{"id":56736,"date":"2020-03-27T09:30:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T09:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56736"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:33:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:33:47","slug":"deus-vos-proteja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deus-vos-proteja\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser solteiro nunca foi um golpe de azar, foi sempre a minha escolha e a minha decis\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando v\u00eaem uma rapariga como eu, a maioria de voc\u00eas sente pena.<\/p>\n

After all, I\u2019m, without any false modesty, a good looking, attractive, intelligent and successful girl.<\/p>\n

No entanto, tenho um defeito cr\u00edtico que anula claramente todas as minhas boas qualidades: I\u2019m single<\/b><\/a> e n\u00e3o est\u00e3o prontos para se misturarem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Segundo muitos, deve haver algo de errado comigo. Everything in my life is going smoothly \u2013 everything besides one thing: relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been alone for ages so people end up making conspiracy theories. They can\u2019t believe that I haven\u2019t been seeing anyone for such a long time.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que espero demasiado? Os meus padr\u00f5es s\u00e3o demasiado elevados? Ser\u00e1 que os homens me v\u00eaem como namorada?<\/p>\n

What is even harder to believe for most is that I\u2019m not desperate about my relationship status. In fact, I\u2019m not in the dating market and I\u2019m not actively looking for a boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, most think that these are just false pretenses and that I\u2019m lying when I say I\u2019m not bothered by the lack of a boyfriend.<\/p>\n

Eles assumem que eu passo as minhas noites solit\u00e1rias a chorar at\u00e9 adormecer e a rezar a Deus para que finalmente me envie algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: As hard as this is to believe, I don\u2019t think of my single status as a curse or bad luck. In fact, I\u2019m single by choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sim, ouviram bem: Passar todo este tempo fora de qualquer tipo de envolvimento rom\u00e2ntico foi uma decis\u00e3o exclusivamente minha e a coisa que considerei ser a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o para mim.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais f\u00e1cil do que se expor e agarrar o primeiro tipo que aparece.<\/p>\n

Some might call it spontaneous \u2013 and I don\u2019t like to meddle in anyone\u2019s choices \u2013 but that\u2019s just not my cuppa.<\/p>\n

De facto, isto \u00e9 provavelmente o que eu faria se tivesse medo de estar sozinho<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s exactly how I would behave if I thought that I needed a man to complete me and expected another human being to make me happy.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 o que eu faria se me preocupasse com o que os outros pensam.<\/p>\n

If I were to fall under pressure from my friends and family who keep asking me when I will settle down or if I\u2019m too embarrassed to keep on showing up to different events without my plus one.<\/p>\n

This is how I would behave if I was a regular girl who lives her life by the book and according to someone else\u2019s rules. However, this is just not how I roll.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. This doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019ve sentenced myself to an entire life of solitude.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019m running away from the possibility of ever encontrar o amor<\/span><\/a> ou nunca o deixaria entrar na minha vida.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Mas, Nunca me envolverei numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pelas raz\u00f5es erradas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t settle for less than I deserve just out of fear of dying alone. I won\u2019t go around dating a bunch of guys who want to get into my pants just so I could have someone to sleep next to at night.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be in a loveless relationship just because I\u2019m tired of being an outcast. I won\u2019t lower my standards because I\u2019m afraid that everyone will accuse me of being too picky.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t trade my perfectly ordered life for a relationship that will make me miserable and heartbroken. I won\u2019t trade my peace for chaos!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly \u2013 I won\u2019t seek happiness elsewhere until I acquire it by myself.<\/strong> I won\u2019t be searching for my other half. Instead, I\u2019ll do my best to complete myself.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You see, I don\u2019t need validation from anyone. I don\u2019t have to be in a romantic relationship to see my value or consider myself enough.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a man to respect me in order for me to feel confident in myself and I certainly don\u2019t need one to love me so I could love myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Therefore, if true love ever appears in my life, I will welcome it with open arms. If a man who deserves me crosses my path, I won\u2019t chase him away.<\/p>\n

However, if none of this happens, I\u2019ll be perfectly fine the way I am.<\/p>\n

\"Ser<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you see a girl like me, most of you feel pity. After all, I\u2019m, without any false modesty, a good looking, attractive, intelligent and successful girl. However, I have one critical flaw that clearly annuls all of my good qualities: I\u2019m single and not ready to mingle. According to many, something must be wrong…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":56746,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56736","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Was-Never-A-Stroke-Of-Bad-Luck-It-Was-Always-My-Choice-And-My-Decision.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56736","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56736"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56736\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56746"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56736"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56736"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56736"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}