{"id":56630,"date":"2020-03-27T11:12:06","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T11:12:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56630"},"modified":"2021-11-11T16:14:58","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T16:14:58","slug":"quanto-tempo-duram-as-relacoes-de-ricochete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-tempo-duram-as-relacoes-de-ricochete\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo duram os relacionamentos de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o? (E ser\u00e1 que funciona?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’ve started a new relationship not long after a breakup, you’ve probably considered that age-old question: How long do rebound relationships last?<\/p>\n

Well, don’t worry because today you’ll learn everything you need to know about rebound relationships and the signs that indicate whether or not it will work!<\/p>\n

O que s\u00e3o rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Before diving deeper into the matters, let’s first define what being on the rebound means.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete s\u00e3o rela\u00e7\u00f5es em que uma pessoa entra pouco tempo depois de uma rutura ou de um div\u00f3rcio.<\/p>\n

In other words, these relationships quickly follow the ending of a previous one. And you’ve probably heard from other people who have been in such relationships themselves that they don\u2019t really last for long.<\/p>\n

There’s this assumption that every rebound relationship is doomed and this has become deeply ingrained in our society.<\/p>\n

But this doesn’t necessarily have to be so. In some cases, being with a new partner right after a past relationship has just ended can be a positive experience, and often leads to something serious.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

No entanto, em alguns casos, terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de longa dura\u00e7\u00e3o e come\u00e7ar uma nova pouco tempo depois pode ser negativo e, muitas vezes, levar a um desgosto.<\/p>\n

The reason why this might happen is because rebounders often jump into a new relationship with a heavy burden of emotional instability and for the wrong reasons – of which the most popular one is the desire to distract themselves from their ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend.<\/p>\n

So, we could say that the success of a rebound relationship greatly depends on the person’s motives, emotional state, and the overall breakup situation regarding their previous relationship with their ex-partner!<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete acontecem?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

As principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais algu\u00e9m pode decidir procurar outra pessoa e entrar na zona de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o logo ap\u00f3s terminar com o seu parceiro s\u00e3o a solid\u00e3o, a incapacidade de lidar com a separa\u00e7\u00e3o e a procura de estabilidade emocional.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete acontecem quando uma pessoa decide que ter um novo parceiro a ajudar\u00e1 a curar-se ou, pelo menos, a sentir-se melhor em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o de rutura, ou que a ajudar\u00e1 a esquecer a rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior e tudo o que aconteceu no passado.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete tamb\u00e9m acontecem quando uma pessoa est\u00e1 desesperada por ter o seu ex de volta e pensa que o facto de o fazer ci\u00fames com outra pessoa o vai trazer de volta \u00e0 sua vida.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m ocorrem quando uma pessoa se sente indigna de amor e afeto por ter sido abandonada pelo seu parceiro, pelo que opta por fazer ricochete para ajudar a aumentar a sua autoestima e sentir-se novamente amada.<\/p>\n

Ou ocorrem quando uma pessoa est\u00e1 determinada a vingar-se de um ex que a tratou mal.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Rebound relationships are often a way of coping, running from old relationships and seeking a fresh life or love chapter with a new guy or girl even though the old chapter hasn’t officially finished yet.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nestes casos, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deste tipo ser\u00e1 necessariamente de curto prazo e n\u00e3o de longo prazo.<\/p>\n

Yet again, sometimes being on the rebound has nothing to do with trying to forget exes, loneliness, seeking emotional stability, or starting a new life because some people don’t need much time to heal (especially if they were the one who ended their last relationship).<\/p>\n

Nestes casos, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete tem grandes hip\u00f3teses de se transformar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 11 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso em um relacionamento insalubre de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo duram as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you’re thinking about jumping into a rebound relationship, or you’re already in one, it’s natural that you ask yourself: How long do rebound relationships last, or do they ever work?<\/p>\n

I’m sorry to disappoint you, but no one can give you an easy answer to these two questions (not even relationship experts) because it all depends on the individual, their emotional state, and the circumstances they’re in.<\/p>\n

For example, let’s say that you just ended a five year relationship with your partner.<\/p>\n

You’re feeling sad, disappointed, and lonely because you had got used to their presence and you can’t stop thinking about texting them and stalking them on social media.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

The no contact rule is out of the question because it’s too painful for you to all of a sudden start pretending that you don’t care about them.
\nEnt\u00e3o, o que acontece se entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o enquanto estiver nesse estado?<\/p>\n

Your rebound relationship is more likely to fail before it has even started because you haven’t given yourself enough time to heal and process all the negative emotions and everything that happened.<\/p>\n

Being in a five year relationship is no small thing and that’s why it requires a proper healing period.<\/p>\n

