{"id":56598,"date":"2020-03-28T22:37:58","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T22:37:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56598"},"modified":"2022-11-20T21:57:17","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T21:57:17","slug":"o-meu-ex-quer-me-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-ex-quer-me-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu ex quer-me de volta: 15 coisas a fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re not one of those girls who looks for ways to get her ex-namorado de volta<\/a> no Google, mas os fantasmas do seu passado come\u00e7aram a reaparecer na sua vida do nada e agora aqui est\u00e1 voc\u00ea. Um homem com quem costumava sair e que estava convencida de que a tinha esquecido, est\u00e1 a tentar fazer com que lhe d\u00ea outra oportunidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

For some time, you weren\u2019t sure if it was really happening – you wondered if he was just being friendly or if you were imagining things. However, after a while, you had to admit the truth and say \u201cMy ex wants me back\u201d out loud.<\/span><\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019re utterly confused – it can be a big deal for people when one of their exes reaches out. If you\u2019re honest, this man has never disappeared from your heart completely but despite that, you\u2019re still not sure about your next move.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to help. Here are 15 things to do if the sentence \u201cMy ex wants me back, what should I do\u201d is something you have thought recently.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Identificar as raz\u00f5es da rutura<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Before you make a move and a final decision regarding this tricky situation, you\u2019ll have to look back to the past. The truth is that you and your ex boyfriend broke things off for a reason, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

This reason won\u2019t magically disappear the moment you get back together. In fact, it will still be present between you and it\u2019s your job to decide whether it is something you can overcome or if it will continue to be an obstacle in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether the reason you called it quits was a big deal, like cheating or abuse, or because your relationship hadn\u2019t been on the right track for a while – the point is pretty much the same.<\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, at one point, you both thought that you weren\u2019t meant for each other and that it was smarter to romper<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que isto aconteceu? Foi um momento de raiva e uma decis\u00e3o impulsiva de que ambos acabaram por se arrepender?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que foi porque nunca se amaram o suficiente para lutar e tentar salvar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/span><\/p>\n

These are all questions you need to have answers to before you go any further. Most importantly – you need to figure out whether this breakup was the right thing to do.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, there is a huge difference in whether we’re talking about one break up or about multiple breakups. Are you guys in the middle of a never ending circle of breakups and makeups?<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Descubra porque \u00e9 que a sua ex pode querer voltar para si<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When the sentence \u201cMy ex wants me back\u201d goes through your mind and when your ex contacts you, logically the next thing you think of are his reasons. Are his intentions honest or is this man trying to play you again?<\/span><\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea o seu o ex pode querer-te de volta<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

First and foremost, let\u2019s examine the timing. If he called you out of the blue, it is possible that he genuinely misses you and that he wants to give your relationship another shot because he sees it as true love.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, se ele tentou contact\u00e1-la porque viu que tem um novo parceiro ou porque descobriu que seguiu em frente com a sua vida, isso pode ser apenas o seu ci\u00fame a falar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, there is a possibility that he didn\u2019t realize he\u2019d lost you for good up until now but to be honest, it\u2019s more likely that his ego can\u2019t stand the fact that he is replaceable and a part of your history.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another explanation might be nostalgia. Maybe your anniversary date or Valentine\u2019s Day are approaching, or perhaps he\u2019s alone and he thought of you – not because he loves you but because he is melancholic about the good times you shared.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, let\u2019s talk about the way he contacted you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry – just because he didn\u2019t tell you how much he missed you right away, it doesn\u2019t mean that he isn\u2019t serious about you. He may just be putting out some feelers and is trying to cover his nervousness and fear of rejection with this kind of approach.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if he made some sexual references or inappropriate comments about your body right from the start, without being concerned with anything else,it’s a good sign that you should ask yourself: “Does my ex want to turn me into his booty call?”.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Descobrir o comportamento dele durante a separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Stalking your boyfriend is never a good thing to do. Besides being wrong, it will only bring you problems: he\u2019ll think of you as a lunatic who violates his privacy and you\u2019ll burden yourself with overthinking and jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, when you and your ex have spent some time apart and you\u2019re considering a reconciliation, it\u2019s perfectly acceptable for you to examine what he\u2019s been up to during this period because his behavior might have a great impact on your final decision.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s crucial to be realistic when it comes to this stage. It doesn\u2019t matter how long you spent apart – you can\u2019t expect him to have lived like a priest just because he lost you.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s quite possible that you didn\u2019t even lay eyes on another guy because you loved your ex so much but most men don\u2019t function like that. Therefore, be honest with yourself and accept that he definitely saw other girls, one way or another.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, \u00e9 completamente diferente se o seu ex dormiu com todas as raparigas que conseguiu arrastar para a cama, ou se teve uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria.<\/span><\/p>\n

