{"id":57122,"date":"2020-04-04T07:20:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T07:20:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57122"},"modified":"2021-11-29T21:45:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-29T21:45:08","slug":"como-convidar-uma-rapariga-para-sair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-convidar-uma-rapariga-para-sair\/","title":{"rendered":"Como convidar uma rapariga para um encontro: 13 passos simples para o sucesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aposto que n\u00e3o existe um homem neste planeta que n\u00e3o tenha pensado em como abordar uma rapariga de quem gosta. Como conseguir o n\u00famero de uma rapariga e como convid\u00e1-la para sair? Como \u00e9 que se arranja uma namorada<\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Pode ter-se muita experi\u00eancia, mas quando se est\u00e1 \u00e0 frente do <\/span>a rapariga dos seus sonhos<\/span><\/a> que tem <\/span>tudo o que precisa<\/span>Tudo isso se desvanece e ficamos completamente entorpecidos e sem no\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Or maybe you\u2019re an insecure, shy guy who hasn\u2019t had much luck with the opposite sex so far and who sees <\/span>jogos de encontros<\/span> como <\/span>ci\u00eancia dos foguet\u00f5es<\/span> mas espera mudar isso?<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a tentar descobrir <\/span>como convidar uma rapariga para sair por mensagem de texto<\/span> ou com a ajuda de <\/span>encontros em linha<\/span> ou quer faz\u00ea-lo pessoalmente? <\/span><\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, este \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, um <\/span>enervante<\/span> processo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019ve come to the right place to get rid of your anxiety and insecurities. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e1 um guia passo a passo para <\/span>como convidar uma rapariga para um encontro<\/span> para o <\/span>primeira vez<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Descobrir mais sobre a sua vida amorosa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Before you get the answer to the long-running question \u2018<\/span>Como convidar uma rapariga para um encontro<\/span>?\u2019 firstly, you have to know whether she\u2019s single or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want to make the situation uncomfortable for both of you and ask a married or taken girl out because she\u2019ll definitely reject you. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even if she doesn\u2019t, do you really want to be someone she cheats on her boyfriend or husband with?<\/span><\/p>\n

Se se trata de uma rapariga que j\u00e1 conheces, bisbilhota-a <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> perfis e procurar vest\u00edgios de um parceiro rom\u00e2ntico ou perguntar aos seus amigos em comum sobre ela <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembre-se de que uma rapariga pode ser oficialmente solteira, mas ainda estar emocionalmente envolvida com o seu ex ou estar presa num tipo de quase relacionamento. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can use your detective skills to find out whether she\u2019s <\/span>emocionalmente dispon\u00edvel<\/span><\/a> and if she\u2019s not, I suggest you give up on her in time unless you want to deal with loads of her emotional baggage. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, figuring out whether a girl you see at a bar and know literally nothing about is taken or not is a little bit harder, even though it\u2019s not impossible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, procure uma alian\u00e7a de casamento e, em segundo lugar, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao comportamento dela. Ela est\u00e1 a olhar para si ou para outros homens ou \u00e9 reservada e age como se tivesse um muro \u00e0 sua volta?<\/span><\/p>\n

No final do dia, se nenhuma destas estrat\u00e9gias funcionar, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em perguntar-lhe diretamente se <\/span>she\u2019s single<\/span><\/a> e dispon\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if a girl is taken, she\u2019ll admire the way you respect her before making a move and if not, better for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Trabalhar a sua confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Todos <\/span>conselhos para encontros<\/span><\/a> will tell you one thing\u2014you could be the best-looking guy in the world, <\/span><\/p>\n

Have a smoking hot body and an amazing personality to go with it but if you get all nervous and shaky when you\u2019re about to approach a girl, <\/span><\/p>\n

