusted.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56561","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56561"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56561\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56575"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56561"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56561"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56561"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}