No primeiro caso, \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que ele estava apenas \u00e0 tua procura em cada mulher<\/a> he encountered and he walked away from each one of them once he realized that they couldn\u2019t compete with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, things are quite different if he was in a relationship. Even if this happened, though, you have no right to be angry because he didn\u2019t cheat on you – he was a single man and acted accordingly.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean you shouldn\u2019t worry. Keep in mind that this guy evidently fell in love with another woman after you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 algo que podes aceitar? Ou ficaria para sempre entre voc\u00eas, se por acaso voltassem a juntar-se?<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Evaluate your feelings\u2026<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The next step is not connected to your ex – it\u2019s all about you and your feelings. Before proceeding any further, you have to get to the bottom of your feelings as well, which are equally important.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 mesmo sentir falta deste gajo<\/a>? Do you feel like you can\u2019t live without him?<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, acha que o ama de verdade? Ser\u00e1 que ele \u00e9 a pessoa certa para si ou \u00e9 apenas algo tempor\u00e1rio?<\/span><\/p>\n

Has he been in your thoughts all of this time or have you started considering him as an option once more now that he\u2019s started calling and texting you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of making up with this guy as a test of your emotions, evaluating them before doing anything will save you a lot of unnecessary headaches. Be honest with yourself, don\u2019t suppress your emotions and face them head on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, ele pode ser o melhor homem do mundo. As inten\u00e7\u00f5es dele podem ser sinceras, ele pode gostar mesmo de si e pode merecer uma segunda oportunidade<\/a> but if you stopped loving him,what\u2019s the point?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. …but think things through<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Follow your heart\u2019s desire, they say. Do what your feelings tell you, even if it\u2019s not the smartest move in the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t listen to anyone but yourself, they say. Give your heart the lead and go after him, no matter what happens and despite the potential consequences.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sounds romantic, I know. What\u2019s more, it\u2019s not as wrong as you might think.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, in this kind of scenario, you can\u2019t only think of your emotions. You also have to think things through before acting.<\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez ames este homem do fundo do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Talvez estivesse sempre a sentir a falta dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is possible that you\u2019ve been waiting for him to come back for all of this time. So, how can you reject him now that he\u2019s finally come?<\/span><\/p>\n

However, instead of running after him after his first hint, let\u2019s hear what your mind has to say about all of this.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be realistic: do you see a futuro para v\u00f3s juntos<\/a>? Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis?<\/span><\/p>\n

Vale a pena salvar esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Poder\u00e1 mesmo ser salva, ou est\u00e1 a tentar fazer o imposs\u00edvel?<\/span><\/p>\n

Would getting back together with this guy be a smart move, regardless of your feelings? Is this the first time he\u2019s begged for a second chance or has this become a habit of his?<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 a dar-lhe luz verde para continuar a mago\u00e1-la se o aceitar de volta agora?<\/span><\/p>\n

These are all questions I\u2019m sure you would like to avoid, but sadly you have to find answers to them. Trust me – each one of them is crucial for your happiness and they will help you a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tente colocar as coisas numa escala: h\u00e1 mais lados bons ou maus nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o? \u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que desta vez tenham sucesso?<\/span><\/p>\n