The chances that you\u2019ll actually get her number or that she\u2019ll agree to going out with you are low. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quer gostem de o admitir ou n\u00e3o e quer a maioria dos homens goste de o ouvir ou n\u00e3o, a verdade \u00e9 que a maioria das mulheres fica viciada em homens que agem como se fossem donos da sala. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why players get the most luck\u2014because they\u2019ve hit on girls a million times and they have the confidence that they\u2019ll succeed with one as well. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should jump from one girl to another to become more attractive to the opposite sex. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio <\/span>trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/span><\/a> se queres que mais mulheres se apaixonem por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Act like you know what and who you want and show her that you\u2019re not afraid to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t think of yourself as the perfect man, pretend that you do and I assure you that she\u2019ll believe you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember\u2014there are no such things as different leagues when it comes to dating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t devalue yourself by not wanting to approach a girl you think is better than you and trust me that you can knock any woman off her feet if you\u2019re just confident enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you think lowly of yourself, she will share your opinion. However, if you\u2019re convinced that you have a lot to offer, you\u2019ll send a positive <\/span>vibra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> and she\u2019ll like you before she even gets to know you. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Esperar pelo momento certo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you plan to <\/span>enviar uma mensagem a uma rapariga<\/span> para a convidar a sair, quer o queira fazer atrav\u00e9s de <\/span>Tinder<\/span> ou outro <\/span>aplica\u00e7\u00e3o de encontros<\/span> ou se o quiser fazer pessoalmente; <\/span><\/p>\n

Em todos os cen\u00e1rios poss\u00edveis, \u00e9 preciso encontrar o momento perfeito para o fazer. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this is a girl you\u2019ve been talking to for a while, you won\u2019t suggest your <\/span>primeiro encontro<\/span><\/a> if you know that she\u2019s in the middle of a family emergency, if she\u2019s overloaded with work or if she has exams. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if we\u2019re talking about a girl you saw in public and know nothing about her, don\u2019t ask her out while she\u2019s in the middle of a conversation or while she\u2019s super busy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, there is a huge difference between someone you see on a regular basis and a girl you suppose you won\u2019t meet ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re talking about a woman you\u2019ll run into very soon, you have enough time to wait for the perfect moment and to observe the situation carefully before making a move. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you see this as your only chance and have no idea whether you\u2019ll see this girl who charmed you ever again, be brave and go for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ask her out even if she\u2019s in the middle of something or if she\u2019s surrounded by her <\/span>bons amigos<\/span> ou fam\u00edlia; afinal de contas, n\u00e3o tem nada a perder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another important thing is to pay more attention to this girl\u2019s mood. <\/span><\/p>\n

If she\u2019s angry, cranky or about to cry, maybe it would be best to leave her alone and wait for another opportunity. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neste caso, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ela o recuse sem sequer olhar para si. Ela est\u00e1 claramente a lidar com alguns problemas e a \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 algu\u00e9m a atirar-se a ela. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, seria perfeito se pudesse esperar que ela estivesse de bom humor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Veja se ela tem um sorriso no rosto e se parece feliz em geral. Desta forma, tem mais hip\u00f3teses de ela dizer sim. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ter a melhor apar\u00eancia poss\u00edvel<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You see, girls are quite different from guys when it comes to physical appearance. They\u2019re not obsessed with abs the way men are with boobs or ass. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, you don\u2019t have to look like a fitness model to get a girl\u2019s attention (or arranjar uma namorada<\/a>) porque o teu corpo \u00e9 provavelmente a \u00faltima coisa em que ela pensa. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, just because nobody is asking you to be perfect, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can let loose completely and disregard your appearance altogether. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though most girls won\u2019t be fascinated by your abs or toned shoulders, the truth is that they\u2019re also human beings and can\u2019t help but notice whether you\u2019re attractive or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re just about to approach this girl and you still haven\u2019t had a chance to <\/span>impression\u00e1-la<\/span><\/a> com a sua personalidade, por isso a sua apar\u00eancia \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que a pode levar at\u00e9 si. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por isso, ir ao gin\u00e1sio ou praticar algum tipo de atividade f\u00edsica \u00e9 sempre uma vantagem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m de o ajudar a conseguir mais raparigas, o exerc\u00edcio tamb\u00e9m o far\u00e1 sentir-se melhor e mais confiante. <\/span><\/p>\n

Another thing is your clothes. You don\u2019t have to be dressed like you\u2019ve just gotten off a runway but you won\u2019t be wearing shorts or sweatpants in a crowded club on a Saturday night, will you now?<\/span><\/p>\n

