{"id":5702,"date":"2017-09-27T09:19:16","date_gmt":"2017-09-27T09:19:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5702"},"modified":"2021-08-26T12:25:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-26T12:25:25","slug":"10-coisas-que-ninguem-conta-aos-relacionamentos-a-distancia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-que-ninguem-conta-aos-relacionamentos-a-distancia\/","title":{"rendered":"10 coisas que ningu\u00e9m te diz sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/how-to-survive-a-long-distance-relationship_us_58c96c4ae4b0934e249cbed4\" rel=\"noopener\">Rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a> can be very tough. Even though they take a lot of effort and work, it doesn\u2019t mean that they are something negative.<\/p>\n<p>If two people love each other, and if they trust each other mutually, there are no seas deep enough nor mountains high enough that can separate them. There are some things that people often don\u2019t say when being in long distance relationships, though.<\/p>\n<p>Some people remain quiet because of the bad experience and some of them just don\u2019t feel like talking about that.<\/p>\n<p>If you are about to start a long distance relationship and you actually don\u2019t know what to expect, here are some things you need to have in mind:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">People won\u2019t take you seriously when you say that<\/h2>\n<p>You know, a lot of people don\u2019t believe that couples can be faithful to each other when they are not together. Wrong!<\/p>\n<p>If two people love each other and care enough, a third person can never ruin their plans. If you really care about something, it will work. It has to! So don\u2019t bother your pretty little head with jealous people and follow your own way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\" style=\"text-align: left;\">O seu port\u00e1til ser\u00e1 o seu melhor amigo<\/h2>\n<p>Skype calls, messaging, emails, and other stuff are probably something you will do every day. It is difficult to maintain a stable relationship if you don&#8217;t make any effort.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que vai ser dif\u00edcil ver o vosso amor no ecr\u00e3 sem o poder abra\u00e7ar, mas esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas tempor\u00e1ria.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez ele tenha ido para longe para estudar e encontrar um bom emprego para lhe poder dar tudo o que merece. Lembra-te, os fins justificam os meios!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ter\u00e1 de fazer muitas escolhas dif\u00edceis<\/h2>\n<p>Por vezes, quando sentimos muito a falta do nosso parceiro, queremos ir ter com ele, mesmo que ele esteja a quil\u00f3metros de dist\u00e2ncia. Isso significa deixar os seus amigos e a sua fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n<p>In situations like that, you will have to make some tough choices. Questions like: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/charlotte-green\/2013\/08\/31-red-flags-that-a-guy-is-not-worth-your-time\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Vale a pena?<\/a>?\u201d or \u201cDoes he love me enough?\u201d will be something you&#8217;ll think about all the time.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing is to relax and not to hurry. Don\u2019t make a decision that you are going to regret later. Once you become 100% sure that he is the one, move to him!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O empenhamento \u00e9 essencial<\/h2>\n<p>Se os dois querem que isto resulte, ter\u00e3o de se comprometer um com o outro. Isso significa n\u00e3o namoriscar e n\u00e3o se atirar a outras pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>A rule is a rule. Respect your partner if you want him to respect you, but don\u2019t forget to have fun. As simple as that!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Haver\u00e1 coisas que vos far\u00e3o lembrar dele&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p>Pode ser uma can\u00e7\u00e3o que costumavam ouvir juntos enquanto olhavam para as estrelas, ou aquele filme de amor que vos faz chorar sempre.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que quase tudo lhe far\u00e1 lembrar o seu parceiro. S\u00f3 precisa de encontrar alguma for\u00e7a para seguir em frente e deixar de se preocupar com as coisas pequenas.<\/p>\n<p>No final, foste tu que aceitaste esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/marisa-donnelly\/2016\/08\/remember-strength-comes-from-within-and-youre-stronger-than-you-think\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Agora mostre a si pr\u00f3prio e a todos os outros que \u00e9 mais forte do que pensava ser.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5715 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-322819-1.jpg\" alt=\"10 coisas que ningu\u00e9m te diz sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia \" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-322819-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-322819-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-322819-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-322819-1-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-322819-1-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vais chorar muito&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p>Vai chorar, mas ser\u00e1 porque tem saudades do seu parceiro e n\u00e3o porque ele lhe fez algum mal.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se que, por vezes, chorar \u00e9 bom, porque assim deixa sair todas as coisas t\u00f3xicas do seu corpo.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, after you cry, you will feel much better. Then you will tell yourself that you need to get your shit together and move on with your happy life. That\u2019s the only way to success.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vais ficar com ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n<p>Haver\u00e1 muitas vezes em que discutir\u00e1 com o seu homem porque ele tirou uma selfie com aquela mi\u00fada gira da faculdade dele.<\/p>\n<p>E haver\u00e1 alturas em que o vosso homem se zangar\u00e1 porque h\u00e1 sempre rapazes bonitos \u00e0 vossa volta. Ouve, isso \u00e9 normal.<\/p>\n<p>Se deixar que os seus ci\u00fames acabem com a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, isso significa que nunca o amou o suficiente. Este teste \u00e9 apenas para os mais fortes, por isso pense duas vezes se for um deles.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aprender\u00e1 coisas sobre si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p>Quando algu\u00e9m que amamos est\u00e1 a quil\u00f3metros de dist\u00e2ncia, aprendemos a lidar com a dor. Aprendemos que somos muito mais fortes do que pens\u00e1vamos, e essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 fant\u00e1stica.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca duvidem da vossa for\u00e7a, mas aprendam tamb\u00e9m com os vossos erros. \u00c9 a \u00fanica forma de se sentir verdadeiramente satisfeito e realizado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p>Quando os dois perceberem que a \u00fanica forma de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 atrav\u00e9s do computador port\u00e1til, v\u00e3o apreciar muito mais a vossa conversa.<\/p>\n<p>Partilhar\u00e1 todos os seus planos e ideias com o seu parceiro e gostar\u00e1 de ouvir os dele. A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito importante quando as duas pessoas est\u00e3o longe uma da outra, por isso use-a com sabedoria.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sobreviver \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia, sobreviver\u00e1 a tudo<\/h2>\n<p>Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia tem alguns pr\u00f3s e contras. O lado bom \u00e9 que os dois desenvolver\u00e3o uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o estranha e profunda que os manter\u00e1 juntos, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if your relationship survived all that time that you didn\u2019t spend together, it sure can survive anything else!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>&nbsp; <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/long-distance-relationship-will-work\/\">It\u2019s Only Up To YOU If Your LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP Will Work!<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Long-distance relationship can be very tough. Even though they take a lot of effort and work, it doesn\u2019t mean that they are something negative. If two people love each other, and if they trust each other mutually, there are no seas deep enough nor mountains high enough that can separate them. 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