Please, be careful and don\u2019t put any effort into rebuilding a relationship which deep down you know is doomed to fail. Don\u2019t get yourself trapped into an endless circle, if you already know what the outcome will be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly – don\u2019t tornar a sua vida mais dif\u00edcil do que j\u00e1 \u00e9<\/a>. Don\u2019t sacrifice your emotional and mental health for the sake of a toxic romance.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t idealize the past<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

What you and your ex had was probably pretty intense, otherwise you wouldn\u2019t even consider voltar a juntar-se<\/a>. I\u2019m sure you two shared enormous love and had some beautiful moments.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, your idyllic past shouldn\u2019t be the reason for you to take this guy back. Instead, you should reconcile with him only if you think that you will be able to build an idyllic future together.<\/span><\/p>\n

According to more than one relationship expert, one of the worst things you can do is romanticize the past. You only remember the good times and you completely disregard everything bad that went on, so naturally, you\u2019re eager to go back to this kind of a relationship, which seems almost perfect.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re just a human being who isn\u2019t looking at things realistically and this is just nostalgia talking. Your relationship wasn\u2019t all roses and butterflies – after all, you broke up in the end, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

However, even if the relationship was good, it\u2019s not reason enough for a reconciliation. You should never make up with someone just because you share a history together, no matter how beautiful it might be.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Descobrir se pode perdoar-lhe<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

So, it\u2019s already confirmed: something happened between you and your ex which led to your break up. What\u2019s more, it was probably his fault, since he\u2019s the one initiating you two getting back together, while you\u2019re the one who has to make a decision and is having second thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para simplificar: existe uma coisa que se quer ou n\u00e3o quer perdoar-lhe<\/a> para. Esta \u00e9 exatamente uma das decis\u00f5es cruciais que tem de tomar: pode perdo\u00e1-lo por a ter magoado, ou n\u00e3o?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 capaz de ultrapassar as coisas que ele lhe fez e virar uma p\u00e1gina nova? Ou tenciona voltar sempre \u00e0s suas velhas discuss\u00f5es?<\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 pensar em reatar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele se ainda estiver cheia de ressentimentos e rancores.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong – nobody will judge you if you can\u2019t forget the past and everything that happened between you two. However, just be honest with yourself and don\u2019t make any moves you\u2019ll regret later on.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if the situation is different and if he\u2019s the one who needs to forgive you, all you can do is apresentar-lhe as suas sinceras desculpas<\/a> e esperar pela sua resposta. Fale com ele abertamente e pergunte-lhe se tem for\u00e7a para o perdoar ou n\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Find out why you want (or don\u2019t want) him back<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve got most of these things sorted out, it\u2019s time for you to make a final decision. Will you go back to this man or not?<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, quando responder a esta pergunta, tente ir ao fundo das suas raz\u00f5es, tal como fez com as dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se quer voltar para ele, pergunte a si pr\u00f3pria porque \u00e9 que o quer fazer. Ama-o realmente ou \u00e9 apenas nostalgia e ego a falar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you trying to prove to him, yourself, and the rest of the world that you\u2019re irreplaceable and that you can have this guy whenever you want?<\/span><\/p>\n