The point is to be dressed for the occasion and not to look like you\u2019ve put on the first thing that you found in your closet. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se tiver d\u00favidas sobre o que vestir, <\/span>manter as coisas simples<\/span>; wear jeans and neutral-colored shirts and you\u2019re good to go. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua higiene pessoal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make sure you smell good at all times but don\u2019t use too much cologne because you don\u2019t want to make everyone around you noxious. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Envie-lhe sinais de que gosta dela<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Antes de tomar medidas concretas, seria \u00f3timo se pudesse <\/span>namoriscar<\/span> com a rapariga de quem gostas. O teu <\/span>sedutor<\/span> behavior will prepare her for what\u2019s coming next and you\u2019ll help yourself relax more. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you send a girl you\u2019re into the right amount and type of signals, half of your job is already done. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desta forma, ser\u00e1 muito mais f\u00e1cil para si abord\u00e1-la e \u00e9 mais prov\u00e1vel que ela diga sim \u00e0 sua proposta. <\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es na vida em que <\/span>gestos n\u00e3o verbais<\/span><\/a> dizem mais do que palavras e o flirt \u00e9 uma delas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Comece por a observar. Tenta fazer uma <\/span>contacto visual<\/span> and stare directly at her as this is a universal sign that says. \u201cI like you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look away when she stares back at you. Instead, continue maintaining <\/span>contacto visual<\/span><\/a> e continuar a seduzi-la. <\/span><\/p>\n

Smile every time you see her and make sure she realizes she\u2019s the reason for your good mood. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se os dois t\u00eam algum tipo de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o ou andam no mesmo grupo de <\/span>bons amigos<\/span>iniciar o contacto f\u00edsico. <\/span><\/p>\n

For example, \u2018accidentally\u2019 touch her every time you have the chance to; put your hand on her waist, <\/span><\/p>\n

Touch her shoulder when you\u2019re making a point or grab her hand when you\u2019re in the middle of a conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sit next to her every time you are together, whisper as close as possible to her ear while you\u2019re talking and never forget to hug her or kiss her on the cheek when you two greet or say goodbye. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Verificar o seu feedback<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It would be great if you could accomplish what you want just by sending your non-verbal signals to the girl you\u2019re into. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, sadly, for most men, things don\u2019t actually work in that simple manner.<\/span><\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, you have to follow this girl\u2019s feedback and her <\/span>sinais de linguagem corporal<\/span><\/a> antes de proceder a qualquer a\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

The last thing you want is for her to think of you as a creep she can\u2019t get rid of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, it is crucial to respect everyone\u2019s boundaries and personal space. <\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, you won\u2019t continue \u2018accidentally\u2019 touching her if you see that she is moving away every time you approach.<\/span><\/p>\n

A primeira coisa a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 <\/span>contacto visual<\/span>. Ela olha fixamente para si ou desvia o olhar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be discouraged even if the latter happens; maybe she is just shy and doesn\u2019t want you to notice right away that she is interested. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel que ela o esteja a provocar ou a fazer-se dif\u00edcil, pelo que n\u00e3o deve desistir nesta fase. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela sorri involuntariamente quando voc\u00ea entra na sala? Os amigos dela falam consigo, tentando saber mais sobre os seus interesses e estado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Does she bite her lip when she\u2019s talking to you? Or does she roll her eyes every time she sees you nearby?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ri-se das suas piadas idiotas? Toca na tua m\u00e3o ou no teu ombro quando dizes algo engra\u00e7ado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 a namoriscar ou est\u00e1 a esfor\u00e7ar-se para <\/span>namoriscar<\/span> voltar? Todos estes s\u00e3o <\/span>bons sinais<\/span> that she likes you back and that it’s safe for you to make a move. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o todas as perguntas que deve fazer a si pr\u00f3prio antes de dar o passo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que as respostas sejam maioritariamente negativas, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o automaticamente sinais para recuar; talvez a rapariga que lhe interessa precise apenas de mais tempo para relaxar antes de aceitar sair consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re getting <\/span>sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/span><\/a> and don\u2019t know what to think regarding this girl\u2019s feelings for you, just rely on your intuition. <\/span><\/p>\n

Try to be realistic but every time you\u2019re in doubt, follow your gut and I can assure you that you won\u2019t be mistaken. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Plan what you\u2019ll say<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

The number one mistake a lot of dudes make when they\u2019re trying to ask a girl on a date is that they get too nervous. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, this is something you can\u2019t control and as much as you try, you can\u2019t help but get tongue-tied, have sweaty palms and let your insecurities get the best of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, this is a girl you\u2019re into and the last thing you want is her rejecting you. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, even if you don\u2019t like her that much, you\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll get embarrassed and that she\u2019ll ruin your self-esteem. <\/span><\/p>\n