Now, let’s say that you just ended a six month – one year relationship because your partner treated you badly in one way or another. In that case, you probably won’t need much tempo para curar<\/a>mas ainda haver\u00e1 alguma raiva e desilus\u00e3o acumuladas no seu corpo.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que acontece se entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o enquanto estiver nesse estado?<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

The chances are that it will work and it will last for a great amount of time, but only if you’re not deeply attached to your ex-partner and only if you’re not entering a rebound relationship with revenge in mind.<\/p>\n

Como pode ver, existem muitas varia\u00e7\u00f5es e potenciais pormenores de fundo, pelo que a melhor forma de responder \u00e0 pergunta Quanto tempo duram as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 reformular a pergunta para \"Vai resultar ou n\u00e3o? E aqui est\u00e1 uma lista de sinais que definem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete potencialmente bem sucedida e tamb\u00e9m uma lista de sinais a ter em aten\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

Sinais de que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o vai funcionar<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Se uma pessoa que est\u00e1 a recuperar se comportar da seguinte forma ou de uma forma semelhante, ent\u00e3o a rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem grandes hip\u00f3teses de se tornar duradoura:<\/p>\n

1. Ser honesto sobre a situa\u00e7\u00e3o da separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

There’s nothing more harmful in a relationship than lies and deceit.<\/p>\n

It’s really hard (if not impossible) to build something meaningful when the very foundation is toxic.<\/p>\n

So, if someone is honest with their new partner about the breakup reasons and the whole situation, then it means that they’ve accepted everything that happened and they’re ready to move on.<\/p>\n

When a person is not ready to let go of their previous relationship, they will not be honest about the real reasons for their breakup because it’s either hard to accept or they have a twisted image in their head on what really happened.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It means that they still live in an illusion and that’s why they have a tendency to lie or keep some things for themselves.<\/p>\n

So, being honest about the whole breakup situation is a good sign that they’re ready for a new relationship and that it will last because it’s built on trust and honesty.<\/p>\n

2. Estar 100% certo de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior terminou<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o termina, cada pessoa tem uma perspetiva diferente.<\/p>\n

Alguns criam a ilus\u00e3o e o falso conforto de que as coisas podem mudar e de que um dia se voltar\u00e3o a encontrar.<\/p>\n

E algumas pessoas t\u00eam a certeza imediata de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabou e que, independentemente do que fa\u00e7am ou digam, nada vai mudar.<\/p>\n

So, when someone is 100% certain that their past relationship is over, it means they have accepted it and don’t secretly hope to reunite with their ex.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

There’s nothing more harmful for both partners\u2019 mental health and well-being in a rebound relationship than having a partner who still has feelings for their ex and who still hopes that things will eventually change.<\/p>\n

Being totally certain about the fact that their previous relationship is over means being ready to be in a new one because that’s the only way to reciprocity! There are no shortcuts when it comes to this.<\/p>\n

3. Estar totalmente empenhado na nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When someone constantly thinks about their ex-partner, it’s hard to focus on the current relationship, let alone be committed or make a serious effort.<\/p>\n

They become solely focused on the past and that’s why they can’t focus on the present and the new relationship they’re in.<\/p>\n

But, if they are fully devoted to the rebound relationship, it’s a sure sign that they’ve gotten over their ex-partner and they’re ready to devote all their time and attention to their new mate.<\/p>\n

It means they don’t think about too many \u201cwhat ifs\u201d and they don’t hope that they will be reunited with their ex again because if they did, they wouldn’t bother being fully committed to and engaged in their current relationship.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 4 comportamentos no namoro que mostram que ele est\u00e1 em recupera\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

4. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior terminou em boas condi\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

There’s a huge difference between a relationship that ends on bad terms and one that ends on good terms.<\/p>\n

As que terminam em maus termos deixam os parceiros mais angustiados e, por conseguinte, propensos \u00e0 influ\u00eancia de emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas.<\/p>\n

Isto pode afetar negativamente uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque estas pessoas entram numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma enorme carga de negatividade, emo\u00e7\u00f5es desgastantes e palavras n\u00e3o ditas.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se a rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior tiver terminado em bons termos, ambos os parceiros estar\u00e3o mais relaxados e razo\u00e1veis em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o de separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o o ver\u00e3o como algo necessariamente mau, mas como algo que era inevit\u00e1vel e esperado.<\/p>\n

Quando duas pessoas decidem manter a boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o e uma delas decide entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 qualquer fardo nem conota\u00e7\u00f5es negativas.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 espa\u00e7o para desenvolver uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e duradoura!<\/p>\n

5. Terminaram a rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

This one is pretty obvious. The person who ended the relationship won’t feel as distressed about it because it was their decision and the only possible outcome is relief. Rebounding in that situation will be 100% positive.<\/p>\n

Since they’re the one who initiated the breakup, there won’t be any confusing feelings, regrets, or similar and they won’t need much time to recover from the breakup.<\/p>\n