Quer marcar uma posi\u00e7\u00e3o e vingar-se de algo do seu passado? Tenciona voltar a estar com ele s\u00f3 para o deixar e faz\u00ea-lo passar pelo mesmo sofrimento que voc\u00ea passou?<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you scared that some other girl will get him, so you\u2019re doing everything in your power to prevent that from happening? Do you see this as a competition, where your ex is the prize?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you want to get back together with him because he is your comfort zone? Maybe you think it\u2019s better to go back to your old, familiar ways, even though they\u2019re bad for you, rather than search for someone new and take a step into the unknown.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, an old enemy is always better than a new friend. This guy isn\u2019t perfect but at least you know what you can expect from him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you want to take him back because it\u2019s about time you settled down and you\u2019re scared of ending up alone? Because you think you can\u2019t make it through life without him?<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you doing it because he\u2019s convinced you that you\u2019ll never find someone better than him? Because he\u2019s made you think that you\u2019re inam\u00e1vel<\/a> e que ele \u00e9 a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que t\u00eam?<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not claiming that either of this is true. However, it is crucial for you to examine each one of these questions and respond to them as honestly as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, everything mentioned above is not a reason to rebuild your relationship. Instead, they\u2019re all wrong motifs which will make your life even more miserable.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 duas raz\u00f5es simples para voltar para algu\u00e9m do seu passado: voc\u00ea e o seu ex ainda se amam de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e acha que, como casal, t\u00eam um futuro juntos. Tudo o resto est\u00e1 errado!<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Pedir ajuda<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"livro<\/p>\n

None of us can be objective and realistic about the stories we\u2019re involved in, and you\u2019re no exception. You\u2019re trying to put everything on a scale and make the right decision but you\u2019re the main protagonist of this drama and you simply can\u2019t observe things objectively.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why you need help choosing between your options. So, when your ex contacts you, turn to your best friends and closest family members for advice.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong here: you are an adult and the last thing you need is someone telling you what to do, as if you are incapable of making your own decisions. After all, you\u2019re the only one who\u2019ll have to deal with the consequences of your choices.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you get back together with this guy, you\u2019re the one who will be with him and the one who will put all of their effort into rebuilding this relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you decide to miss out on this chance, you\u2019re the one who will keep on saudades dele<\/a> and the one who will wonder whether she\u2019s made the mistake of her life.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, you’re also just a human being who is controlled by her emotions. So, in some moments, the people around you have a bigger picture and can come in handy and that\u2019s exactly why I\u2019m advising you to ask them for advice.<\/span><\/p>\n

These people don\u2019t have their emotions involved in this story, so it is much easier for them to come up with the best solution to your problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you\u2019re not bound to do what they tell you. Nevertheless, someone else\u2019s perspective will help you widen yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another type of help you should ask for is that of a professional relationship expert. You can go to a therapist on your own until you reach a conclusion, or you could ask your ex to look for couple\u2019s counseling, which may help you a lot in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry – asking for help is not any kind of weakness. Instead, it shows that you\u2019re a mature person who sees that she has a problem and has started dealing with it in an adult way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se decidires aceit\u00e1-lo de volta:<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

After a lot of thought, you\u2019ve made a decision: \u201cMy ex wants me back and I will give him outra oportunidade<\/a>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que deve fazer agora? Como se deve comportar e como pode evitar que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabe da mesma forma que da \u00faltima vez?<\/span><\/p>\n

Just follow these few tips and you\u2019re good to go.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ir com calma<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/h2>\n