In order to avoid all of this from happening and for you to display more confident behavior, the trick is to plan ahead what you\u2019ll say. <\/span><\/p>\n

Naturally, you can never know what her responses will be so you can\u2019t memorize every line by heart, nor can you predict the outcome of the entire situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

No entanto, pode pensar nas coisas que quer dizer. <\/span><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que <\/span>frases de engate<\/span><\/a> que vai usar? Quando a elogia, vai centrar-se na sua apar\u00eancia ou na sua personalidade?<\/span><\/p>\n

Vai pedi-la em namoro de imediato ou vai tentar comunicar primeiro? <\/span><\/p>\n

Vai optar por uma abordagem mais s\u00e9ria ou vai quebrar o gelo com algumas piadas?<\/span><\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a um plano de a\u00e7\u00e3o e, se necess\u00e1rio, escreva todas as etapas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m pode consultar os seus amigos sobre este assunto; pe\u00e7a conselhos aos seus amigos rapazes e \u00e0s suas amigas raparigas. <\/span><\/p>\n

No final do dia, se tem pouca experi\u00eancia quando se trata de dar em cima de mulheres, pratique antes de tentar a s\u00e9rio. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not telling you to lead on some innocent girls and use them as your tools <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mal nenhum em iniciar uma conversa com algu\u00e9m do sexo oposto de vez em quando, s\u00f3 para o ajudar a descontrair. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Planear uma atividade<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re asking a girl out, you have to show initiative and decisiveness and the best way to accomplish that is to invite her to a specific activity rather than vaguely propose a <\/span>primeiro encontro<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se se trata de uma mulher com quem j\u00e1 teve algum tipo de contacto, esforce-se por investigar as coisas que esta <\/span>a rapariga gosta<\/span> fazer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Descubra quais s\u00e3o os interesses dela e proponha uma <\/span>ideia para o primeiro encontro<\/span><\/a> em conformidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t tell her that you\u2019ve been stalking her. Instead, you\u2019ll make it all look like a coincidence.<\/span><\/p>\n

This way, she\u2019ll think that you like the same things she does and she\u2019ll be more than happy that she found someone so similar and compatible with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de lhe perguntar se ela quer sair num encontro, mencione casualmente que, por exemplo, tem bilhetes para um concerto da banda favorita dela e pergunte-lhe se ela quer ir consigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, make sure she realizes it\u2019s a date and not just a friendly get-together. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Outro aspeto a ter em conta na sua <\/span>primeiro encontro<\/span> \u00e9 evitar torn\u00e1-lo demasiado complicado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Manter a simplicidade<\/span> e isso dar-lhe-\u00e1 mais hip\u00f3teses de ela dizer sim. <\/span><\/p>\n

Evite coisas como viagens de carro (porque ela pode sentir-se desconfort\u00e1vel a viajar com algu\u00e9m que acabou de conhecer), locais demasiado aventureiros (porque ela pode simplesmente n\u00e3o gostar desse tipo de coisas), <\/span><\/p>\n

Ir para a piscina (ela provavelmente n\u00e3o gostaria que a vissem em fato de banho ou sem maquilhagem logo de in\u00edcio) <\/span><\/p>\n

Or activities which include spending the night (she\u2019ll reject you because she\u2019ll think you expect her to sleep with you). <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembrem-se que o objetivo final deste encontro \u00e9 que os dois <\/span>conhecermo-nos melhor<\/span><\/a> e ter a oportunidade de conversar, pelo que convid\u00e1-la para uma discoteca barulhenta n\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, um simples almo\u00e7o, jantar ou bebidas ser\u00e1 mais do que suficiente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make a plan but don\u2019t stick to it too firmly. The point is for her to like you for you, not because of an amazing, expensive date idea you have figured out. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same applies if we\u2019re talking about a girl you have no clue about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, in this scenario, you can\u2019t surprise her by proposing something you know she\u2019ll like but keeping things as casual as possible is always the rule. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, when you\u2019re suggesting a date, don\u2019t ask her to go out with you late at night unless you want her to think she\u2019s nothing but a booty call. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todas as raparigas o levar\u00e3o muito mais a s\u00e9rio se lhe propuser um encontro a uma hora razo\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Iniciar uma conversa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Muitos homens cometem o erro de convidar uma rapariga para um encontro sem mais nem menos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eles simplesmente abordam uma rapariga num bar, apresentam-se e, sem rodeios, pedem o seu n\u00famero e convidam-na para sair.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que este <\/span>abordagem fria<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 ousado, infelizmente, \u00e9 pouco prov\u00e1vel que resulte, por muito boa que seja e apesar do <\/span>linha de engate<\/span> que pode utilizar. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 que as raparigas est\u00e3o sempre a ser assediadas por homens. Por isso, a maior parte delas desenvolveu uma esp\u00e9cie de mecanismo de defesa que as ajuda a defenderem-se de diferentes tipos de gajos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Consequently, almost every girl\u2019s first reaction is to tell you no. <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll reject you before she even gives you a chance and before she even takes a good look at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019re a stranger and it is completely natural for this girl to be scared of going out with someone she knows nothing about. <\/span><\/p>\n