They know why they ended the relationship, so there’s not much space here for any type of negative emotions.<\/p>\n

This person will be ready to commit to someone else in a healthy way because there will be no burden from the past, and no \u201cwhat if’s\u201d or similar.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sinais de que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o vai funcionar<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi referido, se algu\u00e9m for levado a entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete pelas raz\u00f5es erradas, como a procura de estabilidade emocional, ou porque se sente s\u00f3 ou algo semelhante, as probabilidades de a rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o resultar s\u00e3o elevadas.<\/p>\n

Eis algumas raz\u00f5es pelas quais uma recupera\u00e7\u00e3o pode acabar mal:<\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e3o \u00e0 procura de uma alternativa para o seu anterior parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

One of the major signs that a rebound relationship will not work is if the person\u2019s motive is to find an alternative to their previous partner.<\/p>\n

In other words, if they’re looking for the same qualities of their ex-partner in a new person.<\/p>\n

Isto nunca \u00e9 bom e nunca conduzir\u00e1 a um resultado positivo.<\/p>\n

Procurar constantemente os \"ex\" noutras pessoas significa n\u00e3o estar preparado para os esquecer.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It means being aware of the fact that it’s over and that things will never be as they used to, but still not being ready to move on and forget about them.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete falha oficialmente quando se apercebe que o novo parceiro nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de substituir o ex-parceiro.<\/p>\n

That’s why taking some time to heal is necessary and the only way to a future happy love life.<\/p>\n

2. Entram numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o receio de serem novamente magoados<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se um parceiro anterior o magoou, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que entre numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o medo de ser magoado novamente.<\/p>\n

Isto significa estar constantemente atento a todas as amea\u00e7as e indica\u00e7\u00f5es poss\u00edveis de que o parceiro est\u00e1 prestes a mago\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

It means constantly asking their new partner about their whereabouts, not trusting them (even when they’re telling the truth), thinking that they’re doing something behind their back, or thinking that they might eventually do it.<\/p>\n

All this is extremely toxic for both partners and it’s the main reason why such a rebound relationship will not last for long.<\/p>\n

3. Apressam as coisas numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o se sente amado ou se ainda sente algo pelo seu ex, pode redirecionar esses sentimentos para o seu novo parceiro.<\/p>\n

Como consequ\u00eancia de lhes darem demasiado afeto, de iniciarem as coisas demasiado cedo ou algo semelhante, apressar\u00e3o as coisas numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o e o seu novo parceiro come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a sentir-se sufocado.<\/p>\n

Every relationship needs some space and time to develop at its own pace and that’s why any type of rushing can be extremely harmful and can seriously hurt any potential chances of the rebound relationship being successful.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 4 Things You Shouldn’t Do If You Don’t Want Your Relationship To End Before It Even Starts<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Se entrarem numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem muita introspe\u00e7\u00e3o pr\u00e9via<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

When someone doesn’t take some time to heal and think about their behavior and the whole breakup situation, they enter a new relationship without much introspection beforehand.<\/p>\n

Consequentemente, correm o risco de repetir os mesmos erros, mas agora numa outra rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

After a breakup, it’s essential to take some time to introspect and see what the critical things in your previous relationship were, and what can you do to improve things in the future.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way to establish healthy connections in future namoro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

5. Se n\u00e3o for o seu verdadeiro eu<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que pode impedir seriamente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete de atingir o seu potencial \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que perdeu o seu verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que isto significa? Significa entrar numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o enquanto ainda est\u00e1 magoado ou sob a influ\u00eancia de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n

The only time a partner will be genuine and their true self is when they have accepted what happened and don’t have any emotional baggage regarding their past.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 estar\u00e3o prontos para desfrutar de um futuro saud\u00e1vel quando lidarem com a bagagem do seu passado.<\/p>\n

6. Quando trazem demasiada bagagem para uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Bringing too much baggage into a new relationship is a surefire way to make sure it doesn\u2019t last.<\/p>\n

Ter alguns problemas n\u00e3o resolvidos com um ex-parceiro pode afetar negativamente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um novo parceiro.<\/p>\n

O drama, a bagagem emocional e outros aspectos negativos impedir\u00e3o um novo casal de atingir todo o seu potencial e essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 condenada ao fracasso antes mesmo de come\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete podem por vezes ser muito dif\u00edceis de compreender, quanto mais de determinar o seu curso.<\/p>\n

While there’s no real recipe for how to make rebound relationships last longer, one thing is sure:<\/p>\n

Ser honesto com o seu novo parceiro e iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete pelas raz\u00f5es certas ir\u00e1 certamente ajudar a torn\u00e1-la duradoura!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 8 fases da rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete e dicas sobre como lidar com cada uma delas<\/a><\/p>\n

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