O erro n\u00famero um que a maioria dos casais comete quando decidem dar uma nova oportunidade \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o facto de come\u00e7arem a agir como se nada tivesse acontecido no momento em que se reconciliam. V\u00e3o viver juntos imediatamente e colocam a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o na velocidade m\u00e1xima.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, a melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 tratar isto como um nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Remember that some time has passed and it is possible that you two have changed, so you\u2019ll need time to get to know each other all over again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Start by acting like exclusive friends who have committed to getting back together. Of course, you won\u2019t go around seeing other people and exploring other options, but don\u2019t jump into each other\u2019s bed right away either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para come\u00e7ar, recomecem a namorar. Enviem mensagens de texto de bom dia e boa noite um ao outro, d\u00eaem beijos e sejam rom\u00e2nticos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Falem sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e levem as coisas o mais devagar poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t expect your relationship to be the same<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Another thing you shouldn\u2019t do is expect your relationship to be the same. After all, something was clearly off in the way you handled things the last time you were together, which means you need a completely new approach to your renewed romance.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, tente encarar esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o como uma vers\u00e3o melhorada e actualizada da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Estabele\u00e7am novas regras b\u00e1sicas e mantenham-se fi\u00e9is a elas.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Work on your issues\u2026<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Just because you and your ex have decided to give it another chance, it doesn\u2019t mean that all of your problems have been erased or resolved. Your reconciliation is not a magic stick which has made everything alright overnight.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that the last thing you want is to go back to your old arguments now. Instead, you\u2019d prefer to enjoy each other\u2019s presence, without any worries on your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there are some issues that need to be worked on if you want to have a healthy start. Otherwise, your past demons will come and haunt you when you least expect them and they\u2019ll end up ruining your romance once again.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, please, have the courage to talk about your break up and everything that led you to it. Avoid fighting and disregard your ego – instead, join forces to find a middle ground and make sure things like that never happen again.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …and then leave them behind<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, after you\u2019re done with your past, leave it behind where it belongs and never look back. Don\u2019t carry your bagagem emocional<\/a> back into the relationship and don\u2019t allow it to weigh you down.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you resolve a certain problem, don\u2019t go back to it every time you disagree on something else. There is no point in seeking revenge, holding grudges, or being resentful and if this is something you can\u2019t seem to live without, maybe you shouldn\u2019t have tried to start over in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas os dois conseguiram ultrapassar os vossos problemas e perdoar-se mutuamente por todos os vossos erros, por isso n\u00e3o faz sentido estar sempre a reabrir as vossas velhas cicatrizes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, trabalhem para os curar e virem uma nova p\u00e1gina das vossas vidas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se decidires n\u00e3o lhe dar outra oportunidade:<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you have chosen not to give this guy another chance because you can\u2019t forgive him for the way he treated you while you were together, because you think that your relationship doesn\u2019t have a future, because you don\u2019t believe he\u2019s changed or for some other reason – the point is the same: you\u2019ve decided not to get back together with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

M<\/span>aybe you thought it was better to follow your mind rather than your heart. Maybe you saw through his intentions and realized he\u2019ll only hurt you once more.<\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, this is what you should do if you\u2019ve decided not to take your ex back, but considered doing so:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Mantenha-se firme na sua decis\u00e3o e aplique a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you decide to say a final goodbye to your ex, the only thing you can do is stick to your decision. It wasn\u2019t impulsive and you thought things through, so there is no point in thinking about all the could and should haves.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is unlikely that you two will succeed in staying friends – after all, he wanted to get back together with you, which makes it clear that your ex still has some romantic feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you had second thoughts about this entire situation, so you don\u2019t see him as a friend only either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, in this type of situation, the best thing you can do is cut all ties. I\u2019m not saying that you two should become enemies who don\u2019t have the decency to greet when they meet but that\u2019s more than enough contact.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re worried that you\u2019ll get back together with him, despite knowing you shouldn\u2019t and being aware it\u2019s not a good idea, block his number and unfollow all of his social media profiles. Apply the regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> – not to make him want you even more but to remove yourself physically and emotionally from the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

You made this decision for a reason, so don\u2019t allow yourself to fall into temptation by calling or texting him in a moment of weakness.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Concentrar-se na cura<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

Coloca toda a tua energia em curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> e a reconstruir a sua autoestima. Quer goste de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, o facto de este homem aparecer na sua vida pela segunda vez abriu algumas feridas antigas.<\/span><\/p>\n

You thought you\u2019d gotten over him completely but now, when you\u2019ve had a chance to be with him again, you\u2019ve realized it\u2019s actually not the case.<\/span><\/p>\n

Since you reconsidered rekindling with him, it is clear that you still have some feelings for him which won\u2019t disappear as easily as you expected. Don\u2019t ignore them but have faith that you will overcome them!<\/span><\/p>\n

So, instead of wasting any more time on the sentence \u201cMy ex wants me back\u201d, focus on yourself. Do whatever it takes to repair your crushed heart, to leave the past behind and to completely move on with your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tente voltar a namorar e, se se sentir preparado, arranje um novo parceiro e comece uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

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