This might sound silly to you but trust me\u2014women have different perspectives on these things since they have faced many uncomfortable situations.<\/span><\/p>\n

Knowing all of this, you should realize why it\u2019s important to find a way to start a conversation with this girl before asking her out. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014as soon as you approach her, she\u2019ll be aware of your intentions but she\u2019ll find your efforts cute and your conversation will help her relax. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O seu <\/span>iniciadores de conversa<\/span> depender\u00e1 da situa\u00e7\u00e3o; se estiver numa <\/span>cafetaria<\/span> ou bar, pode pagar-lhe uma bebida, <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are at a gym, you can compliment her workout routine and if you\u2019re at a club, you can ask her for a dance. <\/span><\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, o mais importante \u00e9 usar o seu charme e <\/span>sentido de humor<\/span> para sua vantagem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Proceder com alguns exemplos t\u00edpicos  <\/span>conversa fiada<\/span>tente apresentar-se a um n\u00edvel mais profundo do que apenas dizer o seu nome e idade. <\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, when you\u2019re about to part ways, if you see that she is digging your story, ask for her <\/span>n\u00famero de telefone<\/span> ou simplesmente sugerir um encontro no dia seguinte. <\/span><\/p>\n

 10. Tomar medidas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Some girls need time before agreeing to date a guy, no matter how much they like him, Even though you shouldn\u2019t be too pushy, waiting for too long will get you nowhere either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat around the bush and as soon as you see that she is into you, go for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos <\/span>dicas de namoro<\/span> dir-lhe-\u00e1 para <\/span>tomar medidas<\/span>Se n\u00e3o quiser ficar preso na armadilha de um avi\u00e3o, seja direto e destemido. <\/span>friendzone<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n

O mais importante neste passo \u00e9 que a rapariga perceba que a est\u00e1 a convidar para um encontro a s\u00e9rio.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going out with a bunch of other people, you\u2019re not using her to kill time and you\u2019re not about to hang out for the sake of hanging out or because you want to be friends\u2014<\/span><\/p>\n

you\u2019re asking her out because you like her and it is your job to make this clear. <\/span><\/p>\n

11. Don\u2019t make a big deal about it<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Okay, so you\u2019re super excited about going out with this girl. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat yourself up about this because that\u2019s cute and perfectly normal when it comes to someone you like.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, she shouldn\u2019t notice that this is <\/span>ci\u00eancia dos foguet\u00f5es<\/span> para si. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s your job to make her think that you\u2019re just casually bringing this date up and that you haven\u2019t spent hours or day and night thinking things through and planning ahead your every move.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, apesar de elas dizerem que querem rapazes que lhes d\u00eaem toda a aten\u00e7\u00e3o do mundo, a verdade \u00e9 que a situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 bastante diferente no que diz respeito \u00e0 maioria das raparigas de hoje.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should ignore them or play mind games to become more desirable but being too needy or desperate is also not the way to go. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you show this girl that she is so important to you, you\u2019ll scare her off. She\u2019ll be afraid that she won\u2019t be able to meet your expectations and she\u2019ll back out before she even gives it a try. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esquece a ideia de a enviar <\/span>cartas<\/span><\/a> ou longos par\u00e1grafos de mensagens de texto. Esque\u00e7a as dezenas de rosas, bal\u00f5es ou outros gestos rom\u00e2nticos. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that you want to leave a good impression and be a gentleman (after all, that is what all girls theoretically ask for, isn\u2019t it?) but trust me\u2014being too formal will only cause a counterproductive effect. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para aliviar a press\u00e3o do seu potencial par e fa\u00e7a com que o seu pedido de casamento soe o mais natural e descontra\u00eddo poss\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

12. Falar com ela em privado<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

De acordo com a maioria dos <\/span>conselhos para encontros<\/span><\/a>, one of the worst mistakes you could make when asking a girl out is doing so while you\u2019re both surrounded by people. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 inc\u00f3modo, provoca tens\u00e3o e pode tornar toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o ainda mais complicada. <\/span><\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019ll make her feel uncomfortable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never know whether she said yes because she didn\u2019t want to embarrass you in front of your friends or she rejected you because she wanted to appear cool in front of hers.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 mais prov\u00e1vel que se perca a concentra\u00e7\u00e3o desta forma. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to perform well in front of her only but also in front of a bunch of other people, which will probably make you forget everything you planned ahead. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se ela o rejeitar quando estiverem os dois sozinhos, as coisas ser\u00e3o menos embara\u00e7osas. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, se ela o fizer \u00e0 frente de outras pessoas, pode acabar por se sentir humilhado, com a sua autoestima arruinada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, another argument in favor of asking a girl out in private is your manners. It is rude to interrupt someone else\u2019s conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is especially the case if she\u2019s out with her girlfriends.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Maybe they decided to have a night for themselves and agreed on ignoring every guy who approaches them, which means you don\u2019t stand a chance right from the start.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, convidar uma rapariga para sair em privado \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a coisa a fazer se quiser obter uma resposta positiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, this is more easily done if she is someone you keep on running into but it can be done even if we\u2019re talking about a girl you are scared of never seeing again. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neste caso, espere at\u00e9 que ela se dirija \u00e0 casa de banho ou diga ao empregado para lhe enviar as bebidas e para lhe perguntar se pode aproximar-se. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get your opportunity, wait for her to be headed home and make your move there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just tell her that you\u2019ve been looking at her all night, that she is gorgeous and that you would like to stay in touch. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podes deixar-lhe o teu<\/span> n\u00famero de telefone<\/span> ou pedir o dela. <\/span><\/p>\n

13. Aceitar a resposta dela com dignidade<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you here\u2014when you\u2019re figuring out how to ask a girl out, you can go by the book, <\/span><\/p>\n

follow all the rules and steps but still don\u2019t get a chance with the girl of your interest. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is no perfect recipe for asking a girl out, nor can anyone guarantee with certainty that you\u2019ll succeed and that everything will go as planned. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, mesmo que ela o recuse, tem de o aceitar com dignidade.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that it\u2019s her right; maybe she is interested in so<\/span>meone else, maybe she still hasn\u2019t recovered from her past relationship or hopes to get her ex back,<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe she enjoys her single life and doesn\u2019t want to get into the <\/span>jogo de encontros<\/span><\/a>es<\/span><\/a> or maybe she simply doesn\u2019t like you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tough break, I know. Nevertheless, don\u2019t take it to<\/span>o personally and remember it\u2019s not the end of the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 chamar nomes a esta rapariga, insult\u00e1-la ou tentar deit\u00e1-la abaixo, especialmente se ela o recusou educadamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if she was rude, it\u2019s your job to walk away because her b<\/span>O comportamento diz algo sobre ela.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, at least you\u2019ll know you\u2019ve tried. You\u2019ve managed to win over your fear and insecurities and you\u2019ve put yourself out there. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve given your best and that is much better than not giving it a shot at all. She just decided not to give you a chance and that has nothing to do with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Na verdade, pode ver isso como uma experi\u00eancia valiosa e um tipo de trabalho pr\u00e1tico que ser\u00e1 \u00fatil no futuro, com algumas outras raparigas que certamente lhe dar\u00e3o uma resposta positiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t lose hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we advised you to take this girl\u2019s answer with dignity, we meant you should do the same if she decides to go out with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembra-se de termos dito para n\u00e3o fazer um <\/span>grande coisa<\/span> sobre tudo? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it is okay if you smile and show her that you\u2019re glad about getting a chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you shouldn\u2019t jump around and start acting like this is the only time you\u2019ve managed to persuade a girl to go out on a date with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se ela come\u00e7ar a pensar que realizou os seus sonhos ao dar-lhe um simples \"sim\", isso dar-lhe-\u00e1 muito poder sobre si e n\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que quer desde o in\u00edcio. <\/span><\/p>